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Rasciallymisty -> RE: Bringing the posters profile into her question was for what reason? (6/12/2013 5:59:54 PM)

Wow I got some really good answers back so thank you all that have answered. I have to be honestly I wasn't really asking because I did not know these answers I already did. LOL you can not be on the forums for 9 or more years and not get to know most of you through your post. I asked because I was hoping that for the ones that this becomes such a heated debate for them, that they might find answers as to why some of us do look and bring the information from the profiles more forth coming. The answers you all gave ...everyone of them ....are vaild reasons. Hopefully some will now see why....so the next time the question comes up...."Bringing the posters profile into question was for what reason? " there will be a thread with some answers as to why.

Thank you all once again
~misty~



littlewonder -> RE: Bringing the posters profile into her question was for what reason? (6/12/2013 6:00:38 PM)


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ORIGINAL: SwitchNSpanky

Hmm. Not to divert the topic. But I did not fill out my profile because I figured that would be the best way to discourage folks from hitting on me here. Wife and I are monogamous. And I just want to talk to yall. But now I'm wondering if that makes me look like a Troll. I obviously don't want that either. Do y'all think I should fill out the profile and just clearly state "I don't want none!". Or am I ok leaving it alone?


I have nothing in my profile because I'm not searching either since I'm in a relationship. I'm just here to hang out on the forums. So if you're not looking for anything then don't be concerned about it. Does it really matter if someone sees you as a troll?



shiftyw -> RE: Bringing the posters profile into her question was for what reason? (6/12/2013 6:00:47 PM)

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Hmm. Not to divert the topic. But I did not fill out my profile because I figured that would be the best way to discourage folks from hitting on me here. Wife and I are monogamous. And I just want to talk to yall. But now I'm wondering if that makes me look like a Troll. I obviously don't want that either. Do y'all think I should fill out the profile and just clearly state "I don't want none!". Or am I ok leaving it alone?


I can tell you that for me this approach hasn't worked. I'm not married but I'm happy and monogamous. But I'm probably too nice in it. And I thought I had to fill out all the interests (which was dumb of me)...and now I'm too lazy to go back and uncheck all those boxes, so I think that is a bit too inviting as well.

ETA: That is to say, I would leave it alone if you aren't looking for anything.



Rasciallymisty -> RE: Bringing the posters profile into her question was for what reason? (6/12/2013 6:11:40 PM)

When I was with Brad I did not use my nick it just sat and it read Very Happy with the one I am with. I have seen some that have read, here for the forums only. Sometimes it nice to get mail....I have made some life long friends through a few of them. Its nice having you on board with us and to see you posting and hope you will keep doing so.


~misty~



JeffBC -> RE: Bringing the posters profile into her question was for what reason? (6/12/2013 6:19:37 PM)

I find that an odd question. The profile is background information that frequently fills in a lot of information. I go to the profile pretty much every time I am not sure what the question means or if something seems odd.



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