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sexyred1 -> RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find (6/26/2013 10:18:56 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: chatterbox24 quote: ORIGINAL: TAFKAA Oh, that's easy. Ugly women are very unlikely to possess that sense of entitlement. The denizens here don't necessarily know this intellectually, but they perceive it. That's why their response is so uncharitable. They feel threatened. She may not, actually, be attractive at all, but that's unimportant. What's important is that she is clearly perceived as young and attractive. Can you come up with some other complex justification for why a woman asks about tumblers and receives a bunch of comments about how crap her profile is and how she really doesn't understand the vocabulary she's using? I, for one, would be fascinated to hear it. BRAVO!!! Wooooooohoooooooooo. How cute. Your post seems to agree with a number of highly misogynistic and amusingly predictable comments that sound like they are coming from a true place of anger and resentment against the mods and women in general. Tragic, really. Hmmmmmm....I wonder if your posts are coming off this way because you feel your posts have been attacked? Because, ya know, no one is allowed to attack posters, only posts. Otherwise, ya know, you get banned. I think that some posters on the thread got banned. Possibly some posters on this and of course other threads, may have been let back too soon. Back to our scheduled snipes.

SimplyMichael -> RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find (6/27/2013 7:34:06 AM)
Thats rich tazzy comming from someone with a stolen naked pic for an avatar...

tazzygirl -> RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find (6/27/2013 9:10:12 AM)
Awww... You didnt know? Thats perfectly acceptable according to the rules. But, if you have an issue with it, you do have the means to contact Alpha.

evesgrden -> RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find (6/27/2013 9:46:58 AM)
Hard men are good to find; and if they're cool to spend time with, they're attractive. just sayin' With that out of the way (and with a nod to Mae West), has everyone forgotten how often we see male submissives bemoaning the looks of dominant women? Embrace the horror of unrealistic expectations in life. Women: you can blame playboy Men: you can blame disney. Count yourselves lucky, cuz good scapegoats are hard to come by. (And hard scapegoats are good to come by.... and .. oh my, nevermind)

AWingedGuardian -> RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find (7/1/2013 12:43:44 PM)
I am just going to sidestep the tension. Seeing how it appeared to be thick enough to cut with a knife, I presume I can step around it. Here's to hoping. Now, I can't help but inquire as to why... A) You're posting to vent your frustrations about locating an attractive Dominant, in a thread category specifically for asking questions. B) Why the appearance of a Dominant should matter, exactly? Tossing superficial desires aside, isn't it the personality of a Dominant that is the most appealing? Sure we can all hope for bodies like Brad Pitt or David Beckham, but in the end why are we being the source of eye candy? That isn't our role. C) You would make such posts under the naivety that people won't have anything negative to respond with? An individual isn't able to throw the word "attractive" around and claim there aren't any people that fit that description. Why? It's a relative term. It's subjective. One person may find a clean cut, trim, smiling man in a suit. Another may prefer a person with tattoos, piercings, and long hair. Another may find an individual "attractive" who is rather "average" by societal standards. Why? Because they find it "attractive" to be able to be comfortable around that person. So why, exactly. Was this topic posted here in the first place?

dearlydarren -> RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find (7/8/2013 2:52:07 PM)
It comes natural to us.. If we want it we get it.

TizzyTara -> RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find (7/15/2013 2:30:29 AM)
Fact is, we are all attractive to someone! It's not just physical looks. I think as long as a person looks after their health and has good hygiene and self care habits then they will be seen as 'attractive' to another.

TNDommeK -> RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find (7/15/2013 8:29:14 AM)
Op, what do you consider attractive? Also, there are a lot of men who are sexy as hell, but won't have Facebook, or tumblr, etc. some just don't mess with it. But browsing pics on the other side might help.

ResidentSadist -> RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find (7/15/2013 11:46:28 AM)
Being the most interesting (and attractive) man on Earth has its draw backs. Now I am supposed to post my photo album on tumblr! The work never ends, think I'll have a Dos Equis and enjoy the comforts of the pool instead.

