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35 year pro domme. - 7/16/2013 11:39:38 PM   
lobster123


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Status: offline 		A bit about myself. I don't take crap of people I like to control. Them. Iv seen all sorts. Some harder then others. I am not a handbook domme( no offence to anyone but loads do exist). A natural Dom. Out of curiosity. Do you subs like the caring dom or the hardcore but sensible Dom ?
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RE: 35 year pro domme. - 7/16/2013 11:43:37 PM   
tazzygirl


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Status: offline 		Define "crap". Each person has a different meaning of the "crap" they will or wont take from a submissive, especially in the beginning of a relationship.

As to your question, I prefer a dominant who takes the time to get to know me and understands how I tick and treats me accordingly. Im not one to be treated in a cookie cutter way like every other submissive.

And, the "domme" part of your thread title will lead people to think you are a woman. Just an FYI.

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RE: 35 year pro domme. - 7/17/2013 12:40:39 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: tazzygirl


And, the "domme" part of your thread title will lead people to think you are a woman. Just an FYI.



Yeah I thought that till you mentioned it...


quote:

ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

As to your question, I prefer a dominant who takes the time to get to know me and understands how I tick and treats me accordingly. Im not one to be treated in a cookie cutter way like every other submissive.



Snap really, though I'd add I prefer the Domme to choose their own style and be happy with it too, it's great to see a partner enjoying themselves and that personally provides a lot of the buzz for me.

To the OP as you seem to be talking about professional domination I'd say the style would vary according to the scene/fantasy you (or your client) had in mind

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RE: 35 year pro domme. - 7/17/2013 12:50:28 AM   
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RE: 35 year pro domme. - 7/17/2013 12:55:29 AM   
lobster123


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Status: offline 		Sorry you took me wrong. I was pointing towards my character more then the sub. But the sub is involved within the question. Everyone is different. Some like it extreme from the start some on the other side of the spectrum. I normally like to get to know them. First session would be physical. But physical with words that seduce the mind. The more talking the more I learn about the physical, mental weaknesses. I have helped some because that is my ultimate goal. Domme? Typo grow up. If it confuses people then let it.

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RE: 35 year pro domme. - 7/17/2013 12:56:58 AM   
lobster123


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Status: offline 		No offence dude are you for real ?

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RE: 35 year pro domme. - 7/17/2013 1:02:35 AM   
lobster123


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Status: offline 		Thanks for the domme correction it was a typo so it may cause confusion which is what I enjoy if there is any confusion. So you like for your domme to know you. Do things like looks height size colour matter ?

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RE: 35 year pro domme. - 7/17/2013 1:15:48 AM   
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RE: 35 year pro domme. - 7/17/2013 1:34:19 AM   
ARIES83


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RE: 35 year pro domme. - 7/17/2013 3:42:51 AM   
Bstardsbitch1


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Status: offline 		I just read your profile lobster 123.
You don't like being asked to do things like pass me a pen?
When you have your bitch you will rip her apart?
Ohh ...Ohhh... and you're caring on days like Christmas ?

Good luck with that !

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RE: 35 year pro domme. - 7/17/2013 3:58:31 AM   
DarkSteven


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ORIGINAL: lobster123

No offence dude are you for real ?


Dude, are YOU for real?

A pro Domme is a Dominatrix, a woman who will top men (and I suppose women) for lucre. You are neither a Domme, nor a professional at Domming.

You have introduced the term "handbook Domme" which is not a standard term and asked someone if he's real when he questioned it. I've been in the lifestyle over ten years and never heard it myself.

So you're misusing words and making others up, and expecting all of us to know your terms.

With that out of the way...

You are evidently differentiating between a "caring Dom" and a "hardcore but sensible Dom". I get the impression that you're asking if it's possible to be a right bastard and call that being a Dom.

Per my own definition, a Dom is someone who likes to be in control. So by that definition, sure. Call yourself a Dom.

That said, my own style involves being aware of several levels to a relationship. I have to know what's best for myself, what's best for her, and what's best for the relationship between us. And then I act according to all three.

Regarding a sub's preference, that's irrelevant. At my age, I have no intention of changing my style, and I will certainly not advertise it as anything other than what it is. So I yam what I yam, to quote the philosopher Popeye.

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RE: 35 year pro domme. - 7/17/2013 7:44:49 AM   
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ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

As to your question, I prefer a dominant who takes the time to get to know me and understands how I tick and treats me accordingly. Im not one to be treated in a cookie cutter way like every other submissive.



Very much this.

To me, there is a huge difference between someone who's firm and someone who is just a plain prick.
I don't deny that I'm stubborn and there are times where I have a type of OCD moments that make it difficult to relinquish control. I like someone who is "firm", meaning unwavering, not one who wants to beat me into submission.
If he stands his ground, I'll respect him. If he's creative and intelligent enough to know how to handle me, I'll listen.

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RE: 35 year pro domme. - 7/17/2013 7:49:19 AM   
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Status: offline 		I was thinking the English thing as well, and was going to ask what a handbook domme was too.


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RE: 35 year pro domme. - 7/17/2013 8:49:04 AM   
tazzygirl


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quote:

ORIGINAL: lobster123

Sorry you took me wrong. I was pointing towards my character more then the sub. But the sub is involved within the question. Everyone is different. Some like it extreme from the start some on the other side of the spectrum. I normally like to get to know them. First session would be physical. But physical with words that seduce the mind. The more talking the more I learn about the physical, mental weaknesses. I have helped some because that is my ultimate goal. Domme? Typo grow up. If it confuses people then let it.


So... I get told to grow up....

quote:

Thanks for the domme correction it was a typo so it may cause confusion which is what I enjoy if there is any confusion. So you like for your domme to know you. Do things like looks height size colour matter ?


Then this?

Im gonna go with the belief that the second one was meant for someone else.

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RE: 35 year pro domme. - 7/17/2013 8:58:34 AM   
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Status: offline 		This is a sad, sad thread......

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RE: 35 year pro domme. - 7/17/2013 9:00:00 AM   
MsLadySue


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Status: offline 		Sounds to me like the OP is the one who needs to grow up. Having read his profile and his posts, I can't conceive of him being a pro anything. More like he lives in the fantasy of his own mind.

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RE: 35 year pro domme. - 7/17/2013 9:00:52 AM   
TNDommeK


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Status: offline 		I give this thread a 1. Because it did give us something to read, but confused the hell out of me. Then just sucked.
All in favor?

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RE: 35 year pro domme. - 7/17/2013 9:05:58 AM   
SeekingTrinity


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Well, was going to type out a reply, but saw the responses OP gives in response to people...and decided that my time would be better spent getting my coffee instead

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RE: 35 year pro domme. - 7/17/2013 9:11:35 AM   
OsideGirl


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ORIGINAL: MsLadySue

Having read his profile and his posts, I can't conceive of him being a pro anything. More like he lives in the fantasy of his own mind.


A whole lot of chest thumping and bravado. Seems to think that being domineering in the forums is the way to behave. I saw a couple of his posts before they were removed and it just reinforced that viewpoint.


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RE: 35 year pro domme. - 7/17/2013 9:18:20 AM   
MasterCaneman


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ORIGINAL: TNDommeK

I give this thread a 1. Because it did give us something to read, but confused the hell out of me. Then just sucked.
All in favor?


Agreed. "Best Use of An Incorrect Identifier".

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