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BambiBoi -> RE: What to do when Master wishes you to switch for him? (6/18/2013 10:16:03 PM)

There's three possibilities I see:

1) He's secretly a little sub, and wants to switch a little. This could be an issue in your power dynamic if you cannot abide it.
2) He likes it rough. A lot of people have animistic desires that include being bitey.
3) He's trying to draw you from your shell.

Knowing nothing more, I'd wager its #3. In my experience, new submissives don't realize they have become pillow princesses when it comes to submission. They get this idea that happily permitting their partner to instigate acts is service. Service is work. "They don't call it a blowjob for nothing." Submission has an active component as well, and engaging in it (even if the actions seem toppish) is not the same as switching. When I am a dominant, I love having a sub pop into my lap unprovoked and scratch at my chest and nibble my ear. When I submit, I love having a domme deigns to sit on my lap unprovoked, and scratch at my chest and nibble my ear. Same actions, but the power structure is totally different.

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SimplyMichael -> RE: What to do when Master wishes you to switch for him? (6/18/2013 10:23:29 PM)

I have recyled this a time or two, it was originally for another "a dom cant order" something thread and I wrote this...
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The only reason I haven't done prostate massage is the only thing I enjoy up my ass is someone's greedy tongue.  However, IF that changed and I decided I wanted to be fucked in the ass for MY pleasure it just might go something like this... 

Sitting on the edge of the bed watching her crawling across the room with her *strap* on shoved so far down her throat that she is gagging and drooling on it.  Then kneeling beside me and licking up the lube from the bowl she uses her tongue to fill my ass with slippery lube and when I command her she stands and puts on her *strap* on.  She fucks me EXACTLY how I desire, whether than is me moving myself at whatever pace pleases me or my laying there so I don't have to work while she sweats away fucking me for my pleasure.  AFTER I cum she greedily cleans that dildo with her mouth for my viewing pleasure, showing me how badly she wants to taste my ass. 

Yeah, it might just go something like that and anyone who can see my submission in there just aught to start saving some money so they can go and buy a frigging clue.  Being dominant is about doing what other people think you should do, it is about doing EXACTLY whatever the fuck it is YOU want to do, and finding someone who either longs to do the very same thing or whom you inspire to do it anyway. 


A domme I know is rather insistant that her subs fuck her hard and rough cause thats how she likes to be fucked, even if a half hour before they were at the movies and she had filled his drink.cup with her piss for him to drink.

Its rarely the act, its the motivation and delivery. A punishment that works well when teaching someone not to be bossy is "yes mistress" delivered with over the top sarcasm.

Just like pushing any boundary, its a balancing act. Few subs would enjoy having to "do" their dominant but to a sadist thete can be perverse pleasure in the potential mindfucks, lol.










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