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AthenaSurrenders -> RE: looking for more (7/9/2013 4:54:06 AM)

True enough, but I doubt those more serious problems are what's putting women off, since I imagine they're not getting any further than the first contact.




TNDommeK -> RE: looking for more (7/9/2013 5:29:02 AM)

I believe it was best said with "yikes!"




garyFLR -> RE: looking for more (7/9/2013 6:51:48 AM)


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ORIGINAL: TNDommeK

I believe it was best said with "yikes!"
:-D.




NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: looking for more (7/9/2013 2:21:19 PM)


Pet004, take a look at the things you post. Do you have any idea how negative and hateful this all sounds? That, coupled with the fact that your profile is 100% about sex sex sex kink kink kink and nothing else, virtually guarantees that no Domme will ever be interested.

I would honestly recommend rounding out your profile with some information about what makes you you, other than just kinky things. Right now, your profile is all about what you want, tell the reader what you would bring to a relationship. Add some candid, clothed, pictures of yourself. And, lose the negativity!! I'm honestly not trying to be mean, I'm trying to be helpful here.

NBMG




WinsomeDefiance -> RE: looking for more (7/9/2013 2:32:52 PM)

HOw are you a 22 yo virgin who was USED hard by a male?




VideoAdminChi -> RE: looking for more (7/9/2013 2:35:17 PM)

FR,

While this thread is now in Off Topic, I still expect civility.

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absolutchocolat -> RE: looking for more (7/9/2013 2:35:18 PM)

Yeah, I smell bullshit here.




lizi -> RE: looking for more (7/9/2013 2:53:13 PM)


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ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance

HOw are you a 22 yo virgin who was USED hard by a male?


Heh, I guess it's the old rule of it it wasn't penile penetration of a vagina then it doesn't "count" as sex. You know, that old chestnut that makes it seem as though anything up the butt or happening in a mouth isn't real sex.




WinsomeDefiance -> RE: looking for more (7/9/2013 3:07:03 PM)


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ORIGINAL: lizi


quote:

ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance

HOw are you a 22 yo virgin who was USED hard by a male?


Heh, I guess it's the old rule of it it wasn't penile penetration of a vagina then it doesn't "count" as sex. You know, that old chestnut that makes it seem as though anything up the butt or happening in a mouth isn't real sex.


OHHH Clintonisms, forgot about those.




Rawni -> RE: looking for more (7/9/2013 3:27:39 PM)

Avoid Blue Balls, apparently they are very, very dangerous. [sm=nervous.gif]

OP: We are not to blame for the choices someone else makes, nor do we deserve the punishment because of your choices. Do you still blame your parents for things? Do you know who the president is? What day is this?

I recommend masturbating often in private, take a cool drink and sit by a pool and learn some social skills before you continue to get slam dunked.




LadyPact -> RE: looking for more (7/9/2013 4:19:46 PM)

Is the OP still around or am I about to waste keystrokes?

Dude, while it's not a singular occurrence, you don't see many melt downs of this magnitude come from (what was) an Introduction thread. Ask yourself something. If you saw somebody wig out this bad from just a few posts, or when you were first meeting them, would you really think that person was a stable individual? Coming across like this, are you surprised if folks are running in the other direction? It sounds dangerously, severely obsessed and no matter how "dedicated" that makes you think you are, that's not how it's received.

I can only speak for Myself, but I honestly don't consider obsession to that degree anything to do with submission. It's breeding ground for a very unhealthy, clingy, suffocating type of co-dependency that leads to a type of environment where any and all tactics will be used in order for the obsession to be satisfied.

When you think of the PERSON that you want in your life, how do you see her? Do you see a person who has healthy relationships, friends, hobbies, and interests? Guess what? That works both ways. They want you to have those things, too, so that their relationship with you can be a healthy one.

If this thread wasn't just a prank or some stuff typed up from somebody who wasn't especially thinking with a clear head, ([sm=chug.gif][sm=chug.gif][sm=chug.gif][sm=chug.gif][sm=chug.gif]) I'd suggest to you that being the kind of human being that would interest a Dominant woman might be exactly the way to find one.




MasterCaneman -> RE: looking for more (7/9/2013 8:26:41 PM)

Young man, after reading your profile and your posts/responses, I've come to this conclusion: you don't need therapy or meds, nor do you need a Domme to submit to. You need a purposeful redirect of your life. One that can only come from becoming something larger than yourself in order for you to take your mind off of your fixation.

I would suggest the armed forces, if you're so inclined, after that, some sort of aid or assistance agency, be it the Peace Corps, Red Cross, etc. Get yourself away from the femdom porn-it's total bullshit. Work on yourself, and create your own future. Once you have become more than just a webcrawler, perhaps you'll find what you seek. Best of luck to you.




garyFLR -> RE: looking for more (7/10/2013 12:34:01 AM)

MasterC, while I agree with what you say in principle. I would say that the people in our armed forces are brave individuals who do an extremely difficult job under even worse conditions.

Do we really want to put a fire arm in this disturbed guys hands & teach him to use it? You're right, a vocational 'career' would be a really good idea, it might blow the cobwebs from out of him.




garyFLR -> RE: looking for more (7/10/2013 12:49:39 AM)

Hi NBMG, you know I love you, you know I do [:)].

