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Met a sub for the first...and second time - 7/1/2013 6:36:56 PM

MissSinfulCyn

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Met my first sub from the site in a looooong time.

Being a Domme on this site, I get sent messages from people all across the US, and even in Europe...but rarely are the subs that are interested within considerable driving distance.

About a month or two ago, I had been chatting with a sub living in my hometown for a while, and we decided that we would meet up for ice cream. Being the Cold Stone lover that I am, I decided that getting ice cream would be a nice, relaxed, low-key meet-n'-greet location! We decided on a day and time and met one evening to share a frozen treat.

Of course, the meeting started of slightly awkward. (just like many first dates, right?) We said our hellos and headed inside. I ordered for myself and waiting for him to place his order (which was a vanilla shake...funny, right?

) Anyway, since it was such a nice day outside, we ate outdoors.

The sub and I then continued to be awkward...talking about the weather and other dull subjects until I had decided that the people in our immediate surrounding weren't paying as much attention to us. I guess an attractive, young, African American sitting with a man 20+ years her senior makes people raise their eyebrows... hmm.

We then talked about what he was looking for in a D/s relationship and what made him seek me out. This continued on to questions of why he wanted to serve me and how, as well as how often.

The meeting didn't really last very long, but it was nice. I could tell that he was a little nervous and eager to finally meet me. We have only met one other time...and that was briefly so he could pay to get my nails done.

The jury is still out when it comes to whether or not it will lead to more. I don't really feel chemistry there yet. I can't judge his submissive side, which puts me at a loss. He has never been in a D/s relationship and I don't know if I have the energy to train somebody that is oblivious to what is expected of them.

What do you guys think??

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RE: Met a sub for the first...and second time - 7/1/2013 7:50:23 PM

DarkSteven

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First, welcome to the forums! Your first post, almost at your two year anniversary of joining.

Second, please post his username IAW forum guidelines.

Third, you two don't have chemistry, and you're moving to Austria in 2 or 3 months. Good chance it won't go anywhere. That said, it could be a fantastic opportunity for him to experience D/s, and you'd have an easy time since you don;t have to untrain him from a previous Domme.

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RE: Met a sub for the first...and second time - 7/1/2013 9:51:00 PM

MissSinfulCyn

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Ah yes, meant to remember to go back and do all the requirements. :)

I met user al81 for the first time...in April, I believe... and then for the second time in June. He and I had been in contact for about 5 months or so prior to meeting in person.

Though something long-term and in-person isn't something I can see happening, I hope to keep in contact with him.

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