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Hi from london - 7/8/2013 3:46:46 PM

jola37

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Hello everyone

Just joined today, had a peek through the forums and folk here seem really nice. Although new here, I am a lifelong fetish head :-) Hope to make some new friends

Love J

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RE: Hi from london - 7/8/2013 3:49:58 PM

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Hello J, welcome to CM.

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RE: Hi from london - 7/8/2013 3:52:59 PM

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Cheers :-) just noticed I have vanilla status lol. this is far from the case hehe

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RE: Hi from london - 7/8/2013 7:31:22 PM

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The cone will change the more posts you make. With that said, Welcome J!

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RE: Hi from london - 7/8/2013 8:25:35 PM

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Glad to have you join us and hope to see you do some posting.

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RE: Hi from london - 7/9/2013 2:42:53 AM

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thanks for all the welcomes and tips about the status. Am really looking forward to making some new friends. Will defo be interested in the groups and forums as I like a good old natter sometimes and I've had a look at some here already. There's some funny people here!

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RE: Hi from london - 7/9/2013 4:08:14 AM

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I should really say a little more about me and what I am looking for.

I am 38 yrs old, live in London and am a lifelong kinky head. I felt uncomfortable about it for many years until I met a wonderful woman about 5 years ago. We ended up getting together for a couple of years as GF/BF and she helped to bring me out. I think it was the first time I met someone as kinky as me ! I owe her a debt of gratitude for her patience and care. We split up amicably a couple of years ago and I stayed single since then. I have been ready for a little while now though to make some steps to see if I can meet someone who I think is wonderful and who likes me too

For my personal journey, I guess joining here is one of the steps but I'd like to say I don't have any unrealistic expectations. It would be insanely great if I did meet my partner here and in the scheme of things, it is a real possibility. I flippin' hope so :-) But it's hard to meet someone anyway that you want to cherish and love, let alone where you're both into the same kinks, so my hope is tempered with reality ! Still I remain 100% positive as why the hell not ;-) It would be great to make a few like-minded pals along the way too.

In vanilla life, I work in construction, I have a small firm. It drives me bonkers sometimes but I like making stuff so I get job satisfaction from my work. I love music and have a small studio where I make tunes, have been doing this on and off since I was young and really get in to it sometimes. I have a lovely social circle of friends who we've know each other for years and have spent many years raving together.

From a kinky perspective I am defo a straight subbie, wont go into too much detail here but like I think the more traditional side of toys and D/s dynamics. It's an awesome way to let go and relax which is why I don't mind switching for my partner to allow them to 'have some time off 'and let someone look after them.

Probably said enough for now, thanks for having a read, if you got this far !

love j

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RE: Hi from london - 7/9/2013 4:45:52 AM

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Hi Jola,

Welcome to CM, yes, there are some really nice people here, you'll get to meet them on the forums, so jump right on in

. Glad to have another Londoner here, we're outnumbered by the colonists, but they are friendly enough, but their spelling is abysmal

! I've met some lovely friends here & you will too, I'm sure.

All the best, Gary.

< Message edited by garyFLR -- 7/9/2013 4:51:41 AM >

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RE: Hi from london - 7/9/2013 6:28:15 AM

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Welcome J, Hope this thing works for you.

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RE: Hi from london - 7/9/2013 3:37:57 PM

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Cheers Gary & OohAahMrs

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RE: Hi from london - 7/10/2013 12:52:26 AM

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Always a pleasure Jola

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RE: Hi from london - 7/10/2013 8:18:29 AM

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Welcome bro! I'm one of those damn colonists with deplorable spelling! Not even autocorrect can save me. Lol. I really enjoy chatting it up with you Brits. Glad your here.

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RE: Hi from london - 7/11/2013 12:15:44 AM

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Colonists, I love you all

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RE: Hi from london - 7/11/2013 4:45:33 AM

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Hi J,

Benvenuto and welcome from Roma and London

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RE: Hi from london - 7/11/2013 5:29:45 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: jola37

I should really say a little more about me and what I am looking for.

I am 38 yrs old, live in London and am a lifelong kinky head. I felt uncomfortable about it for many years until I met a wonderful woman about 5 years ago. We ended up getting together for a couple of years as GF/BF and she helped to bring me out. I think it was the first time I met someone as kinky as me ! I owe her a debt of gratitude for her patience and care. We split up amicably a couple of years ago and I stayed single since then. I have been ready for a little while now though to make some steps to see if I can meet someone who I think is wonderful and who likes me too For my personal journey, I guess joining here is one of the steps but I'd like to say I don't have any unrealistic expectations. It would be insanely great if I did meet my partner here and in the scheme of things, it is a real possibility. I flippin' hope so :-) But it's hard to meet someone anyway that you want to cherish and love, let alone where you're both into the same kinks, so my hope is tempered with reality ! Still I remain 100% positive as why the hell not ;-) It would be great to make a few like-minded pals along the way too.

In vanilla life, I work in construction, I have a small firm. It drives me bonkers sometimes but I like making stuff so I get job satisfaction from my work. I love music and have a small studio where I make tunes, have been doing this on and off since I was young and really get in to it sometimes. I have a lovely social circle of friends who we've know each other for years and have spent many years raving together.

From a kinky perspective I am defo a straight subbie, wont go into too much detail here but like I think the more traditional side of toys and D/s dynamics. It's an awesome way to let go and relax which is why I don't mind switching for my partner to allow them to 'have some time off 'and let someone look after them.

Probably said enough for now, thanks for having a read, if you got this far !

love j

Nice and wordy here - put that lot in your profile!

Definitely mention that you work construction. Keith Jones is a spanking model working for Shadow Lane, and is fit enough to be able to spank a woman for two hours straight. Even though you're a bottom and not a Top, being fit never hurts. If there's a way to mention that you work the office as well as the field, then you're every woman's ideal - a man comfortable shuffling papers as well as working with tools. (Over here, a British accent is killer as well, although it's common in the UK.)

Welcome to the site!

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RE: Hi from london - 7/11/2013 4:14:03 PM

jola37

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Many thanks for your tips and welcome :-)

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RE: Hi from london - 7/12/2013 6:33:01 AM

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What a nice thread, gives us a sense of who you are. Welcome aboard. As others have said, there are some nice people on the forums. A good profile on the other side will help weed out some of the internet crazies and it is easy to find and meet someone with common interests.

Best wishes!

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RE: Hi from london - 7/12/2013 8:09:06 AM

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I agree with RS, very good intro. Hello and welcome, and I like the word "kinkyhead". Has a ring to it.

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RE: Hi from london - 7/12/2013 12:50:53 PM

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Welcome to the forums. Saw that post about your affinity for getting your whip marks. I enjoyed that.

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RE: Hi from london - 7/13/2013 6:36:08 AM

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thanks again to everyone for the lovely welcome and thanks for the pointers for a better profile too. Thanks for your comment LadyPact, I can only wonder at the reason you enjoyed a post about a subbie recovering from a beating :-P Just in the last few days, i have read many posts and topics here. Some are really funny, some are very touching and sincere, some very informative, you really get to see the plethora of nice characters that make this place up. I have learnt a great deal in this short time, and can see I have a great deal more to learn still!

See you all around the groups and forums i hope :-)

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