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Well... i feel awkward. - 6/7/2013 5:55:01 PM   
TheDerekHarper


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I'd be bluffing if i said i had any experience whatsoever in BDSM, But i'm curious and eager to learn.

I've heard of this website via a blog post on another social network and i was curious to see what could happen.
I'm curious about all sorts of stuff and willing to try things more than once (if it works.)

Check out my profile and let's give it a try :)
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RE: Well... i feel awkward. - 6/7/2013 6:00:08 PM   
Baroana


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Welcome. You look very upset. What's that about? Relax.

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RE: Well... i feel awkward. - 6/7/2013 6:01:57 PM   
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Your best bet is just to relax and learn as you talk to people. This site is an amazing source of knowledge backed with personal experiences, I'd be lying if I said that I didn't learn anything because I sure as hell have.

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RE: Well... i feel awkward. - 6/7/2013 7:49:15 PM   
TheDerekHarper


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Baroana

Welcome. You look very upset. What's that about? Relax.


haha, i'm not. that's just the angle i took the photo :)
I have more angles but they don't look as good (in my choice of opinion.)

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RE: Well... i feel awkward. - 6/7/2013 7:58:42 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: DesignbyDesire

Your best bet is just to relax and learn as you talk to people. This site is an amazing source of knowledge backed with personal experiences, I'd be lying if I said that I didn't learn anything because I sure as hell have.


Thanks for the welcome, i feel a bit out to place here to be frank.
but i feel reassured thanks to your testimony. -- Have a great year :)

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RE: Well... i feel awkward. - 6/7/2013 8:26:31 PM   
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Oh, none of us really fit in... I will be quite frank about your photo...the panda bear hat looks immature...Now, if you are looking for a Mommy/Daddy Dom or Age Play..it may not be an issue. You list yourself as switch so I don't know if this applies...but you probably would not be taken seriously as a Dom

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RE: Well... i feel awkward. - 6/7/2013 8:47:59 PM   
TheDerekHarper


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quote:

ORIGINAL: TieMeInKnottss

Oh, none of us really fit in... I will be quite frank about your photo...the panda bear hat looks immature...Now, if you are looking for a Mommy/Daddy Dom or Age Play..it may not be an issue. You list yourself as switch so I don't know if this applies...but you probably would not be taken seriously as a Dom


haha, thanks for the input. I'll change the picture into something else, still adjusting to the changes here, trying to see which picture would fit in more than the other, and as you've (correctly noted) the panda hat is no help haha, but then again, the previous photo wasn't any better.

Still working on it, Thanks for the advice, it's much appreciated! :)

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RE: Well... i feel awkward. - 6/7/2013 10:47:13 PM   
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waves....

welcome!

Avail yourself of the sections... ask questions if you need too... have fun in the off topic section... but watch out for politics.. we can be a bunch of sharks there

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RE: Well... i feel awkward. - 6/7/2013 11:46:42 PM   
TheDerekHarper


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quote:

ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

waves....

welcome!

Avail yourself of the sections... ask questions if you need too... have fun in the off topic section... but watch out for politics.. we can be a bunch of sharks there


i'll be sure to flee the scene of the political crimes, haha i'd hate to discuss politics in an irrelevant website haha.

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RE: Well... i feel awkward. - 6/8/2013 4:21:58 AM   
TieMeInKnottss


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You're welcome. There is a great book list since you are looking to learn. I believe it is a sticky on the Genl forum

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RE: Well... i feel awkward. - 6/8/2013 5:04:43 AM   
TheDerekHarper


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quote:

ORIGINAL: TieMeInKnottss

You're welcome. There is a great book list since you are looking to learn. I believe it is a sticky on the Genl forum


I'll be sure to check it out, perhaps i'll learn a few things.
How are you doing?

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RE: Well... i feel awkward. - 6/8/2013 7:12:05 AM   
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Hi Derek, welcome to CM, on the whole we're a nice bunch here, stay loose, & enjoy yourself.

Best wishes, Gary.

