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ARIES83 -> RE: Dungeon and Equipment Photos! (6/30/2013 10:58:07 AM)
...It's not "kneel over" or "kill over"... The saying is to "keel over" as in the keel of a boat. Very nice cages! I'm slightly troubled by the reoccurring teddy bear motifs haha. hrxxx, You seem like a pretty good handyman, $150 for that cage is excellent value.

Rawni -> RE: Dungeon and Equipment Photos! (6/30/2013 11:01:33 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ARIES83 ...It's not "kneel over" or "kill over"... The saying is to "keel over" as in the keel of a boat. Very nice cages! I'm slightly troubled by the reoccurring teddy bear motifs haha. hrxxx, You seem like a pretty good handyman, $150 for that cage is excellent value. LOL... thanks for the information on the proper word usage. I will often do that, thus my need for an editor. It happens with the TIA"s I get and as a result of them. I love the assist, but I will most likely forget it again. I won't be getting an editor for my forum playtime, so the assist is appreciated. [;)]

ARIES83 -> RE: Dungeon and Equipment Photos! (6/30/2013 11:10:55 AM)
Hey, you weren't the first person in this thread to do it. What's a TIA?

Rawni -> RE: Dungeon and Equipment Photos! (6/30/2013 11:26:47 AM)
A TIA is a mild stroke. I have a genetic disease that causes them, but mine are slightly different than what others have without the disease. I've had hundreds of them. Mine tend to effect my perception of time and my words, so sometimes I will phrase things oddly, I can lose words and call things something funny and my vocabulary has diminished, but it has taken many years to get to this point. Not a major deal until that 'big one'. [:D]

SpiritedRadiance -> RE: Dungeon and Equipment Photos! (6/30/2013 11:40:17 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: hrxxx quote: ORIGINAL: SpiritedRadiance And when you kneel over of a heart attack/stroke/seizure/diabetic coma/fall down and crack your skull open... And im still locked in unable to get out... unable to contact anyone.... And die because of you... Yeah YOU STILL ARENT GETTING THE POINT OF IT.... I understand what you mean, but there is safety, then there is insane safety. And put a phone into the cell will destroy the whole point, to have a cell, it is a penalty to be locked up, not a vacation. If you have so much fear of the cage, then you should stay away from them, and if so afraid of your Dom. dies during session then find one with good health and a good heart. Do you use phone in bondag? If I had to think of everything bad in the world that could happen, then I would die of nervous breakdown. Actually during bondage i have a set of scissors that are within reach for me to cut myself out of my bindings... I have superglue and sutures for needle play... I have a fire extinguisher for fire play... I have quick release cuffs for any sort of impact play.... I do this thing called know the risks of the play I do and have preventative measures for them... I feel comfortable saying a cage like Resident Sadists might put my mind at ease enough for me to feel comfortable in a cage... Because its now just not me being completely dependent on my owner... its me having a way out if its needed. And while It might ruin your hard on, ANY dominant who doesnt put MY SAFETY first... Doesnt get a repeat chance in harming me. I dont give a flying fuck about your cock when it comes to how I can be damaged.... I can think of a few dozen ways to put a phone in that cell where it wont be obvious but would be there for the subs safety... And the Part I bolded Makes you an unsafe player to me... ITS YOUR FUCKING JOB to know what can happen, what can go bad, how it can go bad, the likelihood it will go bad.... And how you need to react to each and every one of those factors... otherwise, guess what YOU end up in jail when shit goes south...

SpiritedRadiance -> RE: Dungeon and Equipment Photos! (6/30/2013 11:44:58 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ARIES83 ...It's not "kneel over" or "kill over"... The saying is to "keel over" as in the keel of a boat. Very nice cages! I'm slightly troubled by the reoccurring teddy bear motifs haha. hrxxx, You seem like a pretty good handyman, $150 for that cage is excellent value. Actually those who i know who have suffered heart attacks fell to their knees (Kneel) then fall over (over)... So kneel over is appropriate..

ARIES83 -> RE: Dungeon and Equipment Photos! (6/30/2013 11:49:53 AM)
[sm=jaw.gif]Thats not good Rawni! Spirited, Keep saying kneel over if you want, people will probably be thinking your having mini strokes... ...Because the saying is "Keel over"[sm=rofl.gif] I don't make the sayings... I just say them honeybunny.

Rawni -> RE: Dungeon and Equipment Photos! (6/30/2013 11:51:50 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SpiritedRadiance quote: ORIGINAL: ARIES83 ...It's not "kneel over" or "kill over"... The saying is to "keel over" as in the keel of a boat. Very nice cages! I'm slightly troubled by the reoccurring teddy bear motifs haha. hrxxx, You seem like a pretty good handyman, $150 for that cage is excellent value. Actually those who i know who have suffered heart attacks fell to their knees (Kneel) then fall over (over)... So kneel over is appropriate.. ROFLMAO! This is true. Been there done that. That is why I must have a back up plan in case something happens to me when I do play... though that isn't so often these days. I have never played where there wasn't a way that my partner couldn't save himself or had assistance that would be there before any harm could be done. We might be a tad bit embarrassed, but we can live through that. I just tell them to blame me. Hehe No cage here, but my bedroom is perfect for that captivity thing. [;)] All I now need is the captive.

