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Hey from India! - 7/7/2013 3:41:50 PM

theIndian

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Hey, I'm 20 my name is chirag. I'm from Bangalore India, currently volunteering in Costa Rica. I have a month left here. I have no real life bdsm experience but it's always been a kink of mine. Especially dominating someone else. I wouldn't mind serving a mistress either. Other than that I don't really have much of an idea what to say. So cheers. Oh also I'm a stoner, I enjoy good weed.

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RE: Hey from India! - 7/8/2013 8:20:19 AM

Rasciallymisty

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Welcome to CM and the forums Chirag, this side is where discussions take place the other side is where you will find that in which you seek hopefully. You maybe in search of a UNICORN I will keep my fingers crossed that you find one. Nice intro by the way.

I do have a couple of suggestions for you.

My suggestions would be....

1- Your profile is lacking big time. Make your profile one that the Domme's or subs on the other side will want to read. Tell them what your likes are in the vanilla world your enjoyments other than sex. But do not make an all about me profile or all about your D/s likes and dislikes. I would suggest looking at other switches profiles and see how they have written theirs.

2- Head down to the Mistress, Master and sub/slave thread's and maybe join in some of the discussions. The only ones I might say beware of is Politics and Religion unless you like getting into some debates.

3- Use the search on this side ( little button up there on top ^^^^ on the right hand side) if you have some questions as they may have already been asked...or ask away. Please just watch the dates on the threads and do not respond to anything that is more than three months old....as the Mod's are not found of us doing so. You can always start a new one with your question.

4- I woud also suggest turning your picture around so it's not sideways. Never post nude pics.....women tend to dislike them. They like action pics of you doing things like maybe boating, skiing, things along those lines. Things you are into not related to D/s.

5- Check out ResidentSadist book list, its a great list and can help you get info on WIITWD or go to general BDSM thread and there is a good book list there as well.

These are just a few suggestions free for the giving. Its nice to have you join us here on the forums and hopefully you will stick around and join in on some of the discussions. Do beware some peeps are super kewl on this side and some not so kewl. Have a thick skin and you will do fine. Hope you enjoy your time here.

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RE: Hey from India! - 7/8/2013 8:48:43 AM

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Welcome..just my experience and two cents but marihuana is illegal in the US (don't know about India) & may turn off many. Also,consent from the sub is so critical that a dom or Domme who scenes with a drunk or high sub is taking a big risk &, again, many may not want to take that chance.

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RE: Hey from India! - 7/8/2013 8:28:28 PM

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Thanks for the tips guys! I'll make good use of em!

Just a spot on the weed thing, weed generally has no impact on my decision making capabilities. A joint or two once in a while is my recreational high, I'm not really a big fan of alcohol. :D

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