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robertodom1 -> RE: Clothed or naked? Dressing in BDSM (6/17/2013 10:23:34 AM)
I think that's a language problem... English is not my mother language and I don't know how to use well terms

Moonlightmaddnes -> RE: Clothed or naked? Dressing in BDSM (6/17/2013 10:55:32 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt During an actual play scene, naked is required. I do own and enjoy wearing lingerie -- and he seems to like it, too. He rarely asks for it though. Like Athena, most of my 'serving' involves good old fashioned housework, running errands, making appointments, and things that require me to be out in the real world. :) yeah I would create quite the scandal if I walked into the water department naked.

Dyfrynt -> RE: Clothed or naked? Dressing in BDSM (6/17/2013 12:31:16 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: robertodom1 well... as a Master(even if without experience), This is a contradiction in terms, my friend. One may have the potential to be a Master, but you are not one until you've done the training. I wish people wouldn't be in such a rush to claim the Master title. A Master without training, to me, would be considered a Dom. As in a dominant personality. To the OP, this is one of those questions where any answers we give you are essentially meaningless. Because all that matters is what your preference is. For me personally, my slave is always naked when we are home, whether we are in a scene or not. I happen to enjoy the female form and I do not want anything in the way, well except for collar and cuffs of course. But that is just me. You do what feels right for you.

stef -> RE: Clothed or naked? Dressing in BDSM (6/17/2013 12:35:12 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Dyfrynt This is a contradiction in terms, my friend. One may have the potential to be a Master, but you are not one until you've done the training. I wish people wouldn't be in such a rush to claim the Master title. A Master without training, to me, would be considered a Dom. As in a dominant personality. ... You do what feels right for you. As long as you don't dare call yourself a Master without first getting permission, right?

Kana -> RE: Clothed or naked? Dressing in BDSM (6/17/2013 12:56:13 PM)
During a scene? Nekkid. Clothes just look nice hanging from the ceiling fan. Naked means less to take off, nothing to cushion the impact. Course naked in this context means cuffs and collar and maybe a leash too (Thanks for reminding me-I really need to pierce that clit lest that leash get lonely)

DesFIP -> RE: Clothed or naked? Dressing in BDSM (6/17/2013 2:16:40 PM)
We don't do latex. If he wants me wrapped in something form fitting, that's when he pulls out the pallet wrap. He likes the look of tied in clothes so that happens a lot. And then as the ties change, the clothing usually disappears. Oddly enough, even if he's tied me in clothes, he's usually naked. Because although I get cold from play, he gets overheated and sweaty.

Focus50 -> RE: Clothed or naked? Dressing in BDSM (6/17/2013 2:32:35 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DesFIP Oddly enough, even if he's tied me in clothes, he's usually naked. Because although I get cold from play, he gets overheated and sweaty. When the weather allows, and most times of the year it does, I don't care for wearing any clothes in the home. Even if I'll mostly have the girl wearing something I consider sexy rather than naked, herself. But during a scene, I make it my business to be dressed while she's naked. It just "feels right" that way - that she's got nowhere to hide kinda mentality. It's one of those facets of D/s that never tires. That no matter how acclimatised she is to being naked, it's always a great dynamic during a formal scene setting. She's "meat" - meat doesn't wear clothes or get to own any modesty. Focus.

lizi -> RE: Clothed or naked? Dressing in BDSM (6/17/2013 2:38:43 PM)
We were both always naked. Before, after, whatever... It just always seemed the most natural for us. If we were ever together and I had clothes on, he'd ask me what I was waiting for and to get naked stat.

