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cutiewithabootie -> Professional Courtesy (6/18/2013 6:46:33 AM)

Ladies, this is something I wonder about . As a submissive your professional skills can be used to help your dominant partner. I have only had ONE lady who used her medical backround to offer me advice for a virus I had. I was curious how many of you use your professional backround to offer advice or assistance to your submissives. Can I have an example? Do you feel that this is inapropriate? Why or why not? Thank you ladies.



lizi -> RE: Professional Courtesy (6/18/2013 7:02:37 AM)

Hell yes it's appropriate to offer advice and skill where it can be used. In fact I'd say it's at the core of being a submissive, using what is within your power to make life easier, better, etc for your Dominant.

Examples for me is having used my people/communication skills to help him out, my medical knowledge, my fitness training, computer skills, dietary training, most excellent proofreading skills, tailoring/seamstress skills, organization skills, and research skills. I'm sure there are more things that I'm missing at the moment because I am one valuable person to have at anyone's side [;)]

Doesn't it make sense that a submissive with awesome skills has added value? I'm not sure why a submissive wouldn't use what was at his/her disposal to reflect well on his/her Dominant.

Just a note, submissive is not a gender exclusive term. There are some bangin male submissives on this board that have skills as well [:)]



cutiewithabootie -> RE: Professional Courtesy (6/18/2013 7:58:16 AM)

Lizi,

I think you misunderstood. I was asking how often Dominant Ladies offer THEIR proffession as a help to their sub.

I have experience and a backround as a cosmetologist, bar tender, Personal assistant, hostess, and a small stint as a card dealer.



DarkSteven -> RE: Professional Courtesy (6/18/2013 7:59:36 AM)

If a Dom/me doesn't use the capabilities of himself/herself AND the submissive, they're a fool. My sub uses me as she can, and I use her as well.



lizi -> RE: Professional Courtesy (6/18/2013 8:25:53 AM)


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ORIGINAL: cutiewithabootie

Lizi,

I think you misunderstood. I was asking how often Dominant Ladies offer THEIR proffession as a help to their sub.

I have experience and a backround as a cosmetologist, bar tender, Personal assistant, hostess, and a small stint as a card dealer.



You are correct, I misunderstood your OP, however my answer doesn't change. Partners on either side should be offering their skills to enrich the other's life.



Hillwilliam -> RE: Professional Courtesy (6/18/2013 8:30:28 AM)

I help people with my knowledge no matter which side of the kneel they're on.



SeekingTrinity -> RE: Professional Courtesy (6/18/2013 10:38:49 AM)

~FRing it~

I agree with what the others have said. My skills and professional expertise are given freely to those who are in my life. That includes my submissive for sure.



kalikshama -> RE: Professional Courtesy (6/18/2013 5:46:09 PM)

I had play partner Tops who were lawyers and answered a few questions for me.

My D give me advice all the time [:)]



MistressDarkArt -> RE: Professional Courtesy (6/18/2013 8:44:29 PM)

My partners have carte blanche access to my professional skills. Gemology, medical, card reading, soap/perfume/cosmetic crafting, music, yoga, editing, computer and secretarial skills are just a few. I offer them freely to those I care about.






DesFIP -> RE: Professional Courtesy (6/21/2013 2:25:46 PM)

However, it's frowned upon in the medical and therapist professions to use your skills on non clients. Because you're too close to be objective. Beyond that, if you had shown up in a doctor's office, he might well have felt he needed certain tests done before making a diagnosis. But they don't have a lab at home for testing friends and family and without doing a full exam and tests could actually make things much worse.



cutiewithabootie -> RE: Professional Courtesy (6/22/2013 10:36:12 AM)

This is true Mistressdrkart. I don't recomend that people use health care in such a way that they replace tests and their primary care practitioner.

In my case there was a stomache bug going around and the lady I was with had advised me on getting lots of fluid and ways to decrease nausea. It was more like a way mom helps you feel better with chicken soup then her trying to diagnose me. She did actually advise that I go to a doctor if my fever reached a certain point or the virus lasts too long.



Dreamless -> RE: Professional Courtesy (6/23/2013 1:29:19 AM)

As an artist I have happily had conversations with people IDing as submissive to help them with their artistic growth, and likewise I wouldn't reject similarly beneficial discourse from a submissive. I have skills, I love sharing my knowledge, and I love learning.

So... yeah, I mean, some things have nothing to do with the kneel. It's just regular living. Would you share your knowledge with a friend? It is exactly like that.



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