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Hello from a WI belt lover - 7/2/2013 3:06:43 PM

lookingglass456

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Hey all. I'm a young guy new to the world of kink. I have always had a feeling that being kinky or being into BDSM was ridiculed or maybe just misunderstood by the vanilla world at large. Also, I have always had the impression that very many young people were not interested in exploring their freaky side. Perhaps that's just because the subject is rarely brought up.

As you can tell from my status, I love belts. :) I guess you could say I have a fetish for them, especially being tied up with them. Don't know where this comes from, but it's my thing--I own my special quality with love.

I'm interested in meeting others like me on Collarme, for friendship or perhaps something more. Hello again!

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RE: Hello from a WI belt lover - 7/2/2013 3:34:49 PM

Rasciallymisty

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Welcome to CM and the forums, this side is where discussions take place the other side is where you will find that in which you seek hopefully. You maybe in search of a UNICORN I will keep my fingers crossed that you find one. You have a nice intro here but your profile is lacking big time.

My suggestions would be....

1- You are going to have to come up with a better profile if you want women to stop and view you. Your profile say you are switch but I would say from what you have written you are more a sub. Make your profile one that the Dommes on the other side will want to read. Tell them what your likes are in the vanilla world your enjoyments other than sex. But do not make an all about me profile or all about your D/s likes and dislikes.

2- Head down to the Mistress, Master and sub/slave thread's and maybe join in some of the discussions. Acual the only ones I might say beware of is Politics and Religion unless you like getting into some debates.

3- Use the search on this side ( little button up there on top ^^^^ on the right hand side) if you have some questions as they may have already been asked...or ask away.

Just be careful that you do not post on post that are more than three months old....the Mods frown on doing so.

4- Never post nude pics.....women tend to dislike them. So I would say yes to ditching your pics you already have. They like action pics of you doing things like maybe boating, skiing, things along those lines. Things you are into not related to D/s.

These are just a few suggestions free for the giving

. Its nice to have you join us here on the forums and hopefully you will stick around and join in on some of the discussions. Do beware some peeps are super kewl on this side and some not so kewl. Have a thick skin and you will do fine. Hope you enjoy your time here.

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RE: Hello from a WI belt lover - 7/2/2013 5:12:28 PM

MistressDarkArt

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Welcome, glass! Another vote for ditching the nude/fetish pics. There will be time for those after someone gets to know the OTHER you.

Best of luck! Hope you enjoy the boards and make some friends.

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RE: Hello from a WI belt lover - 7/2/2013 8:30:09 PM

DomMeinCT

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Welcome LG, to the discussion side of CM.
Come and talk and discuss and argue.

Just want to confirm what others have said...we know your penis is special to you, but showing it off right off doesn't make it special to the women you seek. They want to connect with you first as a human, not a penis.

Best in finding your partner-in-belts.

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if there is any reaction, both are transformed.
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