RE: I like being around you. Is that the kiss of relationship death?

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I like being around you. Is that the kiss of relationship death?

Yes, the other person would give specific things they like about you.

4% (1)

No, that is a legitimate answer.

29% (7)

Yes, it is legitimate answer

12% (3)

No, I would not be happy to recieve an answer like that

20% (5)

Yes, I would be fine with that answer

25% (6)

You're just screwed get over it

8% (2)

Total Votes : 24

(last vote on : 7/22/2013 8:38:06 AM)
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DesFIP -> RE: I like being around you. Is that the kiss of relationship death? (6/26/2013 11:34:22 AM)
Is he a verbal guy normally? Because if not, then you may have caused him to draw a blank. The only way you're going to know is to ask. But I'm not sure I get the sense that you really do want to progress in a relationship with him. Once you open that door, it's hard to shut it again. So I'd figure out what you want before you worry about what he does.

SinFix -> RE: I like being around you. Is that the kiss of relationship death? (6/27/2013 5:22:38 AM)
Kirata... didn't think of it that way. Des.. if I ask yes he will tell me but doesn't just volunteer up information. We have talked about being more than friends and this is the only thing he doesn't come right out and say... I think what you are sensing is I am hesitant only because I am unsure of the situation at times and I'm not 100% sure he can or will fill my needs. Though I will say I am not the most vocal and have issues talking and for me I am best if I can write things down but he isn't the reading type so not sure if we can/could get past some of the communication problems...

ARIES83 -> RE: I like being around you. Is that the kiss of relationship death? (6/27/2013 9:39:55 AM)
Not the reading type... He'd better either have a heart or dick of gold... Or I'd say keep looking. [8D] Whats that mean anyway "not the reading type"? Is he a dumbo? Redneck?... Cross eyed?[&:] Reading is one of the best things ever invented! Literally.

jlf1961 -> RE: I like being around you. Is that the kiss of relationship death? (6/27/2013 10:17:57 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ARIES83 Not the reading type... He'd better either have a heart or dick of gold... Or I'd say keep looking. [8D] Whats that mean anyway "not the reading type"? Is he a dumbo? Redneck?... Cross eyed?[&:] Reading is one of the best things ever invented! Literally. Some people who are quite good readers dont like to read. Usually because they have a lot of reading to do in their professional lives. Personally I love to read, and have a large personal library. What I consider blasphemy is these "E-readers" since if god would have meant for humans to read on electronic tablets, he would not have inspired Gutenberg to invent the printing press.

ARIES83 -> RE: I like being around you. Is that the kiss of relationship death? (6/27/2013 10:58:30 AM)
Yer, I threw out/sold most of my books when I got into e-books, but now I'm starting to build up a library again, e-books have their place sure but having a real (hard cover) book in your hands has that basic human experience quality thats timeless. Like the difference between records(LPs-45s-78s)... and an ipod... Or maybe i'm just becoming a bit more discerning in my old age...[;)]

SinFix -> RE: I like being around you. Is that the kiss of relationship death? (6/27/2013 5:16:24 PM)
Yes he can read, but likes to take his time and read very slowly... for things like what I am talking about ie. going over feelings, concerns, issues he prefers to discuss them.. I'm not very good at talking but excellent at writing it all down.. just doesn't mess well together at times..

tommonymous -> RE: I like being around you. Is that the kiss of relationship death? (6/27/2013 5:41:18 PM)
So, write your stuff down and read it to him. Give him some time to respond, and take notes. Gather your thoughts, and then tell him what you think.

jlf1961 -> RE: I like being around you. Is that the kiss of relationship death? (6/27/2013 9:27:17 PM)
I agree, write what you feel down, give it to him, let him think before he responds... If you get a letter post marked Katmandu from him, a relationship is out of the question. I got a letter from my high school sweet heart three days before we graduated... you know the kind, house, white picket fence, 2.5 kids, a dog.... I sent her my reply from boot camp a week later. The day after graduation I left for basic training in the army.

ARIES83 -> RE: I like being around you. Is that the kiss of relationship death? (6/28/2013 5:25:55 AM)
It's a tough one, I wouldn't write a love letter to him if I was you... IMO feelings don't translate to words anywhere near as well as they do into actions... Although I wouldn't particularly advise taking any actions either haha... I'm firm believer in the ball being in the guys court... I think it was Ishtar who said she conducted an experiment in picking up guys, where she failed consistently by being the aggressor, but succeeded when trying more indirect methods. Whatever the case, keep us posted[;)]

SinFix -> RE: I like being around you. Is that the kiss of relationship death? (6/28/2013 9:17:36 AM)
LOL... Too late, he already has deduced my feelings for him. Called me out on it one night, saying how much he liked all the little things I do that show my love for him. On the writing, not so much feelings as in love but more along the lines of things that bother me. I am trying to talk more not just write because I feel it is a skill I need to better develop, because I am the kind that will lay there in agony instead of saying something.

ARIES83 -> RE: I like being around you. Is that the kiss of relationship death? (6/28/2013 9:28:44 AM)
I've been toying with the idea of setting up some kind of dictation thing so I could start speaking out my posts and writings rather than typing them... It would probably be a neat way of improving spoken thought articulation skills, I've tried it with Siri on my iPhone but she makes to many mistakes to make it viable.

SinFix -> RE: I like being around you. Is that the kiss of relationship death? (6/28/2013 10:03:50 AM)
That's the thing, I am stellar at giving speeches. My issue is when it comes to a back and forth dialog, my train of thought scatters and I lose the point I was trying to make.

theshytype -> RE: I like being around you. Is that the kiss of relationship death? (6/28/2013 12:24:41 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SinFix That's the thing, I am stellar at giving speeches. My issue is when it comes to a back and forth dialog, my train of thought scatters and I lose the point I was trying to make. I'm the same way. The adrenaline from being in front of a crowd makes me think clearer. So....he knows how you feel then? Saves you from having to tell him!

ARIES83 -> RE: I like being around you. Is that the kiss of relationship death? (6/28/2013 7:26:16 PM)
I'd say everyone gets that way sometimes Sin... Practice probably makes perfect.

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