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RE: Overweight bdsm women - 7/24/2006 12:36:05 AM   
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Good question from a Class Act Ms Puella.    M

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RE: Overweight bdsm women - 7/24/2006 6:02:17 AM   
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Why does bdsm appear to attract far more than its' fair share of overweight women?


I didn't realise that there was a 'fair share' of overweight women for BDSM to attract more of.  What would you say would be the correct number of overweight women that BDSM should be attracting?  What about blonde women?  Does BDSM attract too many blondes as well?  Or Jewish people?  What about people who are left handed?

Did it occur to you that there are probably the same percentage of overweight women in vanilla relationships as well?


Hey, I resemble that remark.  Well, the left-handed one, anyway. 
 
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RE: Overweight bdsm women - 7/24/2006 11:08:14 AM   
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RE: Overweight bdsm women - 7/24/2006 4:03:57 PM   
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ORIGINAL: popeye1250
I'd like to stay and talk but I'm off to the gym to do 40 minutes on the treadmill.
Good for us all popeye1250; this way you can increase the fair share of men who work out at the gym into BDSM.  
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When's the last time you saw an overweight Chinese person? I can't remember ever seeing an overweight Chinese person in real life. On t.v. maybe. Could this be a racial disease or a Western disease?
One thing I notice, when I'm out walking or riding my bike I don't see many overweight people walking or riding bikes.
And it (IS) a medical emergency; ask any doctor. That's not my "opinion."
I hadn't seen you reply to me babes, sorry for delay in responding.
I haven't seen a lot of overweight chinese people, but can't say as I've been looking for them.   You would see me walking for hours on end if you were doing it at the mall, or shopping outlet, lol.  I don't ride a bike because I have a car, and my size and health is none of your business since we haven't discussed your carrying me, buying clothes/food  for me, or medically caring for me.   My health is perfect thus far in case you actually cared, and I work with many doctors who care for and respect me, and none of them have stopped me and told me to take my fat ass to the emergency room pronto, LMAO.  

Humans are sick often and for many different reasons, and I don't disagree that we all ought to be our best selves; but if one is content in his/her skin, I would be the last person to attempt to cut him/her down because he/she isn't perfect physically.   The only input I have in my boy's life (when I have one) is how he dresses/carries himself; unless he asks for specific information/support on weight matters, I don't make him feel less important for being too big or too small.
I will tell you that in my experience, more people have heart attacks from having a genetic predisposition than from being overweight.   So, if you are obsessed with decreasing your chances of it, relax more, and find out your own/your partners health history in that regard.  I myself tend to go with the "none of us is going to get out alive anyway" so I plan to enjoy the ride, but you do what's best for you.

As for having energy to last doing what I want, I could have a boy or two post, but that would be silly.
Have a good day,   M

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RE: Overweight bdsm women - 7/24/2006 4:38:05 PM   
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RE: Overweight bdsm women - 7/24/2006 6:05:50 PM   
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When's the last time you saw an overweight Chinese person? I can't remember ever seeing an overweight Chinese person in real life. On t.v. maybe. Could this be a racial disease or a Western disease?



Groan.... you aren't serious...you just want this thread to go on forever, right?


http://search.yahoo.com/search?p=obesity+china&fr=FP-tab-web-t405&toggle=1&cop=&ei=UTF-8

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RE: Overweight bdsm women - 7/24/2006 6:08:54 PM   
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ORIGINAL: KarbonCopy

I cant belive this thread is still going.




Talk about a feeding frenzy! An astounding 314 posts in the first 24 hours alone, and this thread is still going strong 4 weeks later.

Yet early in that 1st day, there were many very good responses, including by some who have made the very same observation as the OP, and Aakasha's superb explanation as to the possible reasons behind the high percentage of overweight women in the traditional BDSM arenas that "us average folk" are typically exposed to.  

Gee... I wonder how many posts would remain if we removed all of those that were motivated by emotions...

Nevertheless, I can't imagine anyone adding an original gem at this point.

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RE: Overweight bdsm women - 7/24/2006 6:24:35 PM   
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Status: offline 		DAMN!  This thing is back AGAIN!!!  I think at this point any future post here qualifies as mental masturbation (every post after mine).  

547 posts!?!?  WOW!  Maybe this thing will still be going another 4 weeks from now(?).  I hope not.   

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RE: Overweight bdsm women - 7/24/2006 6:27:27 PM   
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RE: Overweight bdsm women - 7/24/2006 8:45:52 PM   
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RE: Overweight bdsm women - 7/24/2006 8:53:24 PM   
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Status: offline 		Well I think there is the same amount in BDSM then there is any place else. More then 65% of the femal population is "OverWeight" so lots of thick hoties.....Men are even a larger (forgive the pun" part at around 70 % America is FAT,,,,, so  join us or get out !

