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Dare I ask??? - 7/10/2013 7:31:30 AM   
freedomdwarf1


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Status: offline 		There are many that make up the BDSM world on both sides of the kneel.
There are even extremes of it from various angles - Gor being just one that comes to mind.

I think most of us accept some pretty weird shit when it comes to this lifestyle.

Over the past few weeks, we have been contacted by some of the extreme people and as much as I've tried to make sense of it, I just can't. Am I missing something major here??
This is on CM as well as a couple of other sites.

What am I talking about?
In essence, two things......

Firstly, those that say they want to be totally de-humanised.
And by that, they mean to be totally encased in latex/rubber or locked away in a small box etc etc.
In effect, nothing better than a human worm. No movement, no interraction, nothing. 
We aren't talking a play scene or for a few hours - we are talking 24/7 lifetime here folks.
I can understand wanting that in a scene or for a short while; but 24/7/365???
Who would even want to have that sort of person/it? What would they get out if it?
They'd have to feed it, clean it, keep its environment clean - for what, exactly?
It wouldn't be doing anything for them - just lay there and... consume and make a mess.
Why would anyone want to take on such a responsibility for absolutely no return? 

Secondly, Dolcette Dolls.
I had no real idea of what these were until last week when I Googled the term and looked at a dozen or so sites at random.
Having spoken to the 3rd one this week alone, what *is* the fascination about this topic??
I wasn't disgusted - just mildly intrigued as to why someone would want to be cooked/eaten alive??
Why waste a perfectly good slave by eating them?? 
The last two I spoke to were talking about wanting it for real - not just a fantasy.



I'll go crawl back under my rock. lol.

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RE: Dare I ask??? - 7/10/2013 7:52:01 AM   
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Status: offline 		Those fall under of the category of...they'd want it until they actually did it. People get so wrapped up in the fantasy that the logistics and realities escape them.

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RE: Dare I ask??? - 7/10/2013 7:58:53 AM   
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RE: Dare I ask??? - 7/11/2013 1:39:50 AM   
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Status: offline 		Maybe the Dolcette dolls are actually law enforcement trolling for takers?

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RE: Dare I ask??? - 7/11/2013 3:40:29 AM   
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Status: offline 		Strange...I have been noticing more "vanilla" types of ads... This is the most recent that popped up. Made me wonder

"i am not seeking a sadistic DOM nor a strict DOM,..all i am seeking a DOM who is ready to take good care of SUB,a good listener,a DOM who has all it takes to be called a MASTER,i seek that DOM who is gonna be capable of taking good care of his SUB both emotionally and financially.."

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RE: Dare I ask??? - 7/11/2013 8:21:44 AM   
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ORIGINAL: hlen5

Maybe the Dolcette dolls are actually law enforcement trolling for takers?


Or they're law enforcement types trolling for dinner, like that NYC cop? Slight threadjack here, I have this love/hate thing with Steve Dolcett. Love the man's artwork, hate his subject matter.

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RE: Dare I ask??? - 7/13/2013 12:58:45 AM   
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Status: offline 		Heard of him, went to google/investigate. When I got a SECOND screen asking me, "Are you REALLY sure you want to see this?", I decided to stick with the other pups on the porch!!

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RE: Dare I ask??? - 7/13/2013 1:52:57 AM   
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RE: Dare I ask??? - 7/13/2013 2:23:04 AM   
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RE: Dare I ask??? - 7/13/2013 7:25:12 AM   
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ORIGINAL: hlen5

Heard of him, went to google/investigate. When I got a SECOND screen asking me, "Are you REALLY sure you want to see this?", I decided to stick with the other pups on the porch!!

Wise decision. He really is a good artist, I do believe he's done quite a bit of commercial work. He's got a great eye for proportion and balance, but Dear Lord, the subject matter he's chosen...

