ChatteParfaitt -> RE: Rape RP (6/22/2013 11:07:12 AM)
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I think rape or ravishment fantasies are very common, though many won't admit to it. Traditional female porn, aka the bodice ripper, is based on ravishment fantasy. Many people (of course) take issue with using the term rape play, since rape play is not rape at all. It's ravishment role play that can get fairly rough, depending on the people involved. My husband and I are into this type of play, in face we met in the old yahoo rape room over 15 years ago. So, some caveats: I would not attempt this type of role play with someone I did not know well. It is fraught with opportunities for numerous nasty emotional triggers on both sides of the kneel. There are doms who just will not do this type of role play. I would most definitely not attempt to use this type of role play to work out past rape trauma. You need a professional for that. I strongly suggest lots and lots of conversations about what both of your expectations are in terms of level of roughness, what's a turn on and what's a turn off, how to communicate a safeword, since it's expected that the s-type will be screaming no. This type of play means both parties should be very aware of each other and how they are feeling, which is why I don't recommend it for casual play partners. A big issue with this type of role play is that, although the sub may have some specific fantasies in mind, the fear and power play involved cannot be fully realized if the dom is working through a specific script. It's important that the s-type not know what to expect, it's ups that fear factor. Which is why you should have numerous conversations about what you like and what you don't like. Then the dominant can pick and choose some items. Also, it's hard to pull off this type of roleplay if you know it's coming. You may want to build in some expectation, like, "I'm going to rape you this weekend" -- which allows the s-type to know that it's going to happen, but not be so prepared, if you get what I mean. We've had a lot of fun with this type of play, but I will caution again that it is not for casual partners.
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