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How did your interest originate? - 6/19/2013 1:40:33 PM

shygtasub

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Just curiosity. How did your interest originate? I was pretty young when I knew what I will be. Did you wake up one day, or did it come over time?

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RE: How did your interest originate? - 6/19/2013 1:50:47 PM

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You might want to note that mentioning anything about underage people in here with any taste of kink is VERBOTEN.

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RE: How did your interest originate? - 6/19/2013 2:06:17 PM

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I rephrased it to avoid confusion. This is more what I meant anyway.

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RE: How did your interest originate? - 6/19/2013 2:15:43 PM

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I was an older woman out of a divorce. I started dating again, a man brought it up about 5 years ago, I looked into it, liked it, realized it fit my personality and it was basically who I was all my life, but now I had a name for what I was looking for in a partner. The activities aren't so important to me, it's more relationship based in my world.

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RE: How did your interest originate? - 6/19/2013 2:18:09 PM

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I went to school, decided all the boys ought to be stuck to the fence and do what I said and I wanted the daddy role, but dressed like a mom. I was further encouraged when it happened.

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RE: How did your interest originate? - 6/19/2013 2:20:18 PM

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Just as an FYI, I edited the first two posts to change the thread title on the individual posts, just to prevent any misunderstanding about the thread.

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RE: How did your interest originate? - 6/19/2013 2:21:41 PM

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My grandmother was a female supremacist and I got her genes.

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RE: How did your interest originate? - 6/19/2013 2:21:46 PM

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Greetings

I started pretending that my dolls where alien princesses and that I where chosen as their servant and caretaker from I was very young. I also liked to play slave, fill a bucket with water and scrub a floor pretending I was a slave, and one of my fantasies was to have a very spoiled cousin or something like that move in and then she would boss me around and I had to obey her, I was very young when I had these thoughts but off course I never thought of them as kink or anything sexual I just liked to play slave or servant. I also remember that I loved to hear of people tied up I was three years old when I saw a Tarzan movie where Tarzan got captured and put in a cage and I loved it, and my mother read me Robin hood books and I loved the scenes when he got captured and tied up. I always tied up my dolls or even tied up myself a few times but there was noting sexual about it.

I was a young teenager when I first heard about BDSM, I heard about it on the news but I do not remember what they where reporting on, but there was something about BDSM in there and I thought that is really interesting, I did not fantasize about it thought until next year when I read the fantasy series Saga of the Ice People where the two man characters have sex in book one and it is described as being quite painful since she is a virgin and he is huge and that is when my sexual interests started and they always had a rough sex/BDSM turn to them in my fantasies.

When I was 16 I met Aswad and I became sexually active (yes that is legal age in Norway) and our sex have always been BDSM themed, so yes I have always had such fantasies but it was not until I was a late teenager that my fantasies turned to sexual fantasies.

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RE: How did your interest originate? - 6/19/2013 4:08:49 PM

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My "submissive" interests started when I was very young.Literally,probaly since I was 5,I always have had this thing for Women in Authority I guess is the best way to put it. On a sexual level, I have always had sexual "urges" towards Dominant Women. That part still hasn't changed to this day. Growing up this way, this always just felt natural to me. I never really thought much about it until I got older and realized this all had a name. I was glad to know I wasn't the only one who was into this kind of stuff.

This maybe why "vanilla" only relationships do not always work out for me in the end. That's why these days I am simply open about who I am and I am very comfortable in my own skin. I seek a Domme these days because I do feel more comfortable in that kind of environment. I do have "vanilla" interests but when it comes to a relationship these days, I can't see myself in a "vanilla" only relationship where I have to "hide" who I am. I can't do that anymore. Hiding myself in the closest, denying who I am. That only creates further problems for me because then I am denying myself who I am.

When I speak in these chat forums, I speak from my heart. I try to use my own experience to relate to what somebody is saying or try to define my views better.

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RE: How did your interest originate? - 6/19/2013 5:07:21 PM

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Since I start thinking about sex, but the way to where I am today, is long and a little more complicated, it is difficult to say you're a sadist if you do not know what sadist is. Today everything is more easily if there is something you do not understand then google it and you will find your answer.

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RE: How did your interest originate? - 6/19/2013 5:07:28 PM

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I discovered it in the yahoo chatrooms in the early 90s. Various women have slowly perverted me, one most of all.

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RE: How did your interest originate? - 6/19/2013 5:48:59 PM

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I was young. As I got older I figured out what I was actually into and started feeling more normal. Stayed away from it for a while because of something that happened to me, then was slowly drawn back in by a couple of wonderful men. I have always been more into being just a "bottom" or a kinkster rather than anything 24/7- and now I've introduced a couple of men to it myself, and within my current relationship we've taken it to new levels and try new things all the time and are having a great time with it. I'm still pretty young so I'm sure this will all evolve more.

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RE: How did your interest originate? - 6/19/2013 5:52:40 PM

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My earliest sexual fantasies were about pain and control. But I didn't know that there was anyone else like me. I talked my first husband into spanking me once, when we were engaged, and that was enough for him. I served him in our marriage, in a very vanilla, Christian submissive type way. after I was widowed, I bought a computer, and discovered a whole world of people out there like me - and some wonderfully opposite of me :D. I never dated vanilla again.

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RE: How did your interest originate? - 6/19/2013 6:39:25 PM

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I've always been this way.

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RE: How did your interest originate? - 6/19/2013 7:16:13 PM

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I've always been this way. I just didn't know what I was began using the Internet in the early to mid 90's. The rest is history

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RE: How did your interest originate? - 6/19/2013 8:51:46 PM

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The people of my home planet have always been this way.

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RE: How did your interest originate? - 6/19/2013 9:43:06 PM

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I have a great story about my humble beginnings into all of this but it violates the TOS in new and as of yet unheard of ways.

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RE: How did your interest originate? - 6/19/2013 9:46:48 PM

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I think I've always be a sadist. I used to beat and torture my dolls.....they liked it.

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RE: How did your interest originate? - 6/19/2013 9:58:07 PM

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FR~~ I have always been a sadist,in fact when I was borned I smacked the dam doctor for taking so long...Bounty

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RE: How did your interest originate? - 6/19/2013 10:19:27 PM

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