MasterCaneman -> RE: Dungeon and Equipment Photos! (6/30/2013 11:56:54 AM)
I'm getting a kick out of all the teddy bears in bondage pics. I don't have pics of my old 'dungeon', as I essentially forbade any cameras from my residence, for, uhhhh, "professional reasons". I like RS's one with the phone. Yeah, it kind of kills the "inescapable confinement" vibe, but reality is what reality is in the scene.

goodgirlmary -> RE: Dungeon and Equipment Photos! (6/30/2013 1:12:53 PM)
I really think a teddy bear in a basic cage would still be nice. I never thought about it till today, but it is now totally on my list

hrxxx -> RE: Dungeon and Equipment Photos! (6/30/2013 1:30:09 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Rawni quote: ORIGINAL: hrxxx quote: ORIGINAL: SpiritedRadiance And when you kneel over of a heart attack/stroke/seizure/diabetic coma/fall down and crack your skull open... And im still locked in unable to get out... unable to contact anyone.... And die because of you... Yeah YOU STILL ARENT GETTING THE POINT OF IT.... I understand what you mean, but there is safety, then there is insane safety. And put a phone into the cell will destroy the whole point, to have a cell, it is a penalty to be locked up, not a vacation. If you have so much fear of the cage, then you should stay away from them, and if so afraid of your Dom. dies during session then find one with good health and a good heart. Do you use phone in bondag? If I had to think of everything bad in the world that could happen, then I would die of nervous breakdown. I realize from your postings on different threads, that you have this magical, unrealistic view of the uber dom and all that he should be and is and what a slave or submissive are, but really, your lack of wisdom is showing in your attempt to be an uber domly one. Being god like patient is wonderful if you are a god, but you are simply a man and therefore don't get to call when someone's time is up and a seemingly healthy dominant man can kill over unexpectedly. No one can control all things and urgent medical situations can arise without warning. If you cannot see this or allow for this, I would consider your play or playing with you as dangerous. Do you have a phone when you are in bondage? I play only with girls that I find mental healthy, and being paranoid I do not see as mental stable. Well I have never done some damage to girls, so I must be doing something right. I have never used a safe word, and I have never exceeded a limit, so I must be doing something right. And since I'm not the only one in Denmark that practice BDSM, I find it strange that in the almost 20 years I have been BDSM, there has been only one death in Denmark in BDSM. And I've never seen a cage with phone before in my life! The difference in the slave vs. submissive is A slave has NO rights A submissive HAVE rights Definition of slave a person who is the legal property of another and is forced to obey them Definition of submissive ready to conform to the authority or will of others; meekly obedient or passive:a submissive, almost sheeplike people Is this the same in your world

goodgirlmary -> RE: Dungeon and Equipment Photos! (6/30/2013 1:41:01 PM)
Hey a phone is a nice thought. Hes a sadist, no saying how often it works.but look, hes nice enough to care for his slaves. I think thats a gentlemen thing to do,especially in an extended scene.I dont know about denmark or old order or any of these things, but it seems like there is a reason he is so well established. and paranoia is a healthy response to trauma. I bet without the phone she might eventually get in his cage, because he seems to really think out the dangers of play. As someone who had to go to the hospital herself, I get her waryness. Bad dommes ruin it for the good ones, but the good ones are at least willing to help fix it. stop being a bully. Dominant people dont have to attack or trample. Its unbecoming.

Rawni -> RE: Dungeon and Equipment Photos! (6/30/2013 1:44:19 PM)
There is a big difference between paranoid and cautious and aware. Good try. You are so black and white.. so, your way is right, even in the face of many that also live doing things you do, saying they wouldn't do it your way and yet you are right. Bottom line, some of us would find you a threat in some situations. You can think of us any way you wish. You can lay off the real slave/submissive thing and proving what they are. I think some of us define them without your convincing. That has little to do with this. Even a slave could have a thoughtful and wise dominant or... the other kind. So nothing has happened with you and your slaves, so far. Great! Are you prepared if things did? Now, I have some slave work to do... called... real life that even this uber domina has to do. Damn it.

