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male slave for my lady in Fremont, CA - 7/17/2013 11:03:22 PM

slaveformylady

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I am a 27 yo living in Fremont originally from India. Working in technology industry in San Francisco. Being submissive by nature from my childhood and my recent introduction to BDSM in bay area, I am very much excited to serve a mistress and impress my lady by any and all means and thus, train myself to be a good slave for my lady.

I am looking for a lifestyle dominant mistress where I can serve my lady doing all daily chores and be at the whim of my lady.

Note: I am not an experienced slave. Have been to just couple of BDSM sessions as a sub.

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RE: male slave for my lady in Fremont, CA - 7/18/2013 4:08:23 AM

DarkSteven

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Hi there! Welcome to the site (and the scene).

How much experience so you have with vanilla dating? Because relationships with Dommes are almost identical. If you have conversations with her and take her out to dinner, that's a LOT of a female led relationship right there. My sub and I spend more time talking about our jobs and what needs to be done to the house, than we do with us doing kinky stuff.

Welcome again.

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RE: male slave for my lady in Fremont, CA - 7/18/2013 7:28:02 AM

Rasciallymisty

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Welcome to CM and the forums, this side is where discussions take place the other side is where you will find that in which seek. DS gave you some good advice, I have a few suggestions that may help your search also.

My suggestions would be....

1- Your profile is lacking a little. Make your profile one that the Domme's will want to read. Tell them more on what your likes are in the vanilla world your enjoyments other than sex. But do not make an all about me profile or all about your D/s likes and dislikes. Also most do not like third person references it drives them nuts, sort of like fingernails on a chalk board. Maybe read a few other subs profiles and see how they have wrote theirs and maybe take some ideas to use in yours.

2- Head down to the Mistress, Master and sub/slave thread's and maybe join in some of the discussions. The only ones I might say beware of is Politics and Religion unless you like getting into some debates.

3- Use the search on this side ( little button up there on top ^^^^ on the right hand side) if you have some questions as they may have already been asked...or ask away. Please just watch the dates on the threads and do not respond to anything that is more than three months old....as the Mod's are not found of us doing so. You can always start a new one with your question.

4- I would also suggest posting a REAL picture of yourself. Never post nude pics.....women tend to dislike them. They like action pics of you doing things like maybe boating, skiing, things along those lines. Things you are into not related to D/s.

5- Check out ResidentSadist book list, its a great list and can help you get info on WIITWD or go to general BDSM thread and there is a good book list there as well.

Its nice to have you join us here on the forums and hopefully you will stick around and join in on some of the discussions. Do beware some peeps are super kewl on this side and some not so kewl. Have a thick skin and you will do fine. Hope you enjoy your time here.

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RE: male slave for my lady in Fremont, CA - 7/19/2013 6:34:08 AM

OohAahMrs

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Welcome, have you done anything like that before? In my experience I would estimate that's never going to happen, having said that, you may have some marvellous angle, or lots of money for instance.

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