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Women jealous of sissies - 7/24/2013 1:50:47 PM   
bumsniff


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Status: offline 		prob a question for couples, but i was wondering if any women on here ever got jealous of the sissy she and her man own or control because the sissy has become a fantastic lay and blow job expert for him.

cant imagine a domme getting jealous of a sissy, but if he starts to want head off the sissy more than her i can see how she might.
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RE: Women jealous of sissies - 7/24/2013 2:04:10 PM   
Rawni


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Status: offline 		Hey, no problem. If its all about a blow job, I wouldn't want him anyway. I would sure hope there was more to everything than petty jealousies anyway. The thing is... with some of us, 'he' would be submissive. That could be interesting. ROFL

Everyone has something they do better than someone else. Being jealous in a trio... something bigger is wrong.

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RE: Women jealous of sissies - 7/24/2013 2:05:15 PM   
SeekingTrinity


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Status: offline 		Meh, I think of it like that Scrubbing Bubble commercial tag line "they work hard so you don't have to"

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RE: Women jealous of sissies - 7/24/2013 2:09:38 PM   
bumsniff


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Status: offline 		my currant mistress seems to love that master loves getting blown by me. wil be doing it for him tonight because she is out tonight. i hope she would never be jealous of my ability. i am not out to cause anyone any trouble, just doing my best to please them both.

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RE: Women jealous of sissies - 7/24/2013 2:28:43 PM   
Rawni


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Status: offline 		I'd be more worried about that pride thing you have going on than anything else and the fact that you think it so important. Conjuring up that feel good of maybe being better than your domina? Whoa, sissy down.

< Message edited by Rawni -- 7/24/2013 2:29:31 PM >

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RE: Women jealous of sissies - 7/24/2013 3:20:51 PM   
bumsniff


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Status: offline 		your right, maybe i should stop thinking about it. but i do confess i am proud of bene good at it. learning to do somethign i never though i would, or would be good at is a massive buzz.

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RE: Women jealous of sissies - 7/24/2013 3:23:54 PM   
Rawni


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RE: Women jealous of sissies - 7/24/2013 3:30:03 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		It's great that you're good at it but it's not exactly a difficult skill to acquire.

If I were to 'share' ownership of anybody (we're a D/D couple with completely different styles, so not something we do from an ownership angle) it wouldn't be a sissy. I'm glad you found your situation but I'm completely turned off by sissies. Being a straight chick, I'm not attracted to females or anybody into CD/TV/TG. Different strokes for different folks and all of that.

Has the lady of the house ever mentioned being jealous? If not, you're probably conjuring stuff up in your head.


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RE: Women jealous of sissies - 7/24/2013 5:17:09 PM   
NiceButMeanGirl


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ORIGINAL: bumsniff

prob a question for couples, but i was wondering if any women on here ever got jealous of the sissy she and her man own or control because the sissy has become a fantastic lay and blow job expert for him.

Never. One, I would never "share" ownership or control of a sub, sissy or otherwise and, two, I would not get involved with a sissy on any level other than as a platonic friend. It's just not my thing. Three, blow jobs are not exactly rocket science to learn, I can do a damn good one myself, or so I've been told.

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RE: Women jealous of sissies - 7/24/2013 10:44:32 PM   
AthenaSurrenders


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I would be jealous even if a)the sub was not a sissy and b) the sub was rubbish at blowjobs. That's why we stay monogamous - not wired for poly. A lot of people are, but I'd say thinking of it in terms of who is best and it being a competition is a quick way to bring about friction and conflict.

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RE: Women jealous of sissies - 7/25/2013 12:59:52 AM   
lizi


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ORIGINAL: bumsniff

prob a question for couples, but i was wondering if any women on here ever got jealous of the sissy she and her man own or control because the sissy has become a fantastic lay and blow job expert for him.

cant imagine a domme getting jealous of a sissy, but if he starts to want head off the sissy more than her i can see how she might.


BS, wank much?

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RE: Women jealous of sissies - 7/25/2013 6:19:12 AM   
tazzygirl


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ORIGINAL: bumsniff

prob a question for couples, but i was wondering if any women on here ever got jealous of the sissy she and her man own or control because the sissy has become a fantastic lay and blow job expert for him.

cant imagine a domme getting jealous of a sissy, but if he starts to want head off the sissy more than her i can see how she might.


Allow me to dispel you of your fantasy.

A great blow