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Mature Mistress - 6/27/2006 2:11:46 PM   
Captnlen


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Status: offline 		is there such a thing.  Done a search or two in CM and there are a few in their fifties but most are younger.

i am 65, can't play 24/7 and want someone to share vanilla times too and can relate too.

A 19 year old Mistress who is "mature"  is  not what i seek.

what happens to the domme when she hits late 50's and 60's .

where do they go
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RE: Mature Mistress - 6/27/2006 3:13:14 PM   
GoddessDustyGold


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From: Arizona
Status: offline 		Hmmmm...
We are here, either already of that age or fast approaching.  And there are plenty of us.  So I am not sure what the problem is with the age factor.
I do see a problem with the profile factor.
Quite honestly, Captnlen, you present yourself as an older man who claims to have a sub side, but you ask a Domina to relocate to you for
 
quote:

long term, intense cock and ball
torture, tit torture, anal, and
electro torture!

If your local have a playroom and toys

If your a Pro will trade use of the room
for your attentions.

Can participate or assist in threesomes.

No Games. I have 50 years as a Sub and am a
widower who wishes to expeience the pleasure
of providing for my MS/Domme needs, demands
and fantasies.


It sounds like you are seeking a strong Lady who is willing to be your vanilla girlfriend and dominate you your way, when you are in the mood.  I am glad you threw in the part about being willing to participate or assist in threesomes.  Because that is in very high demand. **Now removing tongue from cheek**
The whole tone of it would be a pretty big turn off for most of the Ladies I know. Your profile even begins with the fact that is is a new one to show the sub side. (?????)  Why not just say you are a switch.
All in all, it sounds like you have made up your mind exactly how you will submit, and what the Lady should be prepared to supply in terms of dungeon space and toys.  Are you providing for your MS/Domme's needs, demands and fantasies, or your own? 
I am puzzled, but welcome to the boards, anyway.



< Message edited by GoddessDustyGold -- 6/27/2006 3:17:04 PM >

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RE: Mature Mistress - 6/27/2006 4:16:25 PM   
MsSonnetMarwood


Posts: 1898
Joined: 2/10/2005
From: Eastern Shore, Maryland
Status: offline 		I'll agree with Dusty...the profile as it is is VERY do-me bottom.

As far as older folk, I've always found plenty when I went to BDSM events.  Perhaps that's a better way to meet them rather than online.   I know of at least a few in the age range that you are looking for who don't care to use computers to meet others.

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RE: Mature Mistress - 6/27/2006 4:26:45 PM   
MistressDREAD


Posts: 2943
Joined: 1/1/2004
Status: offline 		Im 47 in age.
Does this make Me mature?
I hope not. I prefer being immature
most of the time as it keeps Me
feeling 27 instead of 47.
As many know here I Own a very old
and disabled slave. his 24/7 days of
service to Me and My Household are
over however his Ownership as My
posession is not. It was a lifetime commitment
with in My Poly Home. I live My life 24/7
but this does not mean that I do not do things
thats concidered vanilla however how I do them
would be concidered alternate. I would enjoy
owning slaves such as you within My Poly living.
However just as its hard for you to find what you
seek I to have issues with finding that which fits
whats allready in place. Dont give up. Us Older
Lifestylers are out there. We might not be as well
seen but We are about.

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RE: Mature Mistress - 6/27/2006 4:39:32 PM   
mariba


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Status: offline 		Maturity does not come from age or years.  If  you are attracted to "mature" Dommes you are probably talking about an age bracket.  There  is nothing wrong with that, but there are "old souls" out there that are fully mature at 30.  You are going to grow old but some people will be immature forever.

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RE: Mature Mistress - 6/27/2006 6:05:01 PM   
Captnlen


Posts: 28
Joined: 2/3/2006
Status: offline 		Well was trying for a reaction.

Guess i got the wrong one.

Revised everything again.

No attempt to be anything but what I am .

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RE: Mature Mistress - 6/27/2006 6:26:03 PM   
jonathan


Posts: 196
Joined: 8/5/2004
Status: offline 		Oh, yes, there is. Just VERY hard to find. Up to you to dig and dig for it. And to be patient and ready for it when it happens. It took me from the last century into this one, with disappointments along the way, to arrive. Now i have hopes of being happy. Follow the advice you get here. This site is one of few places where you can truly grow. From what i have read on this thread, that is something you should address. i've had to.


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RE: Mature Mistress - 6/27/2006 6:34:05 PM   
littlesarbonn


Posts: 1710
Joined: 12/3/2005
From: Stockton, California
Status: offline 		I run into people all across the age spectrum. Unfortunately, quite often a person who advertises exactly what I would be seeking is seeking someone who just so happens to not be me because of age or other limitations. It's just one of those really weird social segments of being a specific match to all types of different specific matches, hoping that somehow the pieces actually connect.

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RE: Mature Mistress - 6/28/2006 4:57:14 AM   
peterK50


Posts: 433
Joined: 1/12/2006
Status: offline 		When a Domme hits her 50's & 60's hopefully she contacts me.

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RE: Mature Mistress - 6/28/2006 5:23:28 AM   
blckmlslv


Posts: 42
Joined: 2/23/2004
Status: offline 		I agree about more mature Dommes. I, too, am more attracted to older Dommes.

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RE: Mature Mistress - 6/28/2006 10:17:54 AM   
LadyMorgynn


Posts: 800
Joined: 11/25/2005
From: N. Carolina
Status: offline 		Depends on what you mean by "mature"  ;)

Also, I'd like to take a brief side trip and mention that 24/7 is *not* about play 24/7 and in fact has little to do with "play" at all (depending of course on the individuals concerned!).  Rather, it integrates D/s and vanilla into a full-time lifestyle where power exchange is ongoing and meaningful. 

