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RE: Facial bondage/distortion - 6/15/2013 10:37:42 AM

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Kriss13, my screen name is SexyRed1, the title underneath that is one that the mods were kind enough to give me. When you post alot here you get certain designations and you can also ask for something particular eventually.

Thanks for your further clarification on your fetish. I always try and understand the psychology behind what other people find hot, so much appreciated.

I am sure you will find others who share this view with you.

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RE: Facial bondage/distortion - 6/15/2013 11:22:47 AM

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Your fetish isn't my thing, but I am impressed with how you express yourself. Welcome to the forums.

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RE: Facial bondage/distortion - 6/15/2013 11:26:49 AM

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Yes i only just noticed, but then again the reply was at a glance, as i had focused on what you had written and looked only so far as to see magically delicious. so apologies.

And what is your psychological diagnosis?

Also with regards to writing on here, what do you mean by designations and eventually asking for something?

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RE: Facial bondage/distortion - 6/15/2013 11:29:44 AM

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Dark steven, thank you. and thanks again to those who have responded to my introduction.

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RE: Facial bondage/distortion - 6/15/2013 11:43:56 AM

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quote:

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Yes i only just noticed, but then again the reply was at a glance, as i had focused on what you had written and looked only so far as to see magically delicious. so apologies.

And what is your psychological diagnosis?

Also with regards to writing on here, what do you mean by designations and eventually asking for something?

When I said psychological, I did not mean there had to be a reason or diagnosis; I am not a therapist. I can only analyze myself.

What I actually meant is that I appreciate when someone writes well about why they like something and you did.

The ice cream cone you have is one of many designations bases on how many posts you have. There is a link somewhere on this.

When you have been around long enough you can ask for a special term, like my magically delicious. You can see lots of cute titles on posters.

If you see deranged, etc. those are the standard post count designations.

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RE: Facial bondage/distortion - 6/15/2013 12:02:41 PM

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To Sexyred.

I see, well thank you for being informative and taking the time to write, hopefully i haven't demonstrated to much haste or ignorance.

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RE: Facial bondage/distortion - 6/15/2013 12:05:50 PM

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http://www.collarchat.com/m_117979/tm.htm
This is the administrative explanation of the designations.

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RE: Facial bondage/distortion - 6/15/2013 12:09:07 PM

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I get that,but I dont get the pictures.What is that under my name

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RE: Facial bondage/distortion - 6/15/2013 12:19:47 PM

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I need to becareful with my face. My right cheekbone was shattered when I was a teen and I needed to have facial reconstructive surgery. My right cheekbone was shattered so badly, that the Dr. had to put titanium plates in where my right cheekbone use to be. My right side of my face still feels the numbness from that surgery and that was over 15 years ago. The only one good thing that came out of that was that the Dr. had decades of experience with facial surgery. I do not have 1 scar from that surgery. However,because of the nature of some of the things I do, I have had to let whoever the Lady is that may be dominating me, know about this. Facial distortion is a very hard limit for me as for good reasons.

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RE: Facial bondage/distortion - 6/15/2013 12:21:55 PM

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Ouch, Charles, that sounds nasty and it's sensible and understandable that you personally would stay away from the concept of facial bondage. It's an interesting idea that I'd never thought of though.

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RE: Facial bondage/distortion - 6/15/2013 12:25:35 PM

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I didn't even realize how bad the damage really was until I was in the hospital and I saw my face in the mirror. I was not a pretty sight. Any fetish that involves destruction to the face naturally brings back some bad memories. For me, its best I avoid that particular fetish. Although I have nothing against those who are into it.

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RE: Facial bondage/distortion - 6/15/2013 12:51:22 PM

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Yes unfortunately for those who have experienced a real accident or some form of disfigurement either short term or long term this subject may be a little sensitive and even considered a little ignorant, especially if something quite special has actually been compromised, so apologies for any offence caused or for possibly provoking painful memories.

However for me the idea is not to permanently modify or to cause damage, only to use the natural shapes holes and contours of the face with implements that would allow the dominant to produce over emphasized expressions on the face of there subject in a way that is as much sensual as it is slightly sadistic, the act is not necessarily important its more like what the act represents and how one feels when in such a scenario.

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RE: Facial bondage/distortion - 6/15/2013 2:25:46 PM

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Though there is a deeper appeal of being opened up when faced with a face streched and held in distorted position, so essentially its the feeling of being bound helpless and open in a very personal way since are face is sacred and seen by all.

