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Lashra -> Underweight subs/Doms (6/27/2006 12:18:28 PM)

Personally I prefer a person with more weight on them as well as height. I've seen so many posts about the fat, the overweight etc etc. I thought it was time to talk about the underweight.

I do not find the very thin attractive, now this is just me as I know many people do like subs/Doms are are extremely thin. But for me the sight of seeing the ribs or bones just under the skin doesn't do a darned thing for me. In my female subs I love curves and a set of lovely breasts and on my men I like some muscle but not so taut it doesn't have some give to it.

What do others think about the very skinny?

~Lashra
Whipping asses since 1981



zumala -> RE: Underweight subs/Doms (6/27/2006 12:20:49 PM)

I think I'd like to slap anyone who wants to talk about how my breasts aren't 'nice and large and rounded'.  When I weighed 142 and was a size 12 I STILL had size A breasts.  *shrug*  So I figure it's bad form to pick on someone regardless of their size.
 
zuma



LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Underweight subs/Doms (6/27/2006 12:21:09 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Lashra
What do others think about the very skinny?

~Lashra
Whipping asses since 1981

I'm not generally attracted to very skinny people.

Or smokers.

Or people with young children.

Or people who have no fashion sense.

Or people who haven't gone to college.

Or very fat people.

Or people who drink alcohol a lot.

Or people who aren't geeky

Or people who aren't seriously into music

Or people who aren't polyamorous

In general, these people are not attractive to me.

I'm sure I'm not attractive to at least 60% of the world.



fullofgrace -> RE: Underweight subs/Doms (6/27/2006 12:23:38 PM)

i've always wanted to be underweight. i've always ranged from high end of normal to overweight. my Dominant (along with the other two guys with which i've had serious relationships) is low end of normal verging on underweight - in His case, this is due to His health, in my previous relationships, it was due to my partners' body composition.

i find women who have some weight on them to seem more beautiful and glowing (not to say i don't find thin women attractive), but for myself, i have to confess to falling prey to the thinness ideal. as far as men, i like them in all shapes and sizes :) i love tall, big-boned, well-muscled men with that bear-ish look. it's a comfort/security thing, i guess. generally, as far as weight goes, i'm not picky...i just seem to have a track record of ending up with medium to tall, really, really skinny to somewhat skinny men.



Kedikat -> RE: Underweight subs/Doms (6/27/2006 12:25:43 PM)

hehe
The tinier the butt, the bigger my dick looks as I enjoy it. [:D] Ego booster [:)]
But some well rounded flesh, is delicious.
I have a reasonably broad range of what I find sexy/attractive. Luckily.
Obese and anorexic fall outside that range. As for breasts...they are all good. I prefer less than more though.



MistressDREAD -> RE: Underweight subs/Doms (6/27/2006 12:29:22 PM)

LMBAO![:D]



GoddessDustyGold -> RE: Underweight subs/Doms (6/27/2006 12:34:51 PM)

I am one of the skinnies.  And I am not happy about it. 
It is just as hard on this side of the scale.  I am sure I would look and feel better with at least 10 more pounds on Me.  If I can gain it, great.  If I can't, which is usually the case, then I have to deal with it.  But I would personally prefer some extra weight and a softening of My angles.  *Smile*  So I am amazed at the number of boys who write to Me, only because of My photos.  It is hard for Me to buy properly fitting clothes, also.
Thank you Madison Avenue! 



darkinshadows -> RE: Underweight subs/Doms (6/27/2006 12:39:18 PM)

Skinny is subjective.
 
Iggy Pop could be called skinny - but hes hot.
Kate Moss could be called skinny - she isnt.
 
I don't like blondes particularly, but my second partner was very fair - almost white hair and totally natural.  Very sexy so He was.
 
And currently I am partaking a relationship with someone who smokes cigars.  And I loathe smokers.
 
Personal preferences are just that... personal - but they alter depending on the person you get to know.  And that is more important to me.
 
Peace and Rapture
 



zenofeller -> RE: Underweight subs/Doms (6/27/2006 1:01:14 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross
I'm sure I'm not attractive to at least 60% of the world.


no, actually, what seinfeld said. 90% of all people are undateable.



