PaProduct -> Just saying hello (7/6/2013 3:58:09 PM)
Figured I'd stop in and say hello to everyone. As my short profile says, I'm new to the site and the lifestyle. I've always been interested but lacked the people who shared the interest. Hopefully, being a part of this community will help shed some light on the subject for me. Other than that, I'm easy going and easy to get along with. Thanks for having me.
Rasciallymisty -> RE: Just saying hello (7/7/2013 6:13:52 AM)
Welcome to CM and the forums. A few things that might help you along some.....
1- Fill your profile out more make it something others will want to read. Tell them what your likes are in the vanilla world your enjoyments other than sex. But do not make an all about me profile or all about your D/s likes and dislikes.
2- Head down to the other thread's and maybe join in some of the discussions. Acual the only ones I might say beware of is Politics and Religion unless you like getting into some debates.
3- Use the search on this side ( little button up there on top ^^^^ on the right hand side) if you have some questions as they may have already been asked...or ask away. Please just watch the dates on the threads and do not respond to anything that is more than three months old....as the Mod's are not found of us doing so. You can always start a new one with your question.
4- Your profile pic looks like 1000 others. Make it more about who you really are. Do you like skiing? Well use a pic like that ..... something that show YOU [:D] not a half naked pic. There are plenty of eye candy sites for women to visit if that is all they want to see. LOL or a trip to a beach or some constriction site...I think you get what I am trying to tell you.
5- Check out ResidentSadist book list, its a great list and can help you get info on WIITWD or go to general BDSM thread and there is a good book list there as well.
These are just a few suggestions free for the giving. Its nice to have you join us here on the forums and hopefully you will stick around and join in on some of the discussions. Do beware some peeps are super kewl on this side and some not so kewl. Have a thick skin and you will do fine. Hope you enjoy your time here.
OohAahMrs -> RE: Just saying hello (7/7/2013 7:00:54 AM)