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RE: Well... i feel awkward. - 6/8/2013 7:14:23 AM   
garyFLR


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quote:

ORIGINAL: TieMeInKnottss

Oh, none of us really fit in... I will be quite frank about your photo...the panda bear hat looks immature...Now, if you are looking for a Mommy/Daddy Dom or Age Play..it may not be an issue. You list yourself as switch so I don't know if this applies...but you probably would not be taken seriously as a Dom


I don't know, I kind of like the hat

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RE: Well... i feel awkward. - 6/8/2013 7:23:11 AM   
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Greetings and welcome to Cm and the forums. You have come to the right place to learn about WIITWD. There is a real good group of folks on this side with a vast knowledge about it all. Don't be afraid to ask questions, though sometimes newbies may need a thick skin here. Most here will call it like it is with maybe one or two sucker punches...and say it's tough love, but it's because they know what they are talking about. Others will be more gentle as is their nature. But please take each advice given and no matter how it comes across knowing they are sharing their knowledge with you free of charge.

Hope to see you stick around and become part of the poster here and that you enjoy your time here well doing so. Always nice to have a new face among us.

misty

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RE: Well... i feel awkward. - 6/8/2013 8:02:09 AM   
TheDerekHarper


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quote:

ORIGINAL: garyFLR

quote:

ORIGINAL: TieMeInKnottss

Oh, none of us really fit in... I will be quite frank about your photo...the panda bear hat looks immature...Now, if you are looking for a Mommy/Daddy Dom or Age Play..it may not be an issue. You list yourself as switch so I don't know if this applies...but you probably would not be taken seriously as a Dom


I don't know, I kind of like the hat


Awe, thanks mate.
I have two hats and i wear them whenever i have my business suit on haha.

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RE: Well... i feel awkward. - 6/8/2013 8:04:12 AM   
TheDerekHarper


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Rasciallymisty

Greetings and welcome to Cm and the forums. You have come to the right place to learn about WIITWD. There is a real good group of folks on this side with a vast knowledge about it all. Don't be afraid to ask questions, though sometimes newbies may need a thick skin here. Most here will call it like it is with maybe one or two sucker punches...and say it's tough love, but it's because they know what they are talking about. Others will be more gentle as is their nature. But please take each advice given and no matter how it comes across knowing they are sharing their knowledge with you free of charge.

Hope to see you stick around and become part of the poster here and that you enjoy your time here well doing so. Always nice to have a new face among us.

misty


The pleasure is all mine and i thank you so much for welcoming me to the community. -- All of you.

I couldn't have felt more at home if it weren't for the lovely community that is CollarChat Forums (not to mentioned meeting all sorts of new people by which you can freely express yourself with since they're mostly likely into the same things.)

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RE: Well... i feel awkward. - 6/8/2013 8:41:45 AM   
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Welcome Dereck. I'm pretty new to the forum and its a good crowd of dedicated and diverse kinksters here. Most everyone is very friendly unless you inadvertently hit a nerve.

The diversity here is probably a huge asset for you as you can explore all sorts of kinks to try with knowledgable folks to guide you.

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RE: Well... i feel awkward. - 6/8/2013 8:46:11 AM   
TheDerekHarper


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quote:

ORIGINAL: SwitchNSpanky

Welcome Dereck. I'm pretty new to the forum and its a good crowd of dedicated and diverse kinksters here. Most everyone is very friendly unless you inadvertently hit a nerve.

The diversity here is probably a huge asset for you as you can explore all sorts of kinks to try with knowledgable folks to guide you.


I'll be sure to stay on the lookout haha, i'm curious as to trying all sorts BDSM the community has to offer.
Thank you for the welcome, it's much appreciated. :)

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RE: Well... i feel awkward. - 6/8/2013 10:06:32 AM   
garyFLR


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quote:

ORIGINAL: TheDerekHarper


quote:

ORIGINAL: garyFLR

quote:

ORIGINAL: TieMeInKnottss

Oh, none of us really fit in... I will be quite frank about your photo...the panda bear hat looks immature...Now, if you are looking for a Mommy/Daddy Dom or Age Play..it may not be an issue. You list yourself as switch so I don't know if this applies...but you probably would not be taken seriously as a Dom


I don't know, I kind of like the hat


Awe, thanks mate.
I have two hats and i wear them whenever i have my business suit on haha.

.

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RE: Well... i feel awkward. - 6/8/2013 1:31:46 PM   
SwitchNSpanky


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I dig your enthusiasm and willingness to experiment. I don't see that too often. Way cool and very glad you could join us. Hope you find all kinds of fun.not to mention I hope you post something of your adventures. I just love posts that starts with. "so... There I was, tied to a bed.. When she came in (insert fun stuff)".

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