UllrsIshtar
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So what you're saying is that if he asked you not to masturbate for the next couple of weeks, you wouldn't agree. Because that's going to be a lot easier on you than wearing an expensive item that can't be kept clean while at work. Or is this just for at home?
And I hope he's planning on buying it.
What would be the point in him telling her not to masturbate if they can afford a chastity belt and it practically works out for them.
Merely ordering her not to do it seems completely anticlimactic for the goal they're trying to achieve: him having physical control over her sexual arousal and being able to physically control her touching herself.
Wearing a chastity belt is intently sexually arousing to both the Dom and sub (if they're both into it, which seems painfully clear from the OPs post that they are), providing a setting in which she will be reminded 24/7 of his physical control over her, which will arouse her even more, and put her in the frustrating position of constant erotic stimulation, while being physically unable to relieve herself. For him it would be the same thing, having the constant reminder that he's got physical restraints on her keeping her aroused and wanting him, while being unable to relieve herself, would be intently sexually stimulating for him.
Not using a chastity belt, and instead merely ordering her not to touch herself, would be as pointless as a couple who gets fulfillment and sexual gratification from bondage and rope play not using any actual rope and instead merely ordering her to stand still. People use blindfold, rope, restraint, gags, whips, and chastity belts because they want the physical sensation of using that gear. If they don't care about the physical sensation of using the gear, then a mere command to do X will suffice. I'm sure that the OP and her Dom could have figured that out all on their own, and the fact that he's choosing not to merely command her is because he enjoys the idea of the physical restriction a chastity belt would provide.
Why are you having so much trouble specifically with the idea that people would use a chastity belt to prevent masturbation, implying that it means that the user doesn't have self-control, but you don't have any issues with a Top using handcuffs, or seeing the use of them as an implication that the bottom doesn't have the self-control not to move?
As for the price, they're a mere $100-$250, that's rather cheap as far as quality gear goes, and most items bought in that price range would see nowhere near as much use as a proper chastity belt, which enables 'play' to keep going 24/7.
< Message edited by UllrsIshtar -- 7/6/2013 3:43:54 PM >
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