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New at this :3 - 6/20/2013 11:39:13 PM

curti

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Im Curtis, im 19 and in general have found myself to be very submissive, im looking for people to teach me in the ways of slavery/submission, shoot me a message! :) im about 6' tall, im a pretty goofy person that likes to have fun adventures and what not, i always love meeting new people :P

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RE: New at this :3 - 6/21/2013 3:48:12 AM

garyFLR

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Hi Curtis,

Welcome to CM, hope you find what you're looking for. Why not try the message boards, there are a lot of nice helpful people there, only too willing to give advice, sometimes too much

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All the best, Gary.

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RE: New at this :3 - 6/21/2013 4:42:35 AM

Rasciallymisty

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Welcome to CM and the forums, this side is where discussions take place the other side is where you will find that in which you seek hopefully. I do not wish to dissapoint you but you are looking for a UNICORN among many. Male subs out number Mistress like 100/1 so that narrows your chances big time. Your profile really does not give any of them a reason to even look your way.

My suggestions would be....

1- Nice intro but now you need to work on your profile and turn your picture around.

2- Make your profile one that the Dommes on the other side will want to read. Tell them what your likes are in the vanilla world your enjoyments other than sex. But do not make an all about me profile or all about your D/s likes and dislikes. You have nothing in your profile now so you have a clean slate to start with. You need to make your profile and yourself stand out to hopefuly help increase your odds of finding your one.

3- Head down to the Mistress thread and do some reading and see what they like and are all about. Maybe join in some of the discussions and always be respectful if you do.

4- Do a search on this side ( little button up there on top ^^^^ on the right hand side) and see how others sub have wrote their profiles or look at some on the other side to get some ideas.

5- Never post nude pics.....women tend to dislike them. They like action pics of you doing things like maybe boating, skiing, things along those lines. Things you are into not related to D/s.

These are just a few suggestions and some helpful advice. Its nice to have you join us here on the forums and hopefully you will stick around and join in on some of the discussions. Do beware some peeps are super kewl on this side and some not so kewl. Have a thick skin and you will do fine. Hope you enjoy your time here.

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RE: New at this :3 - 6/21/2013 10:43:46 AM

curti

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Thank you! :)

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RE: New at this :3 - 6/22/2013 4:39:23 AM

OohAahMrs

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Welcome curt.

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RE: New at this :3 - 6/22/2013 5:13:03 AM

curti

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Thank you! I love the warm welcomes i get from this site :)

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RE: New at this :3 - 6/22/2013 7:52:15 AM

MasterCaneman

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Hello, welcome, and what Misty said.

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RE: New at this :3 - 6/22/2013 9:59:10 AM

Killerangel

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Glad to have you, good luck with things.

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RE: New at this :3 - 6/22/2013 11:08:19 AM

MistressDarkArt