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Saying hello - 6/22/2013 11:19:16 PM

RopedDave

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Hi all.

I joined Collarme a little while back, but only today clicked on that message boards link. Just thought i'd introduce myself.

Now time to explore!

- Dave

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RE: Saying hello - 6/22/2013 11:26:03 PM

MistressDarkArt

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Howdy Dave! Welcome to the boards!

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RE: Saying hello - 6/22/2013 11:26:11 PM

hlen5

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Welcome Dave!!

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RE: Saying hello - 6/23/2013 6:49:28 AM

Rasciallymisty

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Greetings and welcome to CM and the forums, this side is where discussions take place. I do not wish to dissapoint you but you are looking for a maybe hard to find. Male subs out number Mistress like 100/1 so that narrows your chances big time. I have a few suggestions that might help bring lookers your way.

My suggestions would be....

1- You profile only tells what you want done to you or in other words and "all about me profile". Most would rather read what your likes and enjoyments are in your nilla life. Make your profile one that the Dommes on the other side will want to read. Tell them what your likes are other than sex. But do not make it an all about me profile or all about your D/s likes and dislikes.

2- Head down to the Mistress thread and do some reading and see what they like and are all about. Maybe join in some of the discussions and always be respectful if you do.

3- Another good one might be the switch thread since you think you might be a switch.

4- Do a search on this side ( little button up there on top ^^^^ on the right hand side) and see how others switches/subs have wrote their profiles or look at some on the other side to get some ideas.

5- Never post nude pics.....women tend to dislike them. They like action pics of you doing things like maybe boating, skiing, things along those lines. Things you are into not related to D/s. Your profile picture is a good one.

These are just a few suggestions and some helpful advice. Its nice to have you join us here on the forums and hopefully you will stick around and join in on some of the discussions. Do beware some peeps are super kewl on this side and some not so kewl. Have a thick skin and you will do fine. Hope you enjoy your time here.

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RE: Saying hello - 6/23/2013 6:10:56 PM

RopedDave

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Hi Misty,

Thanks for the advice.

Years of searching for a kink outlet and being on fetlife have already taught me how skewed the ratio is for a submissive male. It gets a bit much sometimes, but has never deterred me. Sooner or later i'll find someone! I am taking your suggestions on my profile to heart, and will attempt to be more descriptive about who i am.

I can't promise to be an active forum participant, but I am a good lurker. And on the subject of nude pics, perhaps it's my shyness, but the thought of putting a nude or cock shot in my profile has never crossed my mind.

And away I go!

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RE: Saying hello - 6/23/2013 6:57:35 PM

Rasciallymisty

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Lurking is always good I did that for years.

I will keep my fingers crossed that you find your one. LOL you would be surprised how many feel naked pics is the only thing they need in their profiles....hehehehehe. hope you like lurking it can be fun.

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RE: Saying hello - 6/24/2013 9:08:14 AM

OohAahMrs

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Welcome Dave.

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