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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

^ "Constant fighting for control is as tiresome as always having your submission doubted and having to prove it."


Nicely put in a tidy little sentence.

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ORIGINAL: fullgear203


Greetings Sirs ,
Respectfully would like to ask a question. May I take a guess that most dom's want a trained , or at least "sub like" boi
when finding a hook-up.
My problem is im kind of a cocky smartass --that I carry into dealing with a potential Sir. I warn the Sirs that I need
a heavy hand and please do whatever it take to bring me into the place that he wants a boy to be. Don't find a lot of players.

I want to know how far I can go with my Sir. And I want to know he is in charge and is going to stay in charge. Want to know
who the alpha mate is by nature. And I want to know I have no choices he gets his way every time. Have met with dom's or who say they
are, that I have had our rolls switch and my boots are being licked . While enjoy that play not what im seeking.

So What i'm asking is it realistic to keep looking for a sir with a heavy hand like I need? Or should I just learn on own to act more sub like?
Whats your first thought if asked to train a sub like myself? Too much problem for worth?