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Hypothetical Question - 6/27/2006 5:31:38 PM   
Rumtiger


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Status: offline 		Okay, hypothetical situation, lets say you have a sub that a bit younger than you [you can use me if you wish....no that isent part of the question..really...use me. lol] and you are having some real fun with him, lets say you also happen to have a daughter who is around the same age of your sub. The daughter you can tell is developing a bit of a crush on your sub, what do you do?

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RE: Hypothetical Question - 6/27/2006 5:48:40 PM   
openmindedslave


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Status: offline 		Well, the question is still a little vague? Are you asking should you let the daughter have him? Does the daughter enjoy  or even know that he is a slave and not a cute guy ? Does the daughter play with the Mom and her slaves ?

I mean if hes your slave than hes yours, the Mistress. Just because the daughter thinks she has an interest really doesn't matter  unless it involves interference for the mOther and slave. For a Mistress to have a slave that another person admires is generally a sign that the Mistress picks well in life

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RE: Hypothetical Question - 6/27/2006 5:49:05 PM   
GoddessDustyGold


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Status: offline 		A bit younger?  On average, if I had a daughter old enough to have a crush on you, you would have to be a minimum of 20 years younger than Me.  If not, then the daughter should be young enough that I could just smile and ignore the puppy/love/young teen crush situation. How hypothetical is this?
No, I am doing the math here.  You are 21?  Unless you are with someone (the universal "you" here) that had a child at 15, and she is only 30 or so...I don't see this working out (mathmatically, that is) as anything that could be viewed as "a bit" younger.
And, btw, you have just given Me yet another reason why I have no real interest in boys that are that much younger than I.  It wouldn't be a jealousy factor, but who needs this sort of grief and drama?

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RE: Hypothetical Question - 6/27/2006 6:24:10 PM   
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Status: offline 		0just to put some clarity, yes the daughter would know about the lifestyle as well as the subs relationship to you. The relationship to you and teh daughter is well..up to you in answering.

And yes I would suppsoe the mistress in question would have to be be late thirties to early 40s for this to be accurate, but not completly necessary for the general view of the question.

P.S. Math will only confuse the hell out of you when it comes to my posts lol.

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RE: Hypothetical Question - 6/27/2006 6:39:01 PM   
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Status: offline 		A very long time ago I ended up in a similar experience. I was seeing a dominant woman who was a good deal older than me, who was pretty much teaching me a lot of things I had yet to learn. She had a daughter, and after running into her daughter a number of times, I could see a potential attraction beginning to spawn. At times, I can be quite charming, and at the time I didn't know when to turn it off.

The upshot is that once I realized the potential for the problem I began to analyze what it was I was truly seeking here. I was overly overjoyed with the fact that I was serving a very experienced, very lovely and wonderful woman. Why screw that up? So, I first tried to just avoid the daughter, and when that didn't work, I approached my mistress and explained what I thought was a potential concern. At first, she thought it was funny, mainly because she hadn't seen the same signs. Then, a few months later, she started to really see the signs, and she then managed to maneuver me so that her daughter and I ran into each other a lot less frequently. In the end, it was probably the best move, as I still maintain a great friendship with her, even though I no longer serve her.

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RE: Hypothetical Question - 6/27/2006 7:16:25 PM   
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quote:

I mean if hes your slave than hes yours, the Mistress. Just because the daughter thinks she has an interest really doesn't matter  unless it involves interference for the mOther and slave. For a Mistress to have a slave that another person admires is generally a sign that the Mistress picks well in life
Exactly right!   It is the same as if any other woman had a crush on my man, I would expect him to set clear boundaries, and in this case would be flattered but explain why it's inapropriate to the daughter.
I've actually seen this happen, and if the man in question is a sleezebag, some go ahead and take advantage of the younger girl's crush...  For this reason, I tend to stay away from men half my age as I have so many other beautiful young nieces in my family.   I won't ever have this particular problem with a daughter thank God.   M

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RE: Hypothetical Question - 6/27/2006 7:43:54 PM   
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quote:

Okay, hypothetical situation, lets say you have a sub that a bit younger than you [you can use me if you wish....no that isent part of the question..really...use me. lol] and you are having some real fun with him, lets say you also happen to have a daughter who is around the same age of your sub. The daughter you can tell is developing a bit of a crush on your sub, what do you do?


