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RE: Women Getting Rude Emails - A Rant From Kansas - 7/21/2013 2:51:38 PM

DesFIP

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Because reality is totally different than in your head. Really want a total slave? Does that include waiting for you to tell her what to make for dinner every night? You want her to bring you the pickle jar so you can choose the pickle for your sandwich?

Or do you want someone who will tell you when you missed your exit so you don't keep driving another hour in the wrong direction? You don't get it both ways.

I don't see how one excludes the other. Care to enlighten me?

Because although it should not exclude the second, if you insist on you making every single decision, and her only going Yes Master and No Master, you'll teach her not to ever make a suggestion.

Suggestions are what lead to decisions. When all decisions are removed from you, it is almost guaranteed that suggestions will shortly follow. For fear of 'How dare you tell me what to do'.

Can it be done without this? Sure. Is the op capable of drawing this line? Doubtful imo.

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RE: Women Getting Rude Emails - A Rant From Kansas - 7/21/2013 3:41:22 PM

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I just did a search in Kansas. I found one submissive not dressed that didn't complain and the rest were mild and no complaints in the last day of log ins. Found some that were clearly fakes... but other than that, the women were dressed okay, nothing extreme and no real complaints. Anyone after these, that was nude tastefully or showing any skin, had a dominant.

So, where are all these nasty girls that are getting the bad emails, that might deserve it, coming from?

Us girls in Kansas are all nasty and totally deserve the messages, didn't you know?

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RE: Women Getting Rude Emails - A Rant From Kansas - 7/21/2013 3:49:58 PM

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Because although it should not exclude the second, if you insist on you making every single decision, and her only going Yes Master and No Master, you'll teach her not to ever make a suggestion.

Other than the guy professes goreanism what makes you think he wants a hand puppet? I read his profile and it doesn't read like that to me. Am I missing something?

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RE: Women Getting Rude Emails - A Rant From Kansas - 7/21/2013 4:32:32 PM

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if you insist on you making every single decision, and her only going Yes Master and No Master, you'll teach her not to ever make a suggestion.

Suggestions are what lead to decisions. When all decisions are removed from you, it is almost guaranteed that suggestions will shortly follow. For fear of 'How dare you tell me what to do'.

Can it be done without this? Sure. Is the op capable of drawing this line? Doubtful imo.

How are you reaching the conclusion that removing all decision making removes the capability to make suggestions?

That doesn't follow for me at all. There are various social constructs in which humans have their right to make decisions removed from to certain extends, prison and the military come to mind immediately. None of those have shown to make human being incapable of thinking for themselves, the only thing that's affected is how they express thinking for themselves.

A slave being ordered to only prepared food when told to, and only the type of food they're ordered to prepare, doesn't become incapable of asking permission to speak and politely point out that the household is almost out of pickles. Nor do they become incapable of doing the same when desiring to point out that the Owner took the wrong turn.

Especially not when strict orders have been given to point such thing (and other potential upcoming problems) out when every she notices them. I can't imagine any sensible Owner not having a standing order that potential problems need to be pointed out, nor did I see any indication from the OPs profile that he's looking for a strictly "yes Master, no Master" slave, prohibited from expressing any kind of intelligent thought.

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RE: Women Getting Rude Emails - A Rant From Kansas - 7/21/2013 4:48:50 PM

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What else could a slave girl want?

What any woman wants, surely ?........ LOL

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RE: Women Getting Rude Emails - A Rant From Kansas - 7/21/2013 5:12:56 PM

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"I want someone that knows how to treat a trailer trash whore right."

From what I've seen, a woman doesn't have to say anything like this to get a lot of the "Down on your knees bitch" messages. In fact, all she needs to do is have a profile in which her screen name is in pink or red and she'll be inundated.

I can tell you this. I've known a lot of women in the BDSM community, both dominant and submissive. Of those who actually do WIITWD, the vast majority discount almost anything said by a man who uses terms like "true master", as well as those who type all words refering to THEMSELVES or to dominants or "masters" all in caps. These are usually taken as signs that a guy is in serious need of a phallo-encephalectomy.

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RE: Women Getting Rude Emails - A Rant From Kansas - 7/21/2013 6:07:04 PM

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ORIGINAL: UonBndedNee
While I would probably not start off a communication like that, perhaps the profile owner should look at what they put
in their profile. If the only thing that is in your profile description is a statement like "I want someone that knows how
to treat a trailer trash whore right.", then those are the type of initial comment you are going to get. The only information
that a reader has to go off of is the information you provide.

If I am following your logic here, then it would be just as appropriate for you to offer blow jobs to every man
who lists oral as an interest, right? RIGHT?

When people list whatever interests they might have on their profile, it does not mean that those interests would be
enjoyed with any Dom Dick or Harry that visits the profile, but more what activities they would enjoy should
a relationship develop.

I hope this helped.

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RE: Women Getting Rude Emails - A Rant From Kansas - 7/21/2013 8:06:24 PM

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Because although it should not exclude the second, if you insist on you making every single decision, and her only going Yes Master and No Master, you'll teach her not to ever make a suggestion.

Other than the guy professes goreanism what makes you think he wants a hand puppet? I read his profile and it doesn't read like that to me. Am I missing something?

He's emptied the profile now. But at some point he said he's a total newbie. And my experience is that total newbies wanting a TPE are fantasists. And being quite cynical, I really don't think he's the one in a million who actually is aware that you can't run before you crawl.

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RE: Women Getting Rude Emails - A Rant From Kansas - 7/21/2013 10:29:17 PM

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP
He's emptied the profile now. But at some point he said he's a total newbie. And my experience is that total newbies wanting a TPE are fantasists. And being quite cynical, I really don't think he's the one in a million who actually is aware that you can't run before you crawl.

ahhh... I'd missed the "new to this" part.

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