Whiplashsmile4 -> RE: Clothed or naked? Dressing in BDSM (6/17/2013 2:47:52 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Greta75 I personally prefer being naked. But..., I also love being told what to wear. These are things I think it's sexy when the man decides. Ditto...

nephandi -> RE: Clothed or naked? Dressing in BDSM (6/18/2013 2:29:03 AM)
Greetings I prefer to be naked during a session, but then I like being naked generally, when I get home I usually take my clothes of and sit around reading, studying, playing computer games or whatever in the nude. I am always more comfortable naked than wearing clothing, and that is useful for Aswad for usually we do not have long, elaborate play time, instead he will bend me over when he feel like some butt or have me suck him when he feel like some throat or give me a few swats when he want to hear me whimper so being naked is useful as it give him more access. I wish you well

MistressLucyK -> RE: Clothed or naked? Dressing in BDSM (6/18/2013 8:04:54 PM)
Its really about what you doing in a session - at the start my sub's are usually clothed but the quickly changes as I want to see everything and what I'm going to be doing to their tools and body so naked is a must ...... outside we can't scare the masses can we? But secluded forest scenes can be fun Myself I like to be semi clothed while I love heels the damn things can get in the way with what I'm doing

theshytype -> RE: Clothed or naked? Dressing in BDSM (6/18/2013 8:53:08 PM)
If I surprise him in something sexy, it ends up on the floor. If he tells me to put on something sexy, it stays on. Thankfully, if I surprise him in the nude he doesn't make me put clothes on.

TieMeInKnottss -> RE: Clothed or naked? Dressing in BDSM (6/18/2013 9:05:39 PM)
High heels always.....with or without clothes... Outside/public normal stuff but usually skirt...Alone whether or not we are "doing" anything...I am usually naked. He claims everything is more fun naked.

MalcolmNathaniel -> RE: Clothed or naked? Dressing in BDSM (6/18/2013 9:17:30 PM)
That's not quite true. It's only mostly true.

littlewonder -> RE: Clothed or naked? Dressing in BDSM (6/18/2013 9:34:21 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: robertodom1 I want to ask to Masters and Mistress here if they prefere their slaves to be naked during their session or dressed, maybe in latex... and I would know from slaves if they'd prefer to stay dressed or naked while serving... Thanks to everyone who'll answer :) He prefers me naked. Most times I don't mind except when I'm feeling self conscious about my body due to health reasons or I've gained weight. But it's kinda hard to have sex when you're fully clothed. [8D]

TieMeInKnottss -> RE: Clothed or naked? Dressing in BDSM (6/19/2013 9:30:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MalcolmNathaniel That's not quite true. It's only mostly true. [sm=imissu.gif] XOXO

FrostedFlake -> RE: Clothed or naked? Dressing in BDSM (6/19/2013 10:53:13 PM)
quote: Clothed or naked? Is the word 'or' really the one we want, here?

SoulAlloy -> RE: Clothed or naked? Dressing in BDSM (6/19/2013 11:52:39 PM)
I love fetishwear, so generally I prefer being clothed - though as others have pointed out it depends on the play you're doing.

SunTzuSwe -> RE: Clothed or naked? Dressing in BDSM (6/20/2013 4:30:12 AM)
Why should I have to choose one over the other? A clothed slave can be way sexier than naked as well as a naked slave can be super hot. Imho it's about the timing, the situation and the mood. I'm the master and I reserve my right to choose whenever I feel like it. [sm=whip.gif]

kalikshama -> RE: Clothed or naked? Dressing in BDSM (6/20/2013 9:54:39 AM)
quote: I would know from slaves if they'd prefer to stay dressed or naked while serving... He likes stockings, garters, very high heels, crotchless panties, and lingerie, so that's what I wear in the bedroom. We met on OKCupid and he was concerned that I wouldn't be willing to dress like this as my profile was earthy-crunchy (where it wasn't kinky.) I was concerned because his profile was kink-free. Fortunately for us, he is indeed kinky and I am willing to wear whatever he buys. He doesn't like my dress up clothes either, so we've spent a lot of time shopping over the past few months. (As I am not a girly-girl, this is not really a plus - I'd rather be gardening. Or fucking. Etc. But I do appreciate his generosity and endeavor to reciprocate like crazy.) Last night, I told him that I usually go barefoot this time of year and my toenails are usually dirty from gardening and my feet purple from stepping on fallen mulberries. He shuddered, lol.

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