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my complex. - 6/20/2013 5:50:57 PM

kylielynn91

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Hello to all . i will start with some back story to make sense of the main topic. about 7months ago i ended a 5 year relationship in which 4/5 were spent in more of a D/s relationship me being the submissive. Even before this relationship i had a true love for being submissive to a women, I guess i just lucked out and found some one with a mutual love for the same kinks so early on. So after all that my main point is how do i go on to another relationship in which the women dose not enjoy the same lifestyle. I have tried dating a few times after the break up but it just didn't feel rite. I truly crave the ability to be submissive and the thought of liveing a normal vanilla relationship is absurd in my mind. Any advice is greatly appreciated.

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RE: my complex. - 6/20/2013 5:58:30 PM

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Have you explored the munch options? There is one in Attleboro.

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RE: my complex. - 6/20/2013 6:29:30 PM

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ORIGINAL: kylielynn91

So after all that my main point is how do i go on to another relationship in which the women dose not enjoy the same lifestyle. I have tried dating a few times after the break up but it just didn't feel rite.

You don't.

You find a woman (or man, trans, whatever pleases you) that DOES enjoy the lifestyle you live. It's hard for everyone, doubly hard for a M->F Trans individual, to find someone who does more than tolerate your kinks. You want someone who revels in them. Against that, you also identify as a submissive, so you're going to be town between finding someone who satisfies what YOU want (your kink needs being met) with the fact that they are looking for someone to serve THEM, and meeting THEIR needs.

Good luck. You're young so you have plenty of time and purport to have a lot of experience that we can't talk about here. It'll get a little easier when you're of age to drink.

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