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looking for more - 7/8/2013 12:33:24 PM   
pet004


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Status: offline 		Ok so yeah I did totally come here to find the one female that could put me in my place and was engaging enough to keep me there were I am happy, but all that is fun to me so I guess you could say I also came here to have some fun.

I'm not finding the fun I am looking for exactly... I find myself becoming bored and purposely making mistakes then not being corrected for making them.

When I am not receiving what I want or what I need then I start wanting other things I am thinking about going switch considering most of the domination I have received I had to force the "dom" to give to me.

TRAIN me or tempt me...

I'm leaning more towards WANTING a make me please or I will make you now relationship at the moment (not what I wanted before) with a switch is probably the only thing that will work. Only because I am super extremely submissive, but if I'm not being super extremely dominated then I flip a SWITCH *tehehe

But what I really NEED still is to find a 100% femdom that will make me beg and make me behave.

...Maybe both; unless I do find the femdom I truly seek. ...I'm here for a reason.
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RE: looking for more - 7/8/2013 8:17:20 PM   
Rasciallymisty


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Status: offline 		First off your Intro comes off as an ad....maybe the reason so many have viewed you intro but none have said hi. I can assure you.... not a single domme on this side is going to be interested in getting to know you not with this kind of intro. The mods may very well also come along and remove this whole post. With that being said I try to give everyone at least a chance....soooooooo

Welcome to CM and the forums, this side is where discussions take place the other side is where you will find that in which you seek hopefully. Since you have no idea of what you even want, I will keep my fingers crossed that you find what ever it is. I do have a couple of suggestions for you.

My suggestions would be....

1- Your profile is lacking big time. Make your profile one that the Domme's on the other side will want to read. Tell them what your likes are in the vanilla world and your enjoyments other than sex. But do not make an all about me profile or all about your D/s likes and dislikes.

2- Head down to the Mistress, Master and sub/slave thread's and maybe join in some of the discussions. The only ones I might say beware of is Politics and Religion unless you like getting into some debates.

3- Use the search on this side ( little button up there on top ^^^^ on the right hand side) if you have some questions as they may have already been asked...or ask away. Please just watch the dates on the threads and do not respond to anything that is more than three months old....as the Mod's are not found of us doing so. You can always start a new one with your question.

4- I would also suggest posting a REAL picture of yourself. Never post nude pics.....women tend to dislike them. They like action pics of you doing things like maybe boating, skiing, things along those lines. Things you are into not related to D/s.

5- Check out ResidentSadist book list, its a great list and can help you get info on WIITWD or go to general BDSM thread and there is a good book list there as well.

These are just a few suggestions free for the giving. Stick around and join in on some of the discussions. Do beware some peeps are super kewl on this side and some not so kewl. Have a thick skin and you should do fine. Hope you enjoy your time here.

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RE: looking for more - 7/8/2013 8:20:32 PM   
sexyred1


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Status: offline 		Your post and profile simply convey ME ME ME ME.

Not very effective.

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RE: looking for more - 7/9/2013 12:03:01 AM   
pet004


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Status: offline 		I HAVE DONE NOTHING BUT LIVE MY LIFE BY THE WORDS OF EVERY FEMDOM SINCE I WAS 13 I KEPT MYSELF A VIRGIN FOR MY GODDESS ALL THESE YEARS.

W/e I don't fucking care anymore I am not reading that shit I plan on dying a virgin thank you females so much both "dom" and sub. Why thank you because you controlled my life entirely and made it completely about you until ...wait for it ...I realized that my life was about nothing whatsoever ...guess what that means you female's all of you are totally worthless. I know this because I am your greatest tool and creation AND YOU FIND ME worthless therefore if you cannot create something you want TO BE WITH even a millisecond of time clearly you are incapable of anything.

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RE: looking for more - 7/9/2013 12:07:27 AM   
hlen5


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RE: looking for more - 7/9/2013 12:11:42 AM   
tazzygirl


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Status: offline 		Clearly you need professional help. I urge you to get some and soon.

