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appropriate first time contact - 7/9/2013 6:20:52 PM

theIndian

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Hey! I was just wondering, how would you start messaging someone on here? I'm new to this whole online thing. How do you go about it? Like just jump in or be subtle? I honestly have no clue. Is it just better to wait for someone to contact me? Since I'm more interested in dominating someone, I don't think subs go around saying hey you look like a person I'd like to be dominated by.. any help would be appreciated. Cheers

Edit: and how do I rotate my pic? Am using my phone, laptops broken.

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RE: appropriate first time contact - 7/9/2013 6:26:09 PM

dcnovice

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Welcome to Collarme! I hope you'll have a great time here.

One of our veteran posters put together his wisdom on wooing women here. You may find it worth a read.

http://www.collarchat.com/m_1717756/tm.htm

One tip of my own: Read the person's profile completely and carefully before writing. A common complaint in these parts is cookie-cutter messages from guys who clearly didn't bother to learn anything about whom they were contacting.

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RE: appropriate first time contact - 7/9/2013 6:39:11 PM

shallowdeep

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quote:

ORIGINAL: theIndian
Edit: and how do I rotate my pic? Am using my phone, laptops broken.

If it's an iPhone, see this thread:
http://www.collarchat.com/m_4199320/tm.htm

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RE: appropriate first time contact - 7/9/2013 6:55:11 PM

TieMeInKnottss

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Pretty simple...go to the "other side", search by your area and desires...read the profiles...write messages that are brief, mention so etching that shows you READ the profile. Keep it cheery, upbeat and NON-SEXUAL. Hit send.

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RE: appropriate first time contact - 7/9/2013 8:20:03 PM

littlewonder

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How would you approach a woman offline?

Same thing...hopefully, pending you don't have any social misfit issues.

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RE: appropriate first time contact - 7/9/2013 8:27:13 PM

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Hello and welcome to the CollarMe forums. Enjoy!

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