Caretakr -> RE: Underweight subs/Doms (6/27/2006 1:06:25 PM)

I must be odd, I like women with tiny, or non existent breasts. Has such an innocent and corruptible look to me.

I'd probably be gay, if I didn't prefer the other sorts of bits between the legs.[;)]



composer83 -> RE: Underweight subs/Doms (6/27/2006 1:08:45 PM)

got news for you Caretakr....
we are all odd here!
MWAH HA HA HA HA HA HA!!!



Taylore -> RE: Underweight subs/Doms (6/27/2006 1:09:50 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Lashra

Personally I prefer a person with more weight on them as well as height. I've seen so many posts about the fat, the overweight etc etc. I thought it was time to talk about the underweight.

I do not find the very thin attractive, now this is just me as I know many people do like subs/Doms are are extremely thin. But for me the sight of seeing the ribs or bones just under the skin doesn't do a darned thing for me. In my female subs I love curves and a set of lovely breasts and on my men I like some muscle but not so taut it doesn't have some give to it.

What do others think about the very skinny?

~Lashra
Whipping asses since 1981

This slave is not concerned with weight so much as health. I enjoy outdoor activities; I want to be with someone who can enjoy them with me.



NeedToUseYou -> RE: Underweight subs/Doms (6/27/2006 1:10:42 PM)

I find the very skinny unattractive, and I find the very overweight unattractive. Somewhat skinny, no problem, somewhat chunky, no problem. It's the outer edges of the extreme that are unattractive. My preference is about 10-15 pounds over weight depending on height, as it adds a bit in the right spots(In my opinion,LOL). But a person that is underweight is sometimes hot to. Or some girls that are more than 15 pounds overweight. It just depends on how it is spread out, and where it is located:). I think it's really more about how the fat is distributed than how much fat a person has.





Caretakr -> RE: Underweight subs/Doms (6/27/2006 1:13:51 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: composer83

got news for you Caretakr....
we are all odd here!
MWAH HA HA HA HA HA HA!!!


Is that why I am here? hmmmmmmmmmmm[:)]



juliaoceania -> RE: Underweight subs/Doms (6/27/2006 1:15:27 PM)

It isn't the size of the vessel, it is if the vessel can get you where you need to go in a comfortable way. I find people that are healthy and active and confident are the most attractive to me... The body is nothing but a vessel to get us around in life, I prefer someone that has paid attention to that vessel and nourished it and exercised it and taken care of it... it really doesnt matter what size is it does it?



BeautyNTheBeast -> RE: Underweight subs/Doms (6/27/2006 1:23:05 PM)

To me... its not the size or lack thereof of a person that makes them attractive.  My mother always taught me..."you can wrap poop in pretty paper and fancy bow... but take that away... and its still poop".

People should focus more on a persons heart, soul, passions and compassion than what the exterior a person.  Now i know the arguement is going to arise as far as  physical attraction.  But i would rather have a person a little  over or under weight and find them extremely attractive because of their soul and the aura they put off.



redpetals -> RE: Underweight subs/Doms (6/27/2006 1:23:42 PM)

six foot and at least 220#s..but very hard
as a matter to fact..240#s and hard is better..
thats my preference for Doms
i always feel like i have to handle smaller people more carefully..like they are fragile..
and that is unattractive to me
and i need to see knees and elbows well defined..
and for a sub i just love big breasts with substance
 i am very active..and i need someone to be able to keep up with me also.



SkinnySlave -> RE: Underweight subs/Doms (6/27/2006 1:24:33 PM)

Sometimes the size differences create a power issue.  There are some SSBBW?BBW Dommes who thrive on that power, and some of us smaller slaves who respect it.



Caretakr -> RE: Underweight subs/Doms (6/27/2006 1:25:36 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

It isn't the size of the vessel, it is if the vessel can get you where you need to go in a comfortable way. I find people that are healthy and active and confident are the most attractive to me... The body is nothing but a vessel to get us around in life, I prefer someone that has paid attention to that vessel and nourished it and exercised it and taken care of it... it really doesnt matter what size is it does it?


The vessel can be quite attractive,but not if it's filled with vinegar.[;)]



redpetals -> RE: Underweight subs/Doms (6/27/2006 1:27:11 PM)

you are right
in the end its all about chemistry
either someone turns you on or they dont



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