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If you want it sugar coated, dont ask me what i think! It would violate TOS.

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RE: looking for more - 7/9/2013 12:19:07 AM   
pet004


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Status: offline 		I don't need help I need to stop kissing your asses.

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RE: looking for more - 7/9/2013 12:23:32 AM   
pet004


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Status: offline 		I've sent a message to probably every female on this site by the way also I'm honest super obedient, loyal and ...used to love females I'm 22 years old a virgin 6ft+ tall and I used to be 7.75 inches when I could get hard thank you.

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RE: looking for more - 7/9/2013 12:25:29 AM   
tazzygirl


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Status: offline 		Honey, its not my ass you ever kissed. I could care less what side of the kneel you are on. I dont like switch men, especially whiny one's always whimpering about how some woman used or abused him. You got some major issues. The last place you need to be is on a message board.

You are the way you are because you wanted to be that way. If people used/abused you, its because you allowed it. Once, I can see not being your fault... but since the age of 13?... its a pattern you have allowed to be repeated, and, apparently often.

I dont care about your age, I dont care about your cock, I dont care that you are loyal and obedient... Im not into submissive men at all. You are so far outside my radar that its not funny.

If you want to be angry at someone, look in the mirror and deal with your own demons instead of looking for them in every woman who crosses your path.

That sucks, but thats the honest truth.

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Telling me to take Midol wont help your butthurt.
RIP, my demon-child 5-16-11
Duchess of Dissent 1
Dont judge me because I sin differently than you.
If you want it sugar coated, dont ask me what i think! It would violate TOS.

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RE: looking for more - 7/9/2013 12:28:19 AM   
pet004


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Status: offline 		Don't care what you think. You don't have any idea who I am.

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RE: looking for more - 7/9/2013 12:33:03 AM   
pet004


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Status: offline 		honestly though your are right about one thing I haven't ever kissed any female but it was a male that did this to me. I enjoy being used and abused by female's that is what my problem was I wasn't being used as hard as the male used me.

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RE: looking for more - 7/9/2013 12:50:33 AM   
pet004


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Status: offline 		right its all so clear now when I wanted a girlfriend I was a creep when I wanted a femdom I was a loser when I tried settling for a guy I was a faggot bitch when I went back to wanting a femdom I was now a loser and mentally ill. Now that I don't want anyone but am totally fine alone again... wait what? oh yeah that is where I start over you are right it is a pattern I already fuckin know that one I have no control over ....KNOW WHY????

CAUSE I'M NOT THE ONE REJECTING MYSELF!!!

clearly stated that this is noway to find any type of companion, but if you really think about it you might realize that I said I don't want ANYONE anymore. Thanks for wasting my time. I live in a world where I can't have anything why was that? oh yeah noone cares. I already know that is why I am trying to be alone ........yet again ...GUESS WHAT THOUGH??? Eventually I will need to go get a haircut and even though I won't say anything she will try flirting with me to get a tip and this will all start over again see you in about 2-3 weeks.

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RE: looking for more - 7/9/2013 1:36:05 AM   
AthenaSurrenders


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quote:

ORIGINAL: pet004

I've sent a message to probably every female on this site by the way also I'm honest super obedient, loyal and ...used to love females I'm 22 years old a virgin 6ft+ tall and I used to be 7.75 inches when I could get hard thank you.


This is your problem right here. Sending messages to every female you spot tells us that any woman will do as long as she will act out your fantasy. Following it up with information about your penis demonstrates that's your main interest. Women can get penis any time. It's plentiful. They don't need to act out your exact fantasy to get it - they can be fussy and pick guys who are interested in them as a person and willing to give them what they want.

This weird combo of 'I live for you, I'm super obedient, but you have to force me, and I hate you all' also makes you come across as unstable and you've already shown that you lash out with the mildest provocation - even if I was looking for a 22yr old 6ft virgin sub I wouldn't contact you because the impression I get is that, at best, you'd be using me to get off without caring about me, and at worst you might be dangerous.

