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Erection difficulty :( - 7/13/2013 11:43:07 PM

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This has been a problem for me on and off since I was very young. It sucks because sex with my slave is starting to be a chore, she worries I'm not attracted to her even though I am. I can usually have one orgasm without issue, though I wish I lasted longer with it. Any advice besides medication on getting more frequent, harder, longer lasting erections would be appreciated. I'm sure partly it's psychological but I think I could get past that if I knew I had a better chance of things doing what I want them to.

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RE: Erection difficulty :( - 7/13/2013 11:54:23 PM

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My advice, since you asked: go to a urologist.
He (or she) will help you determine the source of it.

Also, you may not be aware, but getting and keeping an erection to orgasm is pretty good.
Not every guy can get it up a second time.

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RE: Erection difficulty :( - 7/14/2013 12:09:22 AM

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Judging by your photo, I'm significantly older than you and this began happening to me as a result of age, mostly. What really turned things around for me was something entirely natural and reasonably inexpensive. I buy and use 1000mg capsules of L-Arginine. It's a natural amino acid that the body uses to create the nitric oxide that relaxes your blood vessels and that results in having and maintaining erections.

I get my L-Arginine from Puritan's Pride pharmaceuticals, over the Web. I take one capsule in the morning, a second at midday, and the third in the evening. Each time, I take the capsule on an otherwise empty stomach and with a full glass of water. There have been absolutely no noticeable side effects for me.

After about 5-7 days of taking the capsules, I started awakening in the middle of the night to find myself stiffer than I've been since I was in my Thirties. In the weeks since, I've actually had several occasions where I found myself stiff as a pipe, just from seeing a pretty girl in a sexy outfit, passing me on the sidewalk. I mean, who needs Cialis or Levitra, under these circumstances? And once again... no side effects, like those prescription drugs cause.

Knowing how much easier it is for me to have an erection from minimal stimulation has given me confidence that I haven't had for a very long time. And that, in turn, just makes things get easier and easier.

You can get a bottle of 60 capsules for about $20. That's enough to give it a try for about three weeks. I really encourage you to do that. What do you have to lose, save for about $20??

I haven't felt like this in 30 years and I'm incredibly grateful that a clerk at a GNC store originally recommended I try this approach. It seemed too simple, easy, and inexpensive... but hey, it WORKS!

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RE: Erection difficulty :( - 7/14/2013 12:55:26 AM

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Don't drink alcohol when you are with a female. My god usually I can go from 10 minutes to 4 hours, but when I have had a few that time can go to 7 hours...and when you just want to blow it fucken gets to ya...

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RE: Erection difficulty :( - 7/14/2013 3:06:12 AM

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Pick up a copy of "The Multi Orgasmic Man" and it will teach you a lot about lasting longer and a host of other important,things.

In addition, as others here have said, at your age, see a doc as that is unusual.

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RE: Erection difficulty :( - 7/14/2013 3:52:56 AM

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Your sexual health is a reflection of the health of your prostate gland, and the health of your prostate is a reflection of your overall health. At 33, your doctors probably aren't looking at your prostate, so you need to bring it up. Get a referral to a urologist. Get a blood test, and ask for a full hormone panel.

In the event that it is not physical, there are a couple things you can try. You could ask for a few samples of viagra or whatever, perhaps a few good performances are all that is required to bring back your confidence. A cock ring will help maintain and prolong an erection. At my age, I am only good for one orgasm a night, luckily, since I am the dominant, I get to say when that happens, and I can make sure that by the time I am finished, she is thoroughly sated. Before I ever enter her, she has been brought to several orgasms by finger or orally, alternating with impact play. Or brought repeatedly to the edge, then spanked, edge, spanked, you get the idea. By the time I am done, so is she.

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RE: Erection difficulty :( - 7/14/2013 9:11:43 AM

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Read about Deer exercises for men. Many benefits there, and may be part of the book SimplyMichael recommended since Deer exercises leads to multi orgasms in men.

