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RE: I need some advice - 7/20/2013 3:50:47 PM

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RE: I need some advice - 7/20/2013 3:59:40 PM

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I dont want to upset her bf because he might have tried to rape 2 people.

Huuuuhhh?!

Apparently this couple has more trouble than pills here and there.

This story keeps getting better and better all the time. Just a suggestion here, pahunkboy, perhaps you should consider severing ties to this couple for an extended period of time before they get you jammed up in their problems even further.

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RE: I need some advice - 7/20/2013 4:05:55 PM

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I agree...sounds like a toxic relationship about to hit the fan.

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RE: I need some advice - 7/20/2013 4:51:08 PM

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I find that healthy people don't have unhealthy friends.

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RE: I need some advice - 7/20/2013 7:21:47 PM

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I find that healthy people don't have unhealthy friends.

Is there a healthy person involved in this mess?

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RE: I need some advice - 7/20/2013 7:38:29 PM

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Dude, everytime you come here it's about some fucked up friend of yours. I really think you need to take a look at what type of people you are attracting and take a look at your own life. I can't even begin to tell you how fucked up all this is. All I can say I'm glad it's you and not me.

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RE: I need some advice - 7/20/2013 9:02:07 PM

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Addicts are very dangerous and its sad! I let my sister stay with me and when my medications came up missing, I found her on the floor and many times nodding off and dropping cigarettes, I had to kick her out. A few weeks later I took my phone off the hook because I had to take a mid term test online and since its timed i couldn't be bothered by any distractions.
I forget about the phone and take a shower afterwards. I walk out to find my sister breaking in the house and when I confronted her ( she was livid I didn't answer the phone ) she attacked me. I was backed into a corner begging her to see what she was doing.......
Long story short, it was scary and dangerous and e cause it came down to violence we had to goto court, where I could have actually spent some time in jail!!!!!!!!!
I know WTF! She had badly scratched her legs getting in through the window and at last resort getting her off of me, I grabbed my coffee mug and hit her in the head......she had to get stitches. Luckily with a great attorney everything turned out fine, I haven't heard from her since. Breaks my heart... But that's the story of an addict.

Stay far far away and the others have great advice here! Listen cause this could happen to you, she'd lie to her boyfriend, narc on you if she was caught with your pills not to mention why in the hell if you need your medications give them to her?

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RE: I need some advice - 7/20/2013 9:11:36 PM

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Addicts are very dangerous and its sad! I let my sister stay with me and when my medications came up missing, I found her on the floor and many times nodding off and dropping cigarettes, I had to kick her out. A few weeks later I took my phone off the hook because I had to take a mid term test online and since its timed i couldn't be bothered by any distractions.
I forget about the phone and take a shower afterwards. I walk out to find my sister breaking in the house and when I confronted her ( she was livid I didn't answer the phone ) she attacked me. I was backed into a corner begging her to see what she was doing.......
Long story short, it was scary and dangerous and e cause it came down to violence we had to goto court, where I could have actually spent some time in jail!!!!!!!!!
I know WTF! She had badly scratched her legs getting in through the window and at last resort getting her off of me, I grabbed my coffee mug and hit her in the head......she had to get stitches. Luckily with a great attorney everything turned out fine, I haven't heard from her since. Breaks my heart... But that's the story of an addict.

Stay far far away and the others have great advice here! Listen cause this could happen to you, she'd lie to her boyfriend, narc on you if she was caught with your pills not to mention why in the hell if you need your medications give them to her?

Wow- thanks for sharing.

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RE: I need some advice - 7/21/2013 9:02:15 AM

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Is this for real?
You're a grown man of 47, who has "partied" with friends, with I'm assuming prescription drugs, and now you're wondering how you can stop your "friend" harassing you for more.

How on earth did you manage to get to your age with your lack of sense?

Jeez

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RE: I need some advice - 7/21/2013 12:03:17 PM

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i have to agree with you on that one

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Tell her you will tell her boyfriend if she asks again. Or, tell her you don't get them anymore... damn doctors.

Done deal.

Oh... and lock that shit up where it can't be found and don't tell people you have it.

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RE: I need some advice - 7/21/2013 1:23:49 PM

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fckk me in the azz. she called and pestered today.

I am about to call teh police.

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RE: I need some advice - 7/21/2013 1:27:50 PM

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I am fkkken pissed.

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RE: I need some advice - 7/21/2013 1:54:39 PM

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I think we have it worked out for now.

I gave her my DR info. Im pretty sure he would help her.

I dont want to upset her bf because he might have tried to rape 2 people.

pa, in one post you are worried about upsetting her boyfriend because he is a paragon of sobriety, and now you don't want to upset him because he: " might have tried to rape 2 people".
Not that it matters in the least, but where are you getting that information from?

If it came from her then you need to have a bit of perspective: Addicts lie.
Q: How can you tell when an addict is lying?
A: When their lips are moving.

Stay away from her.
Don't answer her calls.
Also, find out from your phone company if you can block her number(s).

Stop worrying about her telling your neighbor, because, I am sure your neighbor understands addicts lie.

Pick better friends AND don't party with them.
Ever.

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RE: I need some advice - 7/21/2013 1:54:49 PM

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I think we have it worked out for now.

I gave her my DR info. Im pretty sure he would help her.

I dont want to upset her bf because he might have tried to rape 2 people.

Jesus Christ, the drama! Bottom line - you're guilty here too. She's an addict who wants your pills and you are someone who has given them to her. I'm sure she doesn't randomly just ask strangers for their pills. She's asking you because it's paid off before. Stop whining and playing the victim and tell her "Look. It's my bad I supplied your habit before but it ain't happenin' again. Ever. Stop fuckin' askin.'" End of story. Either she gets the picture or she can get the hell outta your life. You're grown and you did a stupid thing by ever "partying" with her and your pills. Tell her this and explain it's not going to ever occur again. If she wants to suck it up and stay pals, she will. If not, when she sees you are serious, she'll move on to someone who just might "party" with her in the future. It's pretty much that simple....luci

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RE: I need some advice - 7/21/2013 1:57:37 PM

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fckk me in the azz. she called and pestered today.

I am about to call teh police.

And that would be about the stupidest move you've made yet and that's sayin' something. You gave her your pills voluntarily. Do you really want to call the police and get into this? Grow up and tell her like it is. Don't get yourself into legal trouble over this person. You need to man up and tell her like it is and tell her to leave you the hell alone, period. The only person who is going to suffer from getting the cops involved is you and you can believe that..........luci

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RE: I need some advice - 7/21/2013 2:01:19 PM

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I just re-read the whole string and maybe I misinterpreted when you said you had indeed "partied" together. I took that to mean that you HAD shared your pills with her. If I'm wrong, I apologize. I may be unclear on that part. Either way, you just need to tell her straight up to get out of your life and I would still avoid the police. That usually only makes a bad situation worse. Just try to stop feeding off the drama and ignore her. That usually takes all the steam out of a drama queen like her. Good luck......luci

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RE: I need some advice - 7/21/2013 3:06:01 PM

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As it turns out I did not call the police.

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