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FieryOpal -> RE: Female Supremacy (5/2/2014 9:54:12 PM)
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ORIGINAL: bowedB4Women
Personally I don't want to be degraded, I don't owe my servitude, it's given out of respect, because a Dommie clearly demonstrates that's she is indeed a Dommie. There's a relationship, friendship, etc. a real Dommie ( if mine ) will know that, and address it, that's why She's Dommie.
maybe Gonna be called unreasonable, but that's my view. Maybe even unattainable again, but who wants fish sticks when lobster can be had?
Stick to your guns then, because you're not among those male subs who want to be humiliated. Not all Dommes are into humiliation & punishment dynamics. (For some reason the two seem to go hand in hand.)
Unfortunately, there are some Dommes who are so accustomed to dealing with the kind of sub who wants to be degraded or who acts servile that they start treating all male subs-slaves in this manner.
Often these are women who are caught up in a role they feel compelled to play that they feel is expected of them. It isn't just women either. There are Dominants who mistake dominance for acting domineering and aggressive.
These sorts of Dominants are often insecure and/or inexperienced and may not even be Dominant.
This isn't the type which suits you, and as long as you are true to yourself, you'll eventually find the right match.
Btw, unless you want to start getting called "subbie" or "subbieboy," you should refrain from calling us "Dommie." [>:] We are Dommes.
It may be a term of affection on your part, but there are Dommes who will take offense to this, just as there are subs who are offended by the term "subbie."
Unless it is the name she goes by, don't refer to a Domme as "Mistress" or "Goddess" either. She's not your Mistress yet, and she may prefer to be addressed differently. [:)]
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