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RE: Erection difficulty :( - 7/14/2013 9:48:27 AM

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see a dr. See a therapist. Get to the point of finding out why you can't get an erection and then listen to what the dr or therapist tells you.

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RE: Erection difficulty :( - 7/15/2013 1:28:09 AM

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See your doctor.

Check your diet and exercise. Correct what you find.

Notice that attention drives perception. Do not focus so heavily on 'the problem' that you become the cause of it. Instead, focus on the whole range of activities that are part of the experience and enjoy the event as much as possible.

And, lastly, experiment with an appropriately sized ring. Have some oil handy, in case it turns out to be too small. There may be an alternative, a leather strap with a snap.

Best wishes.

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RE: Erection difficulty :( - 7/15/2013 12:27:31 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: DadD4SubFems

Judging by your photo, I'm significantly older than you and this began happening to me as a result of age, mostly. What really turned things around for me was something entirely natural and reasonably inexpensive. I buy and use 1000mg capsules of L-Arginine. It's a natural amino acid that the body uses to create the nitric oxide that relaxes your blood vessels and that results in having and maintaining erections.

I get my L-Arginine from Puritan's Pride pharmaceuticals, over the Web. I take one capsule in the morning, a second at midday, and the third in the evening. Each time, I take the capsule on an otherwise empty stomach and with a full glass of water. There have been absolutely no noticeable side effects for me.

After about 5-7 days of taking the capsules, I started awakening in the middle of the night to find myself stiffer than I've been since I was in my Thirties. In the weeks since, I've actually had several occasions where I found myself stiff as a pipe, just from seeing a pretty girl in a sexy outfit, passing me on the sidewalk. I mean, who needs Cialis or Levitra, under these circumstances? And once again... no side effects, like those prescription drugs cause.

Knowing how much easier it is for me to have an erection from minimal stimulation has given me confidence that I haven't had for a very long time. And that, in turn, just makes things get easier and easier.

You can get a bottle of 60 capsules for about $20. That's enough to give it a try for about three weeks. I really encourage you to do that. What do you have to lose, save for about $20??

I haven't felt like this in 30 years and I'm incredibly grateful that a clerk at a GNC store originally recommended I try this approach. It seemed too simple, easy, and inexpensive... but hey, it WORKS!

This stuff sounds worth a good look.

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RE: Erection difficulty :( - 7/15/2013 10:52:26 PM

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Let me clarify - you're concerned because you're a grown man and can only have one orgasm during a round of sex?

If so, that's normal. Most guys who aren't like 16 get off once and that's it for at least a few hours.

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RE: Erection difficulty :( - 7/16/2013 11:18:40 PM

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If all the above doesn't work Viagra online

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RE: Erection difficulty :( - 7/17/2013 3:24:10 AM

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so are you getting a raging boner, busting a nut and then having trouble getting it up again? or are you like getting a semi, pushing it hard enough to get off and then not getting it up again?

i've had the latter happen to me and it turned out to be some combination of stress and exhaustion but the thing is once you start having trouble getting it up it can turn into a mental thing. like a bad case of the yips. my doctor gave me a prescription for some boner pills and told me i probably wouldn't need them for long. i used maybe two or three of them tops before i didn't need them anymore because my dick quickly remembered how much it loved being embarrassingly hard.

so don't fear meds, yo, and tell your doctor exactly what is going on.

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ORIGINAL: stpmaster

This has been a problem for me on and off since I was very young. It sucks because sex with my slave is starting to be a chore, she worries I'm not attracted to her even though I am. I can usually have one orgasm without issue, though I wish I lasted longer with it. Any advice besides medication on getting more frequent, harder, longer lasting erections would be appreciated. I'm sure partly it's psychological but I think I could get past that if I knew I had a better chance of things doing what I want them to.

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RE: Erection difficulty :( - 7/21/2013 5:14:27 PM

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Yup I had this too for as long as I remember. It kept me away from one night stands!

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