Kana -> RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find (7/15/2013 5:08:36 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist Being the most interesting (and attractive) man on Earth has its draw backs. Now I am supposed to post my photo album on tumblr! The work never ends, think I'll have a Dos Equis and enjoy the comforts of the pool instead. With great power comes great responsibility

OsideGirl -> RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find (7/15/2013 5:20:14 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TNDommeK Op, what do you consider attractive? Also, there are a lot of men who are sexy as hell, but won't have Facebook, or tumblr, etc. some just don't mess with it. I never had any problem finding attractive Dominant men. But, I also didn't live my life on a website. I went out attended events and met people.

TNDommeK -> RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find (7/15/2013 5:21:28 PM)
This^^

lobster123 -> RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find (7/16/2013 11:26:54 PM)
Maybe you can't find someone like yourself

hrxxx -> RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find (7/17/2013 3:14:38 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Airlia I'd like to find dominant men's tumblrs. Are there any good ones I can visit, or are their people that are willing to help create a genuine and modest tumblr focused on bdsm and perspective? Well since you are only looking for porn pic´s of Dominant, then you can find some here Dom/Sub of Dominant and Submissive Just understand that this is not how the real world looks like

ResidentSadist -> RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find (7/26/2013 7:20:39 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Kana quote: ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist Being the most interesting (and attractive) man on Earth has its draw backs. Now I am supposed to post my photo album on tumblr! The work never ends, think I'll have a Dos Equis and enjoy the comforts of the pool instead. With great power comes great responsibility Wise words.

switchingitup -> RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find (7/28/2013 8:13:56 AM)
:(

breetge -> RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find (7/29/2013 3:45:43 AM)
Many self declared Dominates, Masters, Sirs, Lords, and Superiors remind me of the awkward unattractive guys you knew in high school who would form garage bands primarily as a means to get girls to fuck. Interesting in that the garages and basements they used to practice and play in are now the home of their dungeons where they still practice (jerk off) and play in. 'Cept so many have a vanilla wife waiting for them upstairs tapping her foot and holding a rolling pin "I'd rater have a bottle in front of me than a frontal lobotomy" Tom Waitts

MasterCaneman -> RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find (7/29/2013 7:02:32 AM)
Well, bless your heart but aren't you just a ray of sunshine? Like everyone else, I always like being painted with a broad brush by someone who apparently is all-knowing of everything "Dominate". And I'll have you know, my band practiced IN THE GARAGE! So there. Nyah. [;)]

MrCollarMe -> RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find (7/29/2013 7:16:18 AM)
Wow - I love this post.

sunshinemiss -> RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find (7/29/2013 9:37:44 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AWingedGuardian B) Why the appearance of a Dominant should matter, exactly? Tossing superficial desires aside, isn't it the personality of a Dominant that is the most appealing? For some people, yes. And yes, the more I like someone, the better looking they become. However, I am clear that I want a man who is athletic, intelligent, creative, and bilingual. If he is missing any of those things, I eventually get bored and can dance circles around him. Even if he has the best personality on the planet, he's not going to be able to keep up with me. Sure we can all hope for bodies like Brad Pitt or David Beckham, but in the end why are we being the source of eye candy? That isn't our role. Bullshit. If you aren't attractive, you are not gonna give me a wettie, plain and simple. Some men think that they don't need to look good, don't need to dress for dates, don't need to care for their bodies and health. That's just utter nonsense. Damn right I want a man that I look at and totally objectify every now and then. Hell yes, I want to look at that fine ass and enjoy it... feel my mouth water as he takes off his shirt... get all tingly when he moves just so. And hoping does nothing. You want a body like X person? Get off the couch, lift some weights, do some exercise, put the beer and banana nut muffin down. Fine men come in all types of contours. But the man who isn't aware of his role as eye candy (along with other roles) is simply deluding himself. C) You would make such posts under the naivety that people won't have anything negative to respond with? An individual isn't able to throw the word "attractive" around and claim there aren't any people that fit that description. Why? It's a relative term. It's subjective. One person may find a clean cut, trim, smiling man in a suit. Another may prefer a person with tattoos, piercings, and long hair. Another may find an individual "attractive" who is rather "average" by societal standards. Why? Because they find it "attractive" to be able to be comfortable around that person. Fair enough... but generally speaking "not taking care of the old temple" is NOT gonna be considered attractive. That's simply built into us. So why, exactly. Was this topic posted here in the first place? Because someone had a relevant request / question and asked it.

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