Hopefully :)

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RE: Mature Mistress - 6/28/2006 11:22:57 AM   
Captnlen


Posts: 28
Joined: 2/3/2006
Status: offline 		I agree on your definition of 24/7.

I think mature means more vanilla inter relationships become more important.  the PE and play is there.

And with that having common interests in music,food, entertainment, reading, TV  becomes more relavent.

When I mention sid cesear or voting for Ike and get a blank look then mature is very telling.

Still don't see the mature woman over 60 .  Found only one or two with some far reaching searches. So the  women in the scene that were 50's last decade  are now ?   There are lots of woman 40's and 50's  now.  Do they plan to quit when they turn 60 ?

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RE: Mature Mistress - 6/28/2006 12:51:53 PM   
GoddessDustyGold


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From: Arizona
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Captnlen

Still don't see the mature woman over 60 .  Found only one or two with some far reaching searches. So the  women in the scene that were 50's last decade  are now ?   There are lots of woman 40's and 50's  now.  Do they plan to quit when they turn 60 ?



Did you see these Women in their 50's online a decade ago?  Which Women are you speaking of?
As previously stated, perhaps these Ladies are not fond of the computer as a means to meet and greet.  You might try getting out and attending a local munch or two.  Make some friends IRW, and they may know someone.  There are other ways to network, and this may be more productive for you.

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They that give up essential liberty to obtain a little temporary safety deserve neither liberty nor safety
B Franklin
Don't blame Me ~ I didn't vote for either of them
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RE: Mature Mistress - 6/28/2006 1:03:17 PM   
MHOO314


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Captnlen

I agree on your definition of 24/7.

I think mature means more vanilla inter relationships become more important.  the PE and play is there.

And with that having common interests in music,food, entertainment, reading, TV  becomes more relavent.

When I mention sid cesear or voting for Ike and get a blank look then mature is very telling.

Still don't see the mature woman over 60 .  Found only one or two with some far reaching searches. So the  women in the scene that were 50's last decade  are now ?   There are lots of woman 40's and 50's  now.  Do they plan to quit when they turn 60 ?



I don't plan to quit until I take My last breath then I am going to be reborn again---but for Me it is not play, it is the very air I breathe, it is Me, the essence of My soul.

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RE: Mature Mistress - 6/28/2006 4:45:27 PM   
LadyHugs


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Joined: 1/1/2004
Status: offline 		Dear Captnlen, Ladies and Gentlemen;
 
There are "mature" dominants out and about.  However, I am in favor of using 'seasoned,' as that means I am not only mature in age but in my practices in the art of domination and submission.
 
However, ladies and gentlemen my age also might have elderly parents that require them to step into the role of care giver and there are other things age does to our bodies.
 
Respectfully submitted for consideration,
Lady Hugs

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RE: Mature Mistress - 6/29/2006 7:47:42 AM   
LadyMorgynn


Posts: 800
Joined: 11/25/2005
From: N. Carolina
Status: offline 		I don't plan to quit, ever.  That's because Dominant is who I am, not what I do.  And I'm in this for 24/7, not just for play.

quote:

ORIGINAL: Captnlen
There are lots of woman 40's and 50's  now.  Do they plan to quit when they turn 60 ?


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RE: Mature Mistress - 6/29/2006 10:24:46 AM   
Captnlen


Posts: 28
Joined: 2/3/2006
Status: offline 		i like the word seasoned.  Will use that in the future

since i just finished 10 years of caregiving and absence from the scene and have arthritus and had 3 surgeries on joints and tendon on the right side i can also apreciate the body changes with age.

Viagra may help on some changes but sex is not my goal or interest.  was kept chaste and have been celibate.

is an interesting discussion.

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RE: Mature Mistress - 10/28/2006 10:15:21 AM   
silverthorn7


Posts: 14
Joined: 7/13/2005
From: New Mexico
Status: offline 		We are indeed out here. I believe we become more of who we are as we mature. It is nice to hear that we are appreciated and sought after by so many submissive males. Life is good.

Silverthorn

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RE: Mature Mistress - 10/28/2006 3:10:11 PM   
LotusSong


Posts: 6334
Joined: 7/2/2006
From: Domme Emeritus
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Captnlen

is there such a thing.  Done a search or two in CM and there are a few in their fifties but most are younger.

i am 65, can't play 24/7 and want someone to share vanilla times too and can relate too.

A 19 year old Mistress who is "mature"  is  not what i seek.

what happens to the domme when she hits late 50's and 60's .

where do they go

\

Fudges just a wee bit on her age that she posts? :)
 
I AM 53.. and 1/2

< Message edited by LotusSong -- 10/28/2006 3:11:04 PM >

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RE: Mature Mistress - 10/28/2006 6:10:46 PM   
MistressRENA


Posts: 41
Joined: 7/21/2005
Status: offline 		I   think we'd be hard pressed to find folk who can play 24/7. But this is a lifestyle for many of us and like the others said, we can integrate all aspects of our lives.

I (in my more optimistic moments) seek  "multi-dimensional-relationships. Relationships that have many aspects of interpersonal connections. We are all multi faceted people, and our connections must be the same in order to be (most)satisfying.

And as for being able to play when older and less spry ... I knew a Domme who had fibromyalgia (infact I know more than a few of them in various stages), who had a rich play life and didnt have to run or jump or anything. So it is a matter of creativity and openmindedness and the ability to live outside the box, no matter what category the box is under.

As long as I can place those itty bitty little plastic clothespins on somebody's something, i am gonna keep doing it.

Mistress RENA 52

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