Oh, and welcome to the discussion forums. May you find the partner you deserve.

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Upon the hours and times of your desire?

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RE: looking for more - 7/9/2013 3:01:24 AM   
AthenaSurrenders


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Status: offline 		Actually I'm a sub, so I'm well aware of what some subs want.

My point about you using women was that when you say 'any attractive woman will do, I want her to do x, y, z to me, I want her to behave like this, talk to me like this, and I'll get angry and bitter if things don't go exactly my way' you are just using her as a sexual object - her own tastes don't come into it. You could spend all day licking my feet, but if I don't WANT my feet licked, you're not serving or submitting, you're just doing something you enjoy. That's my whole point. A dominant doesn't let the slave use her. She just doesn't pick that particular slave.

You might have spent many hours online searching. It is very frustrating. Especially since female dominants are far fewer than male subs so it's hard to get noticed. But if this thread and your profile are representative of your approach, I have to say you haven't been trying hard enough. If the approach isn't working, you need to stop and think - what kind of person do I want to attract? What kind of sub does that woman want? How can I show I am that person? Just sending more messages or using more capital letters won't improve your odds. If the fish aren't biting you change the bait or the location, you don't sit on your boat yelling that the fish are being unfair.

Are you going to munches and meeting people in the flesh? It might put things into perspective for you.

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Upon the hours and times of your desire?

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RE: looking for more - 7/9/2013 3:48:26 AM   
pet004


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Status: offline 		well then we are both right I guess I will die a virgin and no female wants me actually I knew that too that is why I'm so angry. I have a limp dick and nothing to show for it. actually to tell you the truth I did literally gave up my entire life looking for my goddess because you are right it does take a very long time. Also it was my fault for choosing to do so but I am not selfish if you had any idea what I actually gave up a lifestyle a career everyone I have ever known. I am looking for an attractive femdom because I want to worship a goddess I always chase things that don't truly exist. But I'd rather loose everything I have lost everything other than this lapp actually. I feel I should devote 100% of my time into finding her. I would have rather been kicked out and starved on the streets then quit searching. But at one point I came to the realization that I no longer had anything to offer other than myself that is why I have done everything I can to make myself physically and mentally desirable as a slave anyway. I gave up my manhood; my friends; my life; then my dream I can't say what, but my dream my dream not the dream of a femdom to have the perfect slave which I tried to make true except anally and financially even if no one thinks I'm worth a shit even as a human toilet, but my dream the one that grew out of my own mind the one I worked to make a reality when I couldn't take it anymore the dream I put all my feelings into. my real dream the only thing I had left it was coming true and I gave that up too. Its true I have nothing I don't even think except how I can better myself for a female. But nothing works I have nothing left to give up in return for anything I gave up the only thing that would have actually made me happy cause I thought I would have the chance to explain that and it would mean something. There is nothing else I want and there is no turning back and I will never truly really want something again never I don't want anything now I left it behind. That is what I mean I gave up everything I was I am no one now I have no thoughts I have no friends I have no fun I have no hobbies I have nothing I don't want anything I just needed a female to tell me what she wanted from me. None of you could do that. I'm done with you too. Its hard to stare at a wall all day I walk around aimlessly everyone here knows where I have been they know what I do online. they see me walking around in public... I have nowhere to go if I don't move on, but I don't want to I didn't give up the one thing that made me happy just to live alone my whole life. I gave it up to make a goddess that has never existed happy. It was a mistake it didn't work. I should have stuck to my plan after the whole male on male experience remain asexual, but that experience made me not only crave to be dominated even more, but the feeling that boy made me give him I know I could give to my goddess instead that is how things should be ...maybe I thought so anyway. I have many feelings and emotions I can give my dream would have let me give them to everyone (not sexually though) but something anyone could feel if they wanted anyway I decided I wanted to put all those feelings into one big package and give them to one female a true goddess. Please don't ever call me selfish or say I use people I don't use anyone ever I only give and I gave it all and have nothing left to offer now I have nothing and will never have anything again. I'M NOT SELFISH!