But, giving this bloke advice on cleaning up his profile & working on his social skills, is probably a bad idea. Hiding behind a veneer of rational civility on line, could lead to a Lady having a dark, disturbing & probably dangerous experience on a first meet.

At least with a big sign on him saying 'Leaky Teapot' it warns everyone to stay away.

Mind you, he's probably a Troll. Even so, he's very weird.




MasterCaneman -> RE: looking for more (7/10/2013 5:28:43 AM)


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ORIGINAL: garyFLR

MasterC, while I agree with what you say in principle. I would say that the people in our armed forces are brave individuals who do an extremely difficult job under even worse conditions.

Do we really want to put a fire arm in this disturbed guys hands & teach him to use it? You're right, a vocational 'career' would be a really good idea, it might blow the cobwebs from out of him.


Speaking as a former servicemember, I agree with you. And on the second point, since he's one of ours, there's a good chance he already possesses firepower already. One thing about Uncle Sugar's Camping & Hunting Club (one of the nicknames for the US Army) is, they don't allow total morons to progress to that stage of their training. The first couple weeks of Basic are designed to weed out the weaklings, weepers, and psychopaths as much as possible.

That's what this young man needs: to have his preconceived notions of how the world works redone. What I read were the ramblings of an entitled young do-me sub who wants everything presented to him. I don't believe for one minute that young man is practicing celibacy in wait for the 'perfect domme'. Virginity yes, with that attitude, celibacy no. That means no touchy-selfy for those readers scratching their heads.

He wants to be a submissive? The service is the perfect place to learn that. Nothing is more complete submission that raising your right hand and becoming a part of an organization that can and will make you do stupid and insane things, tell you when to go to bed and wake up, when to eat, when to shit, and make you walk around in formation with a bunch of other numbnuts who did the same thing.

A servicemember is the perfect submissive. He or she has willingly forsaken a great deal of their civil rights (free speech, assembly, life, liberty, POH, etc) for the greater good of their nation. They can expect to be suddenly uprooted from their lives and made to go to what are usually the worst places on the planet to do things no one else wants or knows how to do. Their ability to communicate with friends and family are (usually) severely hampered, they can be confined to their quarters for trivial infractions that would hardly merit a ticket in the real world, and ultimately can be made to surrender literally everything for an intangible concept.

OP wants to be submissive, but from his harsh and demanding language and attitude, he strikes me as more of a (gasp) Dominant. He asked for a solution to his problem-there it is. And, he gets to learn a valuable set of life skills and even skills that could pay off back in the civilian world. And maybe along the way, he'll learn how to properly interact with members of the opposite sex in such a manner that he will find what he seeks.

Rant over, please return to your normal activities.

OP? I hope you're reading this and come away with something constructive. And just because I used the service as an example, it isn't the only way to learn what you need to know. There are other avenues open. Take advantage of them while you're still young enough, lest you become that old, unhappy, 50 year old virgin still living in his parent's basement. As before, best of luck to you.




garyFLR -> RE: looking for more (7/10/2013 5:43:56 AM)

Hi MasterC, what does the U.S armed forces do with the 'total morons'? And ours come to that. Because he obviously is one.




MasterCaneman -> RE: looking for more (7/10/2013 6:02:15 AM)

Usually, they get a court-martial to determine if they are unfit for military service. It's not a criminal proceeding, but still has to be called under UCMJ in order to drum someone out. The real stinker about it is, they deliberately drag it out so the subject in question has to wait and watch the rest of his company/battery complete their training, graduate, and move on to their duty stations while he has to wait in what was called (in my battalion, anyway), "Omega Platoon".

This is usually housed in one of the spare barracks, under the control of a non-DI NCO. They're required to remain in uniform, in quarters with only limited PX and phone privileges. If they truly are nuts, they get sent to what's called either CCF (Controlled Confinement Facility) or CCU (Controlled Confinement Unit), essentially the brig, where they can be more closely monitored and controlled. Most of the guys in Omega Platoons are deemed Unable to Adapt to Military Service, given a Dishonorable Discharge and usually about three months after their training platoon has graduated, are given a bus ticket home. This denotes everything from the bed-wetters to the guys who just couldn't take an order to the pending medical discharge cases.

Oh, and it's all unpaid time, essentially like being in a low-security prison without bars, locks, or fences. There is literally nothing preventing those guys from just walking off the post and into the nearby town except for the threat of having additional charges (criminal in this case) of being AWOL. It's the last act of willing obedience to authority they're expected to make in the service while their cases are pending. One guy at Ft. Sill spent nearly a year waiting for his paperwork to clear the AG office.




hlen5 -> RE: looking for more (7/11/2013 1:13:10 AM)


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ORIGINAL: garyFLR


quote:

ORIGINAL: TNDommeK

I believe it was best said with "yikes!"
:-D.



Thank You.[;)]

Pet004,

You are a very angry young man, I hope you figure out (very soon!) that the chip on your shoulder will get you nowhere. You are in control of your future. You may have been victimized. It's what we each do with our suffering that matters.

I know I am 100% responsible for the house I live in, the job/career I have and the relationship I desire to have. If I don't like where I'm at, it's up to ME to change. I repeat, it's up to ME to change what I don't like in my life.

The same goes for you. I hope you discover and work for what you want in this life. I wish you all the best in finding that.




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