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What is cheating?


Hang out with someone of the opposite sex
  8% (2)
Kissing (on lips, closed mouth, no tounge)
  26% (6)
Kissing (open mouth with tounge)
  26% (6)
Necking
  39% (9)


Total Votes : 23
(last vote on : 7/9/2006 5:30:24 PM)
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What is cheating? - 6/27/2006 7:53:55 PM   
MarksFantasyGirl


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Status: offline 		My boyfriend and I kind of have differant views as to what counts as cheating... I just wonder what other people think....

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RE: What is cheating? - 6/27/2006 7:57:29 PM   
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RE: What is cheating? - 6/27/2006 8:00:41 PM   
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RE: What is cheating? - 6/27/2006 8:13:05 PM   
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RE: What is cheating? - 6/27/2006 8:28:40 PM   
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LEGIT!

If you feel you need to hide it.

If you're not in the relationship for it, it aint cheatin'.  For example, yer woman don't wanna give you no anal sex, you go right thar to the nex one, and she give it to ya.  Then y'all go back to yer woman and gives her herpes.  Neither oneofem's cheatin', cuz you never said you was in it for anal or herpes.

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RE: What is cheating? - 6/27/2006 9:13:37 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Wulfchyld

Anything you won't do with your Mother/Father.


thats a really got way to put it!!

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RE: What is cheating? - 6/27/2006 11:23:29 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: BreakMeShakeMe

Anything you have to hide from partner...and feel guilty about..and need to see approval from others to justify your actions... 


I like this answer as it seems to fit what I was thinking.  If there is deception, it is just wrong...

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RE: What is cheating? - 6/28/2006 2:05:01 AM   
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Status: offline 		None of the above. Whatever action YOU undertake it is the fact that it is hidden from your partner/s. If it has to be done behind their back and you know it would hurt them to find out then it is cheating.

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RE: What is cheating? - 6/28/2006 2:33:59 AM   
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Status: offline 		I go with the "doing something with someone else behind your partners back knowing it would hurt them if they found out", as others have said.

I also think you can cheat with your heart and your mind without having taken any action at all.

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RE: What is cheating? - 6/28/2006 4:20:07 AM   
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Status: offline 		Cheating is anything that you do in secret and that would hurt your partner if they found out about it.  Afterall, when in a relationship, it's what your partner considers cheating that counts.

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RE: What is cheating? - 6/28/2006 11:28:29 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: BreakMeShakeMe

Anything you have to hide from partner...and feel guilty about..and need to see approval from others to justify your actions... 


Exactly.  Well said.

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RE: What is cheating? - 6/28/2006 11:51:07 AM   
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Status: offline 		Nothing on that list........

Realistically, anything I would have to lie about or hide.



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RE: What is cheating? - 6/28/2006 12:20:28 PM   
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Status: offline 		Depends on what "kind" of relationship you are BOTH into.............................. also depends if you are all poly im Sure...................

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RE: What is cheating? - 6/28/2006 5:27:01 PM   
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Status: offline 		If you have to ask yourself if it's cheating, it probably is.

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RE: What is cheating? - 6/28/2006 6:58:31 PM   
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Status: offline 		Your pole is to vauge.  You do not have an option for doing something with someone else your mate would be upset about.


I view cheating as something someone has done with another that would upset them and damage the relationship Ie fucking another man when you two are exclusive.

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RE: What is cheating? - 6/28/2006 7:05:46 PM   
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Status: offline 		cheating is
running out without paying your check
looking over someone's shoulder during a test
telling one girl, she's the one and seeing another
sleeping while you are suppose to be working and getting paid.
What is cheating?
Cheating is getting caught...everything else is fair game!
Who has driven after a few beers?
Who has smoked pot?
Who has parked in the handicapped parking places?
Who has told lies?
Everyone but me....you damn cheaters!......shrugs and fesses up..me too.
We are all cheaters and we are all human, which is why we cheat.
In my humble opinion?

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RE: What is cheating? - 6/28/2006 7:10:18 PM   
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I am so kidding - i'm with most, anything ur partner would be upset about or you feel guilty about.

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RE: What is cheating? - 6/28/2006 7:13:29 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: RavenMuse

None of the above. Whatever action YOU undertake it is the fact that it is hidden from your partner/s. If it has to be done behind their back and you know it would hurt them to find out then it is cheating.


Yup, that's it.

Every couple should sit down and have a really good discussion about what's ok and what's not. Once you are clear on that, then you're responsible for living within the rules you set.

If something comes up that isn't clear...then pass on the opportunity and discuss it with your partner next chance you get.

Cheating is not about sex. Cheating is about breaking the understanding you have with your partner. Cheating is about lying and hiding things. (Even if you think you are doing it to protect them! Hate that!!)

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RE: What is cheating? - 6/30/2006 8:32:22 PM   
MarksFantasyGirl


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Status: offline 		well, like i said, i had more things on there, but for some reason, It wouldn't show them.... but thank you all for your imput... I was just wondering.. i mean, my boy and i have talked about it all, and i know what he thinks... i just wondered... people on this site have MANY differant views about things, and i just wanted to hear some.... wow... that sounds like i am appologizing for something!  lol

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RE: What is cheating? - 7/4/2006 8:46:45 AM   
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