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AWingedGuardian -> RE: What am I? (7/1/2013 12:15:08 PM)
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Time to get my proverbial feet wet.
I feel that the issue here is that the individual you were speaking with might seek to use "proper gear" and "proper terminology" as a sense of validation. A sort of strutting about, as it were. Truth be told if you didn't have the mentality that allowed to you utilize the household items in the first place, then there would be an issue with referring to yourself as a "Dom." However I believe that nitpicking about terminology is rather petty in the grand scheme of things.
Does your submissive respect you, regardless of what item you are using? Do they understand the position without having to be told twice? Yes? Ok then. Crisis averted. There is no particular "manual" that everyone refers to for their word choice. I can guarantee that Dominants from other countries would utilize some other term, taking translations into account, of course.
Much less, I was under the assumption that by living this Lifestyle, we sort of stopped caring about what others thought of us?
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