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Hello from northern California - where there is a deart... - 7/12/2013 4:20:24 PM

lovesebony

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Hi there.
Where I live, there are extremely few ebony ladies, whom I crave. I'm hoping to meet the right submissive ebony gal, for a LTR, if she exists somewhere near by, hidden in a nook or cranny. Her only quality need be submissiveness in the natural order of things.

As for me, I'm an attractive & sensual Caucasian man who is very happy and secure within myself. I'm a well educated, ardent, romantic, easy going (does not like drama), hard working, understanding, compassionate, sincere, respectful, very well traveled person. I have a career (corporate) and am goal oriented. I am emotionally stable and giving. I understand that into each life a little rain must fall. I am supportive and I seek the same qualities in a potential partner. I am not into games nor am I seeking to impress. I'm from the old school and I like listening to music from that era with a mix of modernized music also. I am kind and considerate and I understand commitment. I am stable and successful in every aspect those words imply (with slight hint of Mediterranean ethnicity). I am comfortable in jeans and boots and just as comfortable in a suit dining with the captain on a cruise ship. A home cooked meal, dinner at a neighborhood diner or dining at a local dive makes no difference to me. I am very well rounded ....love to meet people and travel. I've been told I'm not to hard on the eyes........a great conversationalist and very independent!

For others (non ebony, that is), any advice is always welcome!

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RE: Hello from northern California - where there is a d... - 7/12/2013 4:33:23 PM

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You live about 35 miles from Oakland and San Francisco, which leads me to think that you're just not looking that hard.

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RE: Hello from northern California - where there is a d... - 7/12/2013 8:08:17 PM

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Greeting and welcome to CM and the forums. You most likely will not get many subs looking for you here on this side, as it is where discussions take place, what you seek happens over on the CM side. Glad that you joined us here and hopefully you will stick around and join in on some of the discussions that take place here. Enjoy your time well here also the best of luck in finding that in which you seek.

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RE: Hello from northern California - where there is a d... - 7/12/2013 9:10:37 PM

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quote:

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You live about 35 miles from Oakland and San Francisco, which leads me to think that you're just not looking that hard.

:)

Oakland is a hell hole and I don't like cities (plus I'm more like 50 miles from SF, which isn't a daily commute for me). But, I guess you're right - I'm not willing to find a GF that is 50 miles away, nor, one who lives in a city like Oakland which is one of the worst cities in the US.

:)

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RE: Hello from northern California - where there is a d... - 7/12/2013 9:13:10 PM

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ORIGINAL: lovesebony

Oakland is a hell hole and I don't like cities (plus I'm more like 50 miles from SF, which isn't a daily commute for me). But, I guess you're right - I'm not willing to find a GF that is 50 miles away, nor, one who lives in a city like Oakland which is one of the worst cities in the US.

:)

I agree, many parts of the Bay Area suck. So why not invite your potential partner to visit you, instead?

ETA: How rude of me! Welcome!

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RE: Hello from northern California - where there is a d... - 7/12/2013 10:29:04 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: lovesebony

quote:

ORIGINAL: OsideGirl
You live about 35 miles from Oakland and San Francisco, which leads me to think that you're just not looking that hard.

:)

Oakland is a hell hole and I don't like cities (plus I'm more like 50 miles from SF, which isn't a daily commute for me). But, I guess you're right - I'm not willing to find a GF that is 50 miles away, nor, one who lives in a city like Oakland which is one of the worst cities in the US.

:)

That's a pity, some of the nicest and most interesting people I've met come from the scariest neighbourhoods.

Welcome and good luck.

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RE: Hello from northern California - where there is a d... - 7/12/2013 11:52:10 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: lovesebony

:)

Oakland is a hell hole and I don't like cities (plus I'm more like 50 miles from SF, which isn't a daily commute for me). But, I guess you're right - I'm not willing to find a GF that is 50 miles away, nor, one who lives in a city like Oakland which is one of the worst cities in the US.

:)

I lived in Campbell for quite a long while. Check out Fremont, Hayweird, Milpitas and, of course, San Jose is right next door and they have a huge population of kinky folks. You can also hit up QSM classes or check out one of the several munch groups in the area or..

you can sit there and make excuses why your lack of effort is the fault of geography rather than.. a lack of effort.

You are in the middle of a mecca of kinky that some folks would give their eye teeth for.. seriously.

Welcome to the forums.

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RE: Hello from northern California - where there is a d... - 7/13/2013 8:40:28 AM

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Welcome love.

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RE: Hello from northern California - where there is a d... - 7/13/2013 8:41:14 AM

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ORIGINAL: BitaTruble

you can sit there and make excuses why your lack of effort is the fault of geography rather than.. a lack of effort.

You are in the middle of a mecca of kinky that some folks would give their eye teeth for.. seriously.

Exactly. The Bay Area has a HUGE community. And instead you're complaining about bad neighborhoods and not liking cities. There's a large difference between "there aren't any" and "I'm not willing to".

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RE: Hello from northern California - where there is a d... - 7/20/2013 8:02:22 AM

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All good points. Will cast a wider net, but prefer local such as Campbell, Los Gatos, Saratoga, etc.

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RE: Hello from northern California - where there is a d... - 7/21/2013 6:40:54 PM

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Hello, Welcome to Cm

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