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lady friends question - 6/11/2013 10:33:56 PM   
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i was chatting with a lady about my age, 50+....she asked me if i could describe the lesbian in me...i have not yet answered her...what does she mean by this?
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RE: lady friends question - 6/11/2013 10:37:34 PM   
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ROFLMAO... I nearly spit laughed on that one.

I'd hide my profile on that one too.

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RE: lady friends question - 6/11/2013 10:39:07 PM   
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I would assume you'd describe the lesbian in you, if there's a lesbian in you. How she got there, if she's still living, etc.

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RE: lady friends question - 6/11/2013 10:57:01 PM   
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how can a male be a lesbian...i am not sure what she meant..i quess i will find out when i chat next time.....

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RE: lady friends question - 6/11/2013 11:05:20 PM   
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Quit talking to yourself. It's confusing you.

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RE: lady friends question - 6/11/2013 11:33:21 PM   
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RE: lady friends question - 6/11/2013 11:43:38 PM   
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Personally, it's not a phrase that I would have used. I tend to think that males who identify as male who want to indoctrinate a part of the lesbian culture for themselves are attempting to cheapen the lesbian identity and culture. Somewhat similar to asking you about your inner African American.

Perhaps she is making a joke with you on account of your phallic oriented screen name.


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RE: lady friends question - 6/12/2013 3:25:07 AM   
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I'm a lesbian in a mans body. Am I having an identity crisis ?

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RE: lady friends question - 6/12/2013 6:04:09 AM   
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A lesbian is a woman attracted to women.
A het man is a man attracted to women.

They share in common attraction to women. They differ in gender.

I assume her question asks what about you is male vs female. Ignore your sexual desires and what defines the rest of you?

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RE: lady friends question - 6/12/2013 6:23:26 AM   
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Are you calling me a lesbian, Steven? How dare you! I've *never* fancied Sigourney Weaver.

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RE: lady friends question - 6/12/2013 6:26:09 AM   
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Just a thought, OP: you could actually be honest with her and tell her you do not understand the question, and ask her if she could explain what she means.

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RE: lady friends question - 6/12/2013 9:42:21 AM   
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RE: lady friends question - 6/12/2013 11:21:19 AM   
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As others said it is best that you ask the lady, but if I were to guess, she might be letting you know your place....as in your dick is of no use to her.

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RE: lady friends question - 6/12/2013 4:51:35 PM   
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i was chatting with a lady about my age, 50+....she asked me if i could describe the lesbian in me...i have not yet answered her...what does she mean by this?

I'd hide my profile too if I were a guy asking that question. lol Seriously, you should ask her what she means. None of us really have a clue what goes on in her mind. Communication skills are a really good thing. Use them.

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RE: lady friends question - 6/12/2013 7:40:43 PM   
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ORIGINAL: BONERR

i was chatting with a lady about my age, 50+....she asked me if i could describe the lesbian in me...i have not yet answered her...what does she mean by this?




To ME she is asking about your feminine side and what you like in women but I am not her. So you are better off asking her.

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RE: lady friends question - 6/13/2013 5:30:27 PM   
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I'd describe the lesbian in me as kind of burnt. Should have taken her out of the oven a lot sooner.

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RE: lady friends question - 6/14/2013 9:09:09 PM   
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My word, how much KY did it take to get her in there? I find the whole "lesbian in a man's body" thing to be insulting to genuine queers. I would ask her what she means.

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RE: lady friends question - 6/14/2013 10:34:28 PM   
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i was chatting with a lady about my age, 50+....she asked me if i could describe the lesbian in me...i have not yet answered her...what does she mean by this?


Unless she thinks you're a cannibal who eats lesbians... Okay, I'll admit it...I have no idea what she could be talking about.

Ask her to clarify what she said to help you understand (and then give me a clue).

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RE: lady friends question - 6/14/2013 11:50:27 PM   
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Sooooo.... What did you tell her, Bonerr?

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RE: lady friends question - 6/15/2013 3:34:01 AM   
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ORIGINAL: BONERR

i was chatting with a lady about my age, 50+....she asked me if i could describe the lesbian in me...i have not yet answered her...what does she mean by this?




To ME she is asking about your feminine side and what you like in women but I am not her. So you are better off asking her.


To be serious, I'd imagine something similar. And/or that it was her way of trying to get the OP to relate to her - maybe in general, or maybe particularly sexually - in a more sensitive, empathetic way. For instance, one would imagine that a lesbian, unlike perhaps a het male, would know exactly where to find a clitoris and what to do with it once located.

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