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RE: How deep would you like BDSM to be in your life? - 6/27/2006 8:01:04 AM

lisa1978

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I like it deep and 24/7 and also do not understand why this excludes having a job, spending time with friends and family and having some hobbies of my own. Yes, being dedicated and there to serve my owner does take up a lot of my mind and time but twenty-four hours a day 365 days a year is a lot of time. Yes, maybe the amount of time spent on the other things is lessoned and not completely in my control but life does that to us anyway.

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RE: How deep would you like BDSM to be in your life? - 6/27/2006 9:39:32 AM

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How deep? How deep is possible and still continue working, being involved in my family's lives, being with friends, being me? If all of that can continue while being 24/7, then that's what I want. I would love to totally consumed by my Dom/Master, if I had one. I would love to have a D/s relationship that I was totally submitted to that included the vanilla parts of life. I'm not into S&M as much as I want to be controlled. To me there is a difference. One can't spend all of their time being flogged. But they can always be in submission, even when visiting family and friends with no clue.

this girl is owned by her Master no matter where she is or who she is speaking to. everything she does, she does with her Master's knowlege and approval ...EVERYTHING.
this girl does not think she would want to live with her Master just yet, but she would like to live next door to Him.
she has no intrest in marriage.

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RE: How deep would you like BDSM to be in your life? - 6/27/2006 11:54:18 AM

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i have left many of the trapings and distractions of my vanilla life behind to dedicate my life to serving Master fully. recently i've relocated to be very close to Him to please Him every day that He desires. Nothing is done without His permission, He gives me time and the space that i need too.
Master is my life.

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RE: How deep would you like BDSM to be in your life? - 6/27/2006 11:54:28 AM

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As much as i'd like to say as deep as possible, given the modern world and all it's little foibles, i doubt it's possible. Heck, at this point, a partner who's interested in me, D/s and some 'nilla stuff i'd probably be over the moon..lol...

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RE: How deep would you like BDSM to be in your life? - 6/27/2006 12:04:10 PM

SpankMuhButt

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I may be the odd one here. I don't want it deep, yes i love a connection with my Dom but I am not a 24/7 type at all. I like having my own life. In my house I am in control, But on occassions I like giving up that control its my sanity....and it works for me, some might say its just a kink, i dont try to over analyze at all. all i know is that it works for me and those I am involved with.

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RE: How deep would you like BDSM to be in your life? - 6/27/2006 12:36:13 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: sublizzie

How deep? How deep is possible and still continue working, being involved in my family's lives, being with friends, being me? If all of that can continue while being 24/7, then that's what I want. I would love to totally consumed by my Dom/Master, if I had one. I would love to have a D/s relationship that I was totally submitted to that included the vanilla parts of life. I'm not into S&M as much as I want to be controlled. To me there is a difference. One can't spend all of their time being flogged. But they can always be in submission, even when visiting family and friends with no clue.

Rather then retype it all I'll just echo what lizzy said. Except I do like some S/M and would want that as part of our life. You can't be flogged all the time but it sure is fun when you can *weg*

If and when i have a Dom/Master in my life again.

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RE: How deep would you like BDSM to be in your life? - 6/27/2006 3:51:43 PM

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Living a true 24/7 is not possible in my opinion, life will always toss things into your plans to make it interesting however that dose not mean BDSM can not be your lifestyle choice all the time. With the right One anything is possible and i for one would love to once again live with with One as there slave/submisive and have the BDSM/Leather lifestyle invovled in O/our lifes as much as possible.

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RE: How deep would you like BDSM to be in your life? - 6/27/2006 9:49:17 PM

cacodylic

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Well, I've certainly fantasized about 24/7, but as ProtagonistLily says, "If it's not fun, why bother?" This has become ever more important to me as a guiding principle in my waning years.

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