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RE: Overweight bdsm women - 7/24/2006 9:33:58 PM   
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Status: offline 		So did sixstrokes actually get banned for asking a simple question that most people completely misread, or did they just give up?

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RE: Overweight bdsm women - 7/24/2006 9:43:30 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Alumbrado
So did sixstrokes actually get banned for asking a simple question that most people completely misread, or did they just give up?
I hope he didn't get banned for that; my guess is he ran away and created a more group friendly nick.

The question wasn't really all that simple, was it? 
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Why does bdsm appear to attract far more than its' fair share of overweight women?
Do you have any guesses as to what a fair share of overweight women in any group is?   Than once you/anyone decides what the fair share is, do you have any theories as to why the share if larger than normal is greater in BDSM??????   M

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RE: Overweight bdsm women - 7/25/2006 2:40:22 AM   
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RE: Overweight bdsm women - 7/25/2006 2:53:34 AM   
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RE: Overweight bdsm women - 7/25/2006 6:11:04 AM   
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Hey everyone I thought I made a very good post a gem infact ....yet not one recognition..come on not even on the bad spelling grins.....my post is on page 27 BTW.....and is hoping to keep this the longest living thread on CM grins evily....

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RE: Overweight bdsm women - 7/25/2006 7:30:50 AM   
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ORIGINAL: BlkTallFullfig

I hope he didn't get banned for that; my guess is he ran away and created a more group friendly nick.

The question wasn't really all that simple, was it? 
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Why does bdsm appear to attract far more than its' fair share of overweight women?
Do you have any guesses as to what a fair share of overweight women in any group is?   Than once you/anyone decides what the fair share is, do you have any theories as to why the share if larger than normal is greater in BDSM??????   M


It could have been a simple question, if nothing were read into it....

'More than their fair share' is a figure of speech with a well understood meaning, and doesn't need a numeric definition. It just  means 'a lot of'.

And, sixstrokes' OP question didn't say that BDSM had more than normal, he asked why the appearance was such....and appearance and reality are often different.

One answer could have been that the clothing and nudity typical of BDSM tends to expose body shapes that can be concealed under more flattering street clothes.
Another answer could have been that BDSM fantasies are peopled by fantasy women, and playing in real life is bound to have a different appearance. Other answers could have addressed some possible link between female players and actual bodyweight.

It isn't sixstrokes' fault that so many people looked at his post and saw 'There are too many fat chicks here', even though he said nothing of the kind.

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RE: Overweight bdsm women - 7/25/2006 7:37:07 AM   
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ORIGINAL: indybbwsubbie

Well - many of us have self esteem issues.  And many bbws were either molested as children - or abused as children or adults. 

And then for some.......well - we just enjoy it!!!  heehee! 

The reasons are as varied as the stars in the sky! 

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Personally there are those of us out there that prefer to become involved with women whom could be considered "fluffy". In my own personal experience, i have always been attracted to those type of women. There is just something, that i cannot explain, that makes BBW type women seem more to me.
Now with regards to BDSM and BBW type women, my ex, the most current ex i mean, was open to being tied up a bit and some of the more "basic" BDSM activities.

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RE: Overweight bdsm women - 7/25/2006 7:50:40 AM   
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Status: offline 		Interesting topic...nothing wrong with sharing feelings about it.

I'm a bigger girl, and I don't take any offense to it. 

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RE: Overweight bdsm women - 7/25/2006 9:54:41 PM   
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Status: offline 		That seems like an awfully HIGH statistic (70% of people in the scene are overweight) to me.  Do you know this for sure?  I would like to know where you got that information from.  Americans in general are overweight and getting more and more that way every day.  I would like to know which SCIENTIST or STATISTICIAN has done a core sampling of all the BDSM clubs/groups across the country....hmmmm...what about those that only play in the private sector...how do we count them?....and come up with said statistic?  Does anyone have a clue?  Please forward the info. to me, if so.

I also can't believe that 28 pages were wasted on this crap.  Of course, here I am contributing to it!  Weight is always an issue and a "hot topic" no matter what forum on what site.  It always will be.  It tends to lead to quite a "spirited" discussion such as I have noticed here.  I do think that is is quite biased to pick out one particular sampling of the population (overweight women) to single out...ie. what about bald men, etc.?  

I am an overweight woman myself.  My weight has absolutely nothing to do with my involvement in the lifestyle.  I lead a completely "normal and productive" lifestyle outside of it as well.  That does include sexual activity!  Scary, I know!  LOL

One reason I love most of the people in the lifestyle is because there is such a wide variety of people...all colors, shapes, sizes and types...and there seems to be an "acceptance" that is not readily found elsewhere in society.  You can be your "true" self and not be judged for it...well, except on some Collarme forums at times...*wink* 

Now, just as this topic is tired and  gone into "overkill"...I will go and beat a dead horse...LOL  

Be well,
M. Diva


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