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LadyPact -> RE: having doubts (7/11/2013 7:27:27 PM)
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You know, I've seen a lot of stories on the net about how, supposedly, this one session made somebody submit to a scene just because of some kind of razzle dazzle or because, from out of the blue, somebody told them to "kneel" and they did it. To date, that crap has never happened to Me and I'm willing to bet that it hasn't happened to the majority of folks who consider themselves Dominant, rather than switch.
Here's what I'd suggest that you do........
Examine your own feelings about whether you can deal with the idea of your "master" submitting to another or not. Some people can do that and some people can't. You might have to ask yourself some serious questions about if you want this person for the human being that he is, the dynamic that he has with you, or if you are into an illusion that isn't the whole picture.
Start asking yourself if one scene can really make or break your dynamic. Again, for some it does and for some it doesn't. By the way, you may want to consider that poly is not an option for you.
If it's really so frivolous (or life changing, depending on how you look at it) that this has changed EVERYTHING, you might want to challenge yourself to find out how much worth this dynamic really has. For BOTH of you. If one good time really wrecked the eight months, that might be a reality that deserves your attention.
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