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RE: Etiquette - 6/21/2013 7:43:02 PM

nephandi

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Greetings

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If a dom addressed me as a sub as 'madame' I would assume he didn't really want a sub and wasn't really a dom. My assumption would be he was a male sub looking for an alpha sub or switch to dom him.

I think it would depend, some males always have a very polite way to address women and that is fine I like being treated like a lady.

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If this doesn't apply to you, well do what you want with the information. My assumption is based on how often a male 'dom' was really a male sub looking for a femdomme.

Oh I have experienced this a few times, male subs who come to me and cry they can not find someone to spank them and ask me to do it. Well for me it is fine I am a sub but I am also a sadist. I am not a switch, I am always submissive but I do like a Dom who likes pain and orders me to swing the whip at times, but yeah I know of allot of subs who get this question from male subs all the time if we could just please be their Dominant and then I wonder if those folks have even read the profiles they are replying to.

I wish you well

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RE: Etiquette - 6/22/2013 12:48:19 AM

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OP, a lot of people on the net will list themselves as "under protection" because they don't want to receive emails. Whether they really do have a person that is taking that position of protector at real life groups, parties, and munches is kind of up in the air.

Either way, I think it's fair enough not to contact folks who are demonstrating that they would rather be left alone.

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RE: Etiquette - 6/22/2013 1:44:42 AM

msj2u

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OP,

Have you looked at Fetlife? There is a munch today, Saturday at 4:00 in Columbus. Get out and meet people vs the internet. Just My 2 cents

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RE: Etiquette - 6/23/2013 4:55:22 PM

NiceButMeanGirl

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ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt
how often a male 'dom' was really a male sub looking for a femdomme.

Funny. I just heard from two of those in the last day or so.

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RE: Etiquette - 6/24/2013 3:34:14 PM

Kana

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My slut can talk to whomever she wants.
and you can write anyone you want.Just as the can feel free to ignore ya.

The one thing I will say is that while it may or may not be a protocol, I almost never, as in ever, initiate conversation with single chicas at BDSM clubs.
Too many chances of stepping inadvertently on someone's toes. Plus, usually these gals have way to many creepy cats macking on em already. If they're interested, they've always found a way to let me know.

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RE: Etiquette - 6/24/2013 3:38:29 PM

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I seldom have an interest in men who rush after me. If he cant make me crawl... next!

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