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Maybe I’m naive, but... - 6/26/2006 10:52:20 PM

TheJackal

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Thank You for reading my post. I am new to this website and new to BDSM and have no prior experience. Because of that fact, I have a lot of questions and I hope someone out there wouldn't mind assisting.

I first heard of BDSM about two years ago. I had very little knowledge of it then, but have since accumulated information that sparked my interest in it. Thanks to the Internet, I have been able to collect information and learn about the many different components of BDSM.

Throught the years, before I knew about BDSM, I often regarded my fantasies of living in submission to a female as just an odd figment of my imagination. I figured it was just strange since I never heard of anyone doing it before. You could imagine the surprise I felt when I learned there are others who felt the same way I do.

For as many questions that it answered, however, it brought up new ones. I'm not yet entirely sure how I would handle living in submission for the rest of my life. One thing I have learned from the past is something that seems like a good idea today might not tomorrow. Would it be possible for me to keep my job (at least in the beginning) and my car or is that too much to be asking for?

I guess what I am really asking for is what other people's first time experiences were like, especially from the submissive male side although I'm sure everyone would have valuable input. I know I have additional questions, but I've forgotten them right now and so I'll have to post them later.

Thank You for spending your time reading and thanks in advance for your reply.

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RE: Maybe I’m naive, but... - 6/26/2006 11:09:55 PM

Wulfchyld

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On the upper right corner of the screen is the search button. Type in what you are looking for and a lot of threads on the topic will show up. If you don’t see what you are looking for post your question here and we will do what we can to help you.

< Message edited by Wulfchyld -- 6/26/2006 11:14:55 PM >

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RE: Maybe I’m naive, but... - 6/27/2006 6:56:13 AM

TolerableCruelty

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Welcome to CM, and to bdsm.... hope you have a long and fun filled journey...

well wishes,
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RE: Maybe I’m naive, but... - 6/27/2006 7:59:48 AM

MoodDomme

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Welcome to CM and the Forums

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