Well... I DO have a daughter somewhere around your age (she's 24).  That said, if I had any involvement with a submissive of that age, the odds are it would be strictly for play.  I generally draw the line for "permanent" partners at 15 years younger and about 10 years older than myself (I'm 47), although my preference is younger.  So... if my daughter were to express an interest in a young submissive with whom I'm playing on occasion, I'd probably hand that submissive over to her.  She's not quite as openly kinky as I am, but she's equally demanding, so I think the sub would actually enjoy it.

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RE: Hypothetical Question - 6/27/2006 7:47:47 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Rumtiger

Okay, hypothetical situation, lets say you have a sub that a bit younger than you [you can use me if you wish....no that isent part of the question..really...use me. lol] and you are having some real fun with him, lets say you also happen to have a daughter who is around the same age of your sub. The daughter you can tell is developing a bit of a crush on your sub, what do you do?


I tell her this...

Back Off!
I haven't finished breaking him in for you yet!



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RE: Hypothetical Question - 6/27/2006 11:39:34 PM   
MysticFireTopaz


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Status: offline 		I don't have any daughters, so this is hypthetical for Me.  If I had a submissive that young (which is highly unlikely), I would not have romantic feelings toward him at all, he would just be a play partner and would be someone I could easily live without.  Therefore, if I sensed that My daughter was developing an interest in him, and felt that the feeling was mutual, I would probably encourage them to explore a relationship together and see how things worked out.
 
On the other hand, if the submissive was close to My age and was someone I was romantically involved with, I would tell My daughter to back off and find someone of her own.
 
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RE: Hypothetical Question - 6/28/2006 3:31:14 PM   
ZombieStitches


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Status: offline 		that's a strange one...No kids here..any play partner would be a zygoat. but hypotheticly for the daughters sake I would find somone my own age to play with.....damn.
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RE: Hypothetical Question - 6/28/2006 3:42:50 PM   
BitaTruble


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Rumtiger

Okay, hypothetical situation, lets say you have a sub that a bit younger than you [you can use me if you wish....no that isent part of the question..really...use me. lol] and you are having some real fun with him, lets say you also happen to have a daughter who is around the same age of your sub. The daughter you can tell is developing a bit of a crush on your sub, what do you do?


I suppose it would depend on if the feeling was mutual. If the sub is also developing an interest in the daughter, I'd step to the side and let them explore it and once I stepped aside, there would be no going back to me if things didn't work between them.  

If, however, the sub did not have a mutual feeling, then I would sit my daughter down, talk things over with her and tell her to go find her own toys with which to play .. and then I'd keep them separated as much as possible.

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RE: Hypothetical Question - 6/28/2006 4:57:55 PM   
Lashra


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Status: offline 		I have a daughter, she's 15 any sub goes after her (or she him) and Ill break his legs off and beat him with the bloodied stumps  But lets say she was 25 and she knew the sub was mine, Id tell her look this belongs to me so baby your going to have to go out there and find your own. But I'm glad you think he's attractive, Mama has good taste

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RE: Hypothetical Question - 6/28/2006 10:47:52 PM   
Calandra


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Status: offline 		My slavehusband, cubby is 12 years younger than me, but I have only sons (both consenting age, mods), no daughters. They think he's the coolest person in the world, thank goodness.
 
If I had a daughter, hopefully I'd have taught her that allowing her heart to become enamored with another woman's partner is unwise and unethical. I would also stress that any encouragement on the part of the slave would be grounds for immediate dismissal.
 
While it may be tempting to play with fire on both the daughter and the slave's part, in my opinion this is a question of honor and I can't imagine taking even a flirtation lightly, regardless of whether it went anywhere.

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RE: Hypothetical Question - 6/29/2006 6:45:04 AM   
Rumtiger


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ORIGINAL: BlkTallFullfig
I tend to stay away from men half my age as I have so many other beautiful young nieces in my family.


umm...well....wanna be friends at least? hehe

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If they cant take a joke, fuck em.
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RE: Hypothetical Question - 6/29/2006 6:53:12 AM   
Rumtiger


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ORIGINAL: Evanesce
Well... I DO have a daughter somewhere around your age (she's 24).  That said, if I had any involvement with a submissive of that age, the odds are it would be strictly for play.  I generally draw the line for "permanent" partners at 15 years younger and about 10 years older than myself (I'm 47), although my preference is younger.  So... if my daughter were to express an interest in a young submissive with whom I'm playing on occasion, I'd probably hand that submissive over to her.  She's not quite as openly kinky as I am, but she's equally demanding, so I think the sub would actually enjoy it.


Wow, you look awesome. Your daughter must come from some really good stock lol.


....*whisper*  can you ask her if she thinks i'm cute?

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- Quentin Tarantino.

If they cant take a joke, fuck em.
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