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RE: Can we just have a little fun? - 7/4/2013 6:51:46 AM

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I remember being over his knee one time and while he wasn't looking, I tied his shoe laces together. Good time that.
Unfortunately he's always noticed since.

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RE: Can we just have a little fun? - 7/4/2013 10:10:21 AM

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Well...
I can say I have lived it, having done this for most of my life. I have relished the highs, despised the lows, and embraced them regardless of the outcome. I have also scrutinized it as it applies to "my" life. I know each turn that brought me here and the reasons I am unlikely to change. I did some time in therapy to resolve some issues that have haunted me because there is no escaping life experiences. And I have a degree in psy, criminology and social science in my attempt to find out why people do as they do. Not for societies sake but for my own.

So yeah, I have looked long and hard into perversions and how they enhance my life. Enhance. I am what I am because life brought me here. I appreciate every snooty trait, every logical dissection and most importantly the learned ability to transform the dish I was served into a gourmet life. I have enjoyed my sensual life. If it hadn't been fun I probably would have needed to find another way to be comfortable in a skin I was conditioned to believe was not prime.

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RE: Can we just have a little fun? - 7/4/2013 10:20:43 AM

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O' I think the boards are the only time Arturas, and I ever get " over analytical". Together it's all fun and games, and protocol etc.

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RE: Can we just have a little fun? - 7/4/2013 10:50:17 AM

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Do we ever just have fun anymore? Are people so caught up in analyzing WIITWD that we don't just kick back, relax, and enjoy ourselves?

This cat thinks they call it 'play" for a reason.
We've done all sorts of fun and silly stuff, from having her try to hum the Star Spangled Banner all the way through a blow job to incorporating games into play.
Good times.

I just about spit my coffee at my laptop laughing at that.

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I mean no offense to other posters. If you're really into the 'deeper, better, more spiritual, sprinkle the fairy dust on' type of BDSM, seriously, more power to you.

While it *can* be that, I just wanted to say a word or two about the fact that it doesn't *have* to be that.

Do we ever just have fun anymore? Are people so caught up in analyzing WIITWD that we don't just kick back, relax, and enjoy ourselves?

You can scrutinize life, or you can live it.

Yeah, I have felt the same way sometimes. My husband and myself are always having fun, well when we are not being forced to be serious. You are right, it is a relationship. I guess you could even go so far as to call us an old married couple now since it has been 20 years. God where did the time go??

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RE: Can we just have a little fun? - 7/4/2013 12:11:20 PM

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Sexual bets watching sporting events...

Little code words when around others that only have meaning to us...

Reaching into his pants while he is driving just to see the look on his face...

If a man cant make me laugh, it gets too boring.

Laughing afterwards is cathartic.

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RE: Can we just have a little fun? - 7/4/2013 10:08:11 PM

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Master and I have fun all the time. While he's the one in charge in our relationship and we take our relationship seriously, we also laugh and have fun just like most happy and secure relationships do.

Like he said, we do fun stuff during sex and play all the time. He loves to make me laugh anytime he can because he feels I don't laugh enough and he likes to hear me laugh and likes to see me having fun and I like to do the same with him. I like when he is smiling and laughing.

Besides with the big klutz that I am it doesn't take much for us to end up laughing our asses off at the predicaments I get myself into.

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RE: Can we just have a little fun? - 7/5/2013 5:24:56 AM

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

I remember being over his knee one time and while he wasn't looking, I tied his shoe laces together. Good time that.
Unfortunately he's always noticed since.

Ooohhhh I LIKE this!!!! You must be fast and have really nimble fingers...did he fall over?

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RE: Can we just have a little fun? - 7/5/2013 10:37:42 AM

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Master and I have fun all the time. While he's the one in charge in our relationship and we take our relationship seriously, we also laugh and have fun just like most happy and secure relationships do.

Like he said, we do fun stuff during sex and play all the time. He loves to make me laugh anytime he can because he feels I don't laugh enough and he likes to hear me laugh and likes to see me having fun and I like to do the same with him. I like when he is smiling and laughing.

Besides with the big klutz that I am it doesn't take much for us to end up laughing our asses off at the predicaments I get myself into.

Lately I have been chased all over the house while he plays Here Come the Mummies from Bob and Tom. He keeps getting Dirty Minds stuck in my head. Oh I make a big show of how annoying it is, but really it is fun. He got tired of playing the I'm gonna tie you up, one. We really have so much fun together. Did I ever tell you about the time I hit his cup while he was drinking ice water?? LOL he looked hot. Too bad I stood around laughing at the look on his face just a little bit too long. ROFL

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RE: Can we just have a little fun? - 7/8/2013 11:07:54 AM

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ORIGINAL: TieMeInKnottss

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

I remember being over his knee one time and while he wasn't looking, I tied his shoe laces together. Good time that.
Unfortunately he's always noticed since.

Ooohhhh I LIKE this!!!! You must be fast and have really nimble fingers...did he fall over?

Even I have to chuckle at this. Just the thought of it occurring makes me snicker. I can't help it, but being around others who don't have a sense of humor? Boring. Utterly boring. Laughing and the release of natural endorphins is the way to go. Sure you can have rules or protocols set in place, but it's almost as if you're tempting that person to break them.

Still...while you might wind up getting more spankings over the knee for it, if I had a sub do such a thing to me? It'd only make me smirk each time I checked my laces.

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