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RE: looking for more - 7/9/2013 4:02:58 AM   
AthenaSurrenders


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Status: offline 		Why did you decide to make yourself impotent? Seems that many of the female dominants I know want to have sex with their subs. You just locked out a big chunk of women because you made a decision based on your fantasy of a femdom relationship instead of waiting to see what your future partner would actually want in a sub.

And on a similar note - why would a dominant want a guy who had done nothing with his life but search? I wouldn't get involved with someone who prioritised online searching over work, shelter, friends etc. That person is going to be a drain on me - nothing interesting to say, no way to support himself and no interests except me.

I never said you were selfish, but the more you tell me about your approach to this, the more I'm coming to that conclusion. You seem to have forgotten that subs are people, and that interesting, capable, empathetic people are more desirable and have more successful relationships.

Anyway, time to tap out before I get a gold letter - once again, welcome, I hope you find your time here enlightening.

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Upon the hours and times of your desire?

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RE: looking for more - 7/9/2013 4:17:33 AM   
garyFLR


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quote:

ORIGINAL: pet004

I HAVE DONE NOTHING BUT LIVE MY LIFE BY THE WORDS OF EVERY FEMDOM SINCE I WAS 13 I KEPT MYSELF A VIRGIN FOR MY GODDESS ALL THESE YEARS.

W/e I don't fucking care anymore I am not reading that shit I plan on dying a virgin thank you females so much both "dom" and sub. Why thank you because you controlled my life entirely and made it completely about you until ...wait for it ...I realized that my life was about nothing whatsoever ...guess what that means you female's all of you are totally worthless. I know this because I am your greatest tool and creation AND YOU FIND ME worthless therefore if you cannot create something you want TO BE WITH even a millisecond of time clearly you are incapable of anything.


You don't shoot guns in shopping centres do you? I'd certainly really want you to be on my friendship list .

er...I'd like to welcome you & Norman Bates To CM

All the best, Gary.




< Message edited by garyFLR -- 7/9/2013 4:27:14 AM >

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RE: looking for more - 7/9/2013 4:19:43 AM   
garyFLR


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quote:

ORIGINAL: pet004

I've sent a message to probably every female on this site by the way also I'm honest super obedient, loyal and ...used to love females I'm 22 years old a virgin 6ft+ tall and I used to be 7.75 inches when I could get hard thank you.


Is that American or imperial inches ?


< Message edited by garyFLR -- 7/9/2013 4:26:57 AM >

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RE: looking for more - 7/9/2013 4:26:03 AM   
garyFLR


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Status: offline 		Bloody hell, we're going to get some mileage out of this bloke!

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RE: looking for more - 7/9/2013 4:51:09 AM   
thishereboi


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quote:

ORIGINAL: AthenaSurrenders


quote:

ORIGINAL: pet004

I've sent a message to probably every female on this site by the way also I'm honest super obedient, loyal and ...used to love females I'm 22 years old a virgin 6ft+ tall and I used to be 7.75 inches when I could get hard thank you.


This is your problem right here. Sending messages to every female you spot tells us that any woman will do as long as she will act out your fantasy. Following it up with information about your penis demonstrates that's your main interest. Women can get penis any time. It's plentiful. They don't need to act out your exact fantasy to get it - they can be fussy and pick guys who are interested in them as a person and willing to give them what they want.

This weird combo of 'I live for you, I'm super obedient, but you have to force me, and I hate you all' also makes you come across as unstable and you've already shown that you lash out with the mildest provocation - even if I was looking for a 22yr old 6ft virgin sub I wouldn't contact you because the impression I get is that, at best, you'd be using me to get off without caring about me, and at worst you might be dangerous.

Oh, and welcome to the discussion forums. May you find the partner you deserve.



I hate to disagree with you but I think the boy has far bigger problems than sending spam and thinking about his dick. Serious problems that need lots of counseling and lots of meds. Maybe one day he will be to the point he can handle normal personal relationships but I think it will take a lot of work.

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