hrxxx -> RE: Dungeon and Equipment Photos! (6/30/2013 1:51:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Rawni quote: ORIGINAL: hrxxx quote: ORIGINAL: SpiritedRadiance And when you kneel over of a heart attack/stroke/seizure/diabetic coma/fall down and crack your skull open... And im still locked in unable to get out... unable to contact anyone.... And die because of you... Yeah YOU STILL ARENT GETTING THE POINT OF IT.... I understand what you mean, but there is safety, then there is insane safety. And put a phone into the cell will destroy the whole point, to have a cell, it is a penalty to be locked up, not a vacation. If you have so much fear of the cage, then you should stay away from them, and if so afraid of your Dom. dies during session then find one with good health and a good heart. Do you use phone in bondag? If I had to think of everything bad in the world that could happen, then I would die of nervous breakdown. I realize from your postings on different threads, that you have this magical, unrealistic view of the uber dom and all that he should be and is and what a slave or submissive are, but really, your lack of wisdom is showing in your attempt to be an uber domly one. Being god like patient is wonderful if you are a god, but you are simply a man and therefore don't get to call when someone's time is up and a seemingly healthy dominant man can kill over unexpectedly. No one can control all things and urgent medical situations can arise without warning. If you cannot see this or allow for this, I would consider your play or playing with you as dangerous. Do you have a phone when you are in bondage? I play only with girls that I find mental healthy, and being paranoid I do not see as mental stable. Well I have never done some damage to girls, so I must be doing something right. I have never used a safe word, and I have never exceeded a limit, so I must be doing something right. And since I'm not the only one in Denmark that practice BDSM, I find it strange that in the almost 20 years I have been BDSM, there has been only one death in Denmark in BDSM. And I've never seen a cage with phone before in my life!

goodgirlmary -> RE: Dungeon and Equipment Photos! (6/30/2013 1:59:58 PM)
Are bondageand cagesexclusive to each other? I would think that youshould always have a way to protect yourself if the situation turned

SpiritedRadiance -> RE: Dungeon and Equipment Photos! (6/30/2013 2:06:47 PM)
Im Not mentally unstable, Ive seen shit go wrong very very quickly, I understand the risks of the play I do. Hell I bloody teach classes in my community on how to negotiate and one on the various risks of play.. I understand what the fuck i do has serious fucking consequences... And Seeing as people can easily die from what it is we do... and Never used a safeword? Never broken a limit? How many Long term relationships have you had that have lasted more then a year? Long term Play partners? I know a guy in our local scene whos like you, he gets a one time play session then everyone says no thanks from then on

SpiritedRadiance -> RE: Dungeon and Equipment Photos! (6/30/2013 2:09:37 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: goodgirlmary Are bondageand cagesexclusive to each other? I would think that youshould always have a way to protect yourself if the situation turned No usually they are not done together... Hes trying to make a point that hes failing at because a Phone wouldnt be the proper safety precaution for bondage, Scissors or a knife would be. his point is that you dont need safety precautions... My point as ive played with someone who had epilepsy, i have ways to keep myself safe should shit go awry..

UllrsIshtar -> RE: Dungeon and Equipment Photos! (6/30/2013 2:15:00 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SpiritedRadiance and Never used a safeword? Never broken a limit? How many Long term relationships have you had that have lasted more then a year? Long term Play partners? Are you trying to imply that those who don't use safewords can't be in long term relationships? I don't use safewords outside of casual play. I never use safewords with long term partners, my limits have never been broken, and I engage in more extreme edge play than what hrxxx has so far mentioned. As far as the number of longterm relationships I've had under those conditions: 3. While I think hrxxx is an absolute wannabe idiot for criticizing other people's choice to build in safety precautions during play, I'm equally rather annoyed at your implication that making the conscious and active choice to not build in those safety precautions means you would be unable to maintain a long time and healthy relationship. I've frequently played with bondage, cages and chains that I am unable to get out of on my own, and leave me at risk of death by dehydration if the top would suffer a heart attack or something like that. Hell, I did it last night. It's a risk I'm aware of taking when I do it, and I don't diminish it, but it's a risk I'm nevertheless willing to take under certain circumstances. Who are you to judge my capacity for long term relationships over that?

SpiritedRadiance -> RE: Dungeon and Equipment Photos! (6/30/2013 2:20:45 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar quote: ORIGINAL: SpiritedRadiance and Never used a safeword? Never broken a limit? How many Long term relationships have you had that have lasted more then a year? Long term Play partners? Are you trying to imply that those who don't use safewords can't be in long term relationships? I don't use safewords outside of casual play. I never use safewords with long term partners, my limits have never been broken, and I engage in more extreme edge play than what hrxxx has so far mentioned. As far as the number of longterm relationships I've had under those conditions: 3. While I think hrxxx is an absolute wannabe idiot for criticizing other people's choice to build in safety precautions during play, I'm equally rather annoyed at your implication that making the conscious and active choice to not build in those safety precautions means you would be unable to maintain a long time and healthy relationship. I've frequently played with bondage, cages and chains that I am unable to get out of on my own, and leave me at risk of death by dehydration if the top would suffer a heart attack or something like that. Hell, I did it last night. It's a risk I'm aware of taking when I do it, and I don't diminish it, but it's a risk I'm nevertheless willing to take under certain circumstances. Who are you to judge my capacity for long term relationships over that? Actually I'm trying to imply that if he hasnt had long term relationships, or hasnt had a long term play partner, even though he has "never broken a limit" and 'Never uses a safeword" that there might be a reason he doesnt get anyone to stay with him long term and or anyone who wants to play with him again. Not that... not having a safeword, implies the inability to have a healthy relationship.. IF you had read a little bit further before you jumped in head first with your comments , youd have seen the example I used that implies what i said above.

SimplyMichael -> RE: Dungeon and Equipment Photos! (6/30/2013 2:23:16 PM)
+1 for what Ishtar said about both of you.

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