Hmm.. I find you interesting. Raw. Descriptive and painting a real picture in my head of what the application looks like. I grok it.. but what is above - that's substance and that's very appealing to me.

It causes me to wonder if that distortion takes off a mask or puts one on to hide behind. A human caricature of a human. It's kind of fascinating, actually. I've always gone more for the standard objectification (you're a table, be a stool sort of thing) - I might need to explore this.. it seems to go well with some of my own ideas for self-reflection in addition to the great benefits one can receive from learning humility <--needs those sorts of lessons on occasion.. less often than I used to though.

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Though obviously not for all, infact i dont think for many, but its an acquired taste, oh and even though you may personally feel ugly insecure or exposed, for those few that enjoy humiliation and dehumanization will find the ugliness extremely attractive.

I don't know that I would ever find it attractive.. I suppose I would have to go there and see what happens but if it's deep and brings truth, I appreciate that even if I don't always find it a beautiful thing. I don't need beauty in everything though.. sometimes a little ugly makes you appreciate beauty in a way you otherwise wouldn't.

I wasn't expecting to find a gem when I got online today, so thanks.. and welcome to the forum. I hope you stick around.

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RE: Facial bondage/distortion - 6/15/2013 3:21:47 PM

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Hello Bita Truble. Thank you for your response, i think anyone speaking from my point of view or any other would agree that your message is incredibly well written which id explain as a form of sensual sophistication which aswel as being thought provoking is also incredibly in-depth.

Of course when i refer to a face thats been distorted as ugly i speak from a perspective and conventional comparison that at a glance one would likely say what the f**k, speaking from my own experience and for me bdsm is about the dynamics of interaction by experiencing the nature of the scenario by placing ones self in positions and scenarios that by there very definition and association breeds a feeling of humiliation, degradation, helplessness and so on. For me it is the way that it feels that is far more important than what the individual components of the scenario might look like, if the idea of being humiliated or degraded provides stimulation then producing that act or theme provides the stimulation or excitement one may be looking to experience. And the reasons i think that ugly or disturbing is by those that enjoy it considered extremely beautiful by what the face represents.

Though i do also like the idea of human furniture, though id be thinking of something more creative than a few of the basic examples that i have come across.

I think also having your face spread is like having your pants pulled down in public, your exhibited and naked with no where to go but to except your unfortunate predicament.

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RE: Facial bondage/distortion - 6/15/2013 3:56:06 PM

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All girls I have ever sessioned or shot a video with, I made sure to let them know about my right cheekbone. Some dominant women like to smack a guy in the face, so I do need to be extra careful around that. I have had to refuse doing certain types of videos that would involved some sort of "facial punishment." The girls I have been around have respected that limit. Although, its other parts of my body that get hurt then,lol.

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RE: Facial bondage/distortion - 6/15/2013 8:23:43 PM

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They also use things like clamps, mouse traps and a couple of lengths of bamboo with the tongue sandwiched between and secured together with elastic bands that act as a lever pushing against the mouth through which the tongue is pulled through the bamboo and the elastic tightend, so the tongue sticks out.

Welcome to CM.

Given what you're seeking, surely you've seen Steve Martin's performance as a sadistic dentist in "Little Shop of Horrors"?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bOtMizMQ6oM

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RE: Facial bondage/distortion - 6/15/2013 8:57:36 PM

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There's also the other horror movies the "Dentist" and the "Dentist 2". I hated going to the Dentist before,lol.

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ORIGINAL: kriss13

They also use things like clamps, mouse traps and a couple of lengths of bamboo with the tongue sandwiched between and secured together with elastic bands that act as a lever pushing against the mouth through which the tongue is pulled through the bamboo and the elastic tightend, so the tongue sticks out.

Welcome to CM.

Given what you're seeking, surely you've seen Steve Martin's performance as a sadistic dentist in "Little Shop of Horrors"?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bOtMizMQ6oM

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RE: Facial bondage/distortion - 6/16/2013 4:19:43 AM

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Cant say i have seen it, though a fictional horror comedy beyond the similar tools has little to do with the reality of someones bdsm interests.

Though having said that there is a evil dead movie where a women gets attacked, tangled up and dragged away by a bunch of vines from the ground, and i remember getting turned on by that, so who knows.

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