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Good Evening Everyone! 23/m sub here! - 6/14/2013 5:31:06 PM

Submissiveguy29

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Hello lovely Dommes and subs! I am indeed a 23/m sub from Chicago. I'm completely new to BDSM and have never had any R/T experience. I've had a couple interesting online encounters, but they never lasted. I believe a connection is necessary in something like this, so I'm looking to make friends, learn, experience, chat, and hopefully find that Domme who is totally right for me. =) Please check out my profile and send me a message if you're interested!!

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RE: Good Evening Everyone! 23/m sub here! - 6/14/2013 6:38:38 PM

Rasciallymisty

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Welcome to CM and the forums, this side is where discussions take place the other side is where you will find that in which you seek hopefully. I do not wish to dissapoint you but you are looking for a UNICORN among many. Male subs out number Mistress like 100/1 so that narrows your chances big time. Your profile really does not give any of them a reason to even look your way. My suggestions would be....

1- Great intro so that is a plus and so is your age, but do not ask them to check your profile out. The ones here will only do so because they want to see who is behind a post if you continue to post.

2- Make your profile one that the Dommes on the other side will want to read. Tell them what your likes are in the vanilla world your enjoyments other than sex. But do not make an all about me profile or all about your D/s likes and dislikes.

3- Head down to the Mistress thread and do some reading and see what they like and are all about. Maybe join in some of the discussions and always be respectful if you do.

4- Do a search on this side ( little button up there on top ^^^^ on the right hand side) and see how others sub have wrote their profiles or look at some on the other side to get some ideas.

5- Never post nude pics.....women tend to dislike them. So that is a big yes on ditching your pics you already have. They like action pics of you doing things like maybe boating, skiing, things along those lines. Things you are into not related to D/s.

These are just a few suggestions and some helpful advice. Its nice to have you join us here on the forums and hopefully you will stick around and join in on some of the discussions. Do beware some peeps are super kewl on this side and some not so kewl. Have a thick skin and you will do fine. Hope you enjoy your time here.

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RE: Good Evening Everyone! 23/m sub here! - 6/15/2013 8:33:02 AM

OohAahMrs

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Hey there, welcome, yeah, we're all lovely.

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