MasterCaneman
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ORIGINAL: MasterCaneman My GF however, insists on hour-long calls, longer if she can get away with it. As I said before, it wouldn't be so bad if it was about something that really mattered or something she hasn't discussed before. It's like listening to an old recording over and over again. This may be her preferred way to feel connected to you. If you find it irritating, you could let her know it's a bit of a turn off, and ask if there's something else she enjoys that you can do together to produce the same result. I have. She doesn't. Lather, rinse, repeat. I've been trying to do just that the last eleven years, and have essentially given up by this point
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