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cutiewithabootie -> RE: Shopping and foot slave (7/5/2013 12:11:05 PM)
I love Jimmy Choos. Things that make me go mmmmmmm. Size 6 so long as you don't think I am ever going to dominate you.

MissToYouRedux -> RE: Shopping and foot slave (7/5/2013 2:05:59 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: bob330 ... I would assume many women would enjoy to be shopped for with the only thing they have to give in return is to allow the sub to lick the soles of their shoes clean... Honestly, this sounds like a perfect Craig's List posting to me.

TNDommeK -> RE: Shopping and foot slave (7/5/2013 2:41:13 PM)
I have three pair. I LOVE THEM!!!!!!

artemiss -> RE: Shopping and foot slave (7/5/2013 6:01:44 PM)
Damn, the OP never got in touch. No new shoes for me :-(

MistressDarkArt -> RE: Shopping and foot slave (7/5/2013 6:06:13 PM)
^^^Of course not. He's had a wank or three since he posted, and it was free. [:D]

MasterCaneman -> RE: Shopping and foot slave (7/5/2013 7:24:31 PM)
I'm sure you do. For that matter, my GF would love a pair or three, but I have this nagging desire to avoid homelessness. [;)].

TNDommeK -> RE: Shopping and foot slave (7/6/2013 4:18:57 AM)
Get that woman a pair!!

MasterCaneman -> RE: Shopping and foot slave (7/6/2013 5:29:44 AM)
She'll get a pair when she starts wearing the ones I've already gotten her. My woman loves shoes, so much so that she doesn't wear them. Instead, she's got this horrible pair of black sneakers that look like the ones Beavis and Butthead wore. Oh, those and a pair of flat-heeled boots I picked up for her at Dollar General. For ten bucks. Everything else gathers dust in her closet. Until that changes, the ones she wants stay in the store, period.

DesFIP -> RE: Shopping and foot slave (7/7/2013 9:11:08 PM)
A woman after my own heart. The Man dragged me out shopping a few weeks ago. He forced me to try on outfits until I finally revolted. I can't think of anything worse than having to spend the day shopping. And I live in my sneakers if I have to wear shoes. I'd rather be barefoot.

MasterCaneman -> RE: Shopping and foot slave (7/8/2013 7:03:25 AM)
Oh, I won't try to dress her. While my woman isn't kinky, she's a very dominant personality. Used to getting her way, which is why we clash at times. There's no way in Hell she'll wear anything I pick out for her, and frankly I agree with her. I have zero interest in experience in women's couture, and no desire to gain any. But she does look good in jeans and boots, even flat-soled ones. I won't force her to wear heels, because I know she does have some foot issues I can relate to. But it would be nice in the bedroom occasionally >sighs impassively<.

TNDommeK -> RE: Shopping and foot slave (7/8/2013 8:12:38 AM)
Haha, you sound just like my hubby. He refuses to get me any more shoes or purses. It's not that I haven't worn the shoes, it's that I love them so much, I don't want to wear them out, so I bring them out on special occasion. I'm like DesFIP, I'd rather be barefoot. But I love a beautiful shoe.

thishereboi -> RE: Shopping and foot slave (7/8/2013 10:33:02 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: PetiteDommePA So when you use the term "slave" and proceed to give out a detailed fantasy that you want to find a "dominant" to indulge you in.....what exactly are you being a slave to? If I am not mistaken it's hanging between his legs

LadyPact -> RE: Shopping and foot slave (7/8/2013 12:35:58 PM)
Fast reply....... Man, I'm hoping the next time that a findomme thread comes up that this thread gets pulled into it. Just as a case in point that there are males out there who just want to buy their kinks from women, who really don't care if the chick is into him or not. Maybe it will even things out a little bit.

evesgrden -> RE: Shopping and foot slave (7/8/2013 1:00:57 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact Fast reply....... Man, I'm hoping the next time that a findomme thread comes up that this thread gets pulled into it. Just as a case in point that there are males out there who just want to buy their kinks from women, who really don't care if the chick is into him or not. Maybe it will even things out a little bit. I don't think there was ever a question about whether there were men who wanted to buy their kinks. I think the complaints were about findommes who didn't just ownfrom the get-go that their kinks were for sale.

lizi -> RE: Shopping and foot slave (7/8/2013 1:56:03 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: evesgrden I don't think there was ever a question about whether there were men who wanted to buy their kinks. I think the complaints were about findommes who didn't just ownfrom the get-go that their kinks were for sale. On every findomme thread there's usually at least one guy who says that there either aren't guys out there wanting to buy kink, or that it's rare, and the women who are saying it happens are misrepresenting the actual amount of men that do it. Then that particular tangent devolves into a he said, she said thing - it's generally not a given that people believe that financial domination actually exists. They see the ducklipped chickies flipping the bird in profiles and asking for money, they don't see the men asking to give those women money.

AAkasha -> RE: Shopping and foot slave (7/8/2013 9:13:58 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact Fast reply....... Man, I'm hoping the next time that a findomme thread comes up that this thread gets pulled into it. Just as a case in point that there are males out there who just want to buy their kinks from women, who really don't care if the chick is into him or not. Maybe it will even things out a little bit. For some submissive men, the fact that the dominant woman is emotionally distant is part of the eroticism. Unfortunately he is stuck between a rock and a hard place because he still has to find a way to do this consensually but at the very core, the only mutual respect is the give and take of the transaction. And he can't just get a random lady off of Craigslist, because that "emotional distance" is his fetish, and thus, it needs to be heavily incorporated into the whole experience. He might have an "ok" time shopping with a woman or a few ladies who kind of ignore him, but most people can't help themselves but be kind now and then or - heaven forbid - have sympathy if maybe he looks embarassed or want to make friendly small talk. That ruins it for him. He wants sensual tension, a cool distance, some objectification. The ideal solution? A mutually affectionate relationship where this is all roleplayed. As much as some kinksters wrinkle their nose at "roleplaying" like it's not real, this is the safest way for a man like this to enjoy his fetish. His wife, girlfriend or whoever can decide one day to treat him like an object out shopping. For some men though they can't break into the illusion that she's the one that loves him and that might wrinkle the fantasy. Another idea? She can "loan" him to a friend with some carefully worded parameters on how to treat him. I have a lot of "vanilla" girlfriends that kind of understand what I do but they don't want a slave of their own. They can be ideal for this kind of thing if I were in a relationship with a man that loved that. But even then, they'd be 'acting.' Akasha

UnicornGoddess -> RE: Shopping and foot slave (7/12/2013 7:54:58 PM)
There are many findoms, myself included, who would and do engage in this sort of play/arrangements. If you were to search this site for women into financial domination, foot worship and shoe fetishism you would certainly find lots of options.

VideoAdminRho -> RE: Shopping and foot slave (7/16/2013 4:21:25 PM)
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tazzygirl -> RE: Shopping and foot slave (7/16/2013 4:29:12 PM)
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