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RE: Dare I ask??? - 7/13/2013 10:07:26 AM   
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In effect, nothing better than a human worm. No movement, no interraction, nothing. 
We aren't talking a play scene or for a few hours - we are talking 24/7 lifetime here folks.
I can understand wanting that in a scene or for a short while; but 24/7/365???

I'm willing to bet that 99.99% of them are posers who don't know the difference between reality and fantasy. If you want to make some money, tell them you'll require a non-refundable $10,000 deposit to pay for all their latex, food, etc. If they go through with it and change their mind after a week in latex/rubber and locked away in a small box (don't forget to cut air holes! ), you'll make some good money for a week's worth of work.

In any case, that's the only practical use for them I can think of... Or you could get a few of them together and call it a permanent post-post-modernist art exhibit.

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RE: Dare I ask??? - 7/14/2013 3:04:04 PM   
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Status: offline 		I have at times seen been asked about and read about things that people have wanted done to them . I love these people ! They make me feel normal .
Having a kink or a fetish is one thing but there are lines people want to cross that have no road leading back . To many have got a tattoo and thought
about how a bad idea it was after . What will they do when they are in a dark cage alone no one to call and start thinking about why they did this .
Oopps to late to say I want out ? Once you have lost a limb can you get a replacement on a bad idea ? What seems a sexy hot idea in the beginning is
a why did I do this thought toward the end . Being human gives you the right to do stupid things but there is always a cost . Like the girl who got drunk
and thought I will blow the football team . After #17 she sobered up and still had a lot more to go . Was it rape when she begged for it then said no to the
other half of the team ?
Well all have things we want to try and do put we need to think about it before we do it .

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RE: Dare I ask??? - 7/14/2013 3:11:10 PM   
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ORIGINAL: TieMeInKnottss

Strange...I have been noticing more "vanilla" types of ads... This is the most recent that popped up. Made me wonder

"i am not seeking a sadistic DOM nor a strict DOM,..all i am seeking a DOM who is ready to take good care of SUB,a good listener,a DOM who has all it takes to be called a MASTER,i seek that DOM who is gonna be capable of taking good care of his SUB both emotionally and financially.."



I'm wondering what makes you Wonder with those ads? They arent strange or out of ordinary, they're just plain and well, ordinary. To each their own, right?

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RE: Dare I ask??? - 7/14/2013 5:51:58 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: chemeli


quote:

ORIGINAL: TieMeInKnottss

Strange...I have been noticing more "vanilla" types of ads... This is the most recent that popped up. Made me wonder

"i am not seeking a sadistic DOM nor a strict DOM,..all i am seeking a DOM who is ready to take good care of SUB,a good listener,a DOM who has all it takes to be called a MASTER,i seek that DOM who is gonna be capable of taking good care of his SUB both emotionally and financially.."



I'm wondering what makes you Wonder with those ads? They arent strange or out of ordinary, they're just plain and well, ordinary. To each their own, right?


It might have something to do with her being a female slave (as stated in her profile). I would wonder about someone writing to me telling me about what kind of Dom they are looking for too.

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RE: Dare I ask??? - 7/14/2013 5:54:39 PM   
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quote:

I'm wondering what makes you Wonder with those ads? They arent strange or out of ordinary, they're just plain and well, ordinary. To each their own, right?


I am wondering why you are wondering about what she was wondering.... really makes one wonder... ya know?


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RE: Dare I ask??? - 7/14/2013 7:03:59 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Silentrunner26

Like the girl who got drunk
and thought I will blow the football team . After #17 she sobered up and still had a lot more to go . Was it rape when she begged for it then said no to the
other half of the team ?
Well all have things we want to try and do put we need to think about it before we do it .


I absolutely see your point (and agree with it). But, yes, when this girls says "No.", and people keep on keepin' on, it IS rape. No question about it.

Now, when she says "Yes, yes, yes." at the time, and "I really wish I hadn't." sometime later, then I'd say it's not rape. I think this is more in line with the point you're making.


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