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HaleyXXX -> Rape RP (6/21/2013 10:53:56 PM)

My partner and I are really into rape rp. I'm just wondering who else is out there into this? I'm newer to the bdsm world. I dont really know many people into it at all... which lead me here!




LadyPact -> RE: Rape RP (6/21/2013 11:08:22 PM)

http://www.collarchat.com/m_4475377/tm.htm




HaleyXXX -> RE: Rape RP (6/21/2013 11:28:42 PM)

Read that already.




ARIES83 -> RE: Rape RP (6/21/2013 11:38:23 PM)

How bout this?
http://www.collarchat.com/fb.asp?m=4235772




TNDommeK -> RE: Rape RP (6/22/2013 4:10:57 AM)

I think she meant "thank you for taking time to direct me but I've seen that".




AllisonWilder -> RE: Rape RP (6/22/2013 4:27:15 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: HaleyXXX

My partner and I are really into rape rp. I'm just wondering who else is out there into this? I'm newer to the bdsm world. I dont really know many people into it at all... which lead me here!


Many, many people are into rape fantasy/roleplay. It's not really one of those things that a lot of people just make conversation about over coffee though, so you probably do know people that are into it.

Try the search function and resurrect an old thread! :)




tazzygirl -> RE: Rape RP (6/22/2013 4:46:10 AM)

Uh... we dont resurrect old threads.




Rasciallymisty -> RE: Rape RP (6/22/2013 5:21:26 AM)

Have you tried doing a search? If you find anything just know that any post that is over three months old can not be commented on, you would have to start a whole new thread to bring it back to life.




evesgrden -> RE: Rape RP (6/22/2013 5:37:24 AM)

Did you have a question or did you just want a head count/chorus of "me too" posts?

You say you have a partner but your profile reads as if you are looking.

ETA after reading profile.




nephandi -> RE: Rape RP (6/22/2013 7:47:39 AM)

Greetings

quote:

Have you tried doing a search? If you find anything just know that any post that is over three months old can not be commented on, you would have to start a whole new thread to bring it back to life.


Did she not just do that?

I wish you well




nephandi -> RE: Rape RP (6/22/2013 7:49:56 AM)

Greetings

I have never done it but I certainly can see the appeal of it. I would be hesitant to do so in any place where anyone might see though as I think it might get the law involved and quickly. But yes I think this is an interesting kink, did you have an question about it?

I wish you well




littlewonder -> RE: Rape RP (6/22/2013 9:16:03 AM)

It's very common even among "vanilla" people. Like someone else said, you just don't hear them talk about it over dinner.




tsatske -> RE: Rape RP (6/22/2013 9:22:18 AM)

It's also very common among rape survivors. It can be a way of processing the trauma and feeling more in control.

I am a 'good girl', rape play gives me a chance to fight and struggle and that can be fun once in a while.




cutiewithabootie -> RE: Rape RP (6/22/2013 9:31:17 AM)

Personally I am not interested in play rape. I would be concerned about emotional ramifications and also I would rather play where the line isn't quite as blurred. This is something that needs a lot of preperation and I would require too much control over the situation to make it enjoyable for the domme or fro myself as a submissive.




ChatteParfaitt -> RE: Rape RP (6/22/2013 11:07:12 AM)

I think rape or ravishment fantasies are very common, though many won't admit to it. Traditional female porn, aka the bodice ripper, is based on ravishment fantasy.

Many people (of course) take issue with using the term rape play, since rape play is not rape at all. It's ravishment role play that can get fairly rough, depending on the people involved.

My husband and I are into this type of play, in face we met in the old yahoo rape room over 15 years ago.

So, some caveats: I would not attempt this type of role play with someone I did not know well. It is fraught with opportunities for numerous nasty emotional triggers on both sides of the kneel. There are doms who just will not do this type of role play. I would most definitely not attempt to use this type of role play to work out past rape trauma. You need a professional for that.

I strongly suggest lots and lots of conversations about what both of your expectations are in terms of level of roughness, what's a turn on and what's a turn off, how to communicate a safeword, since it's expected that the s-type will be screaming no. This type of play means both parties should be very aware of each other and how they are feeling, which is why I don't recommend it for casual play partners.

A big issue with this type of role play is that, although the sub may have some specific fantasies in mind, the fear and power play involved cannot be fully realized if the dom is working through a specific script. It's important that the s-type not know what to expect, it's ups that fear factor. Which is why you should have numerous conversations about what you like and what you don't like. Then the dominant can pick and choose some items.

Also, it's hard to pull off this type of roleplay if you know it's coming. You may want to build in some expectation, like, "I'm going to rape you this weekend" -- which allows the s-type to know that it's going to happen, but not be so prepared, if you get what I mean.

We've had a lot of fun with this type of play, but I will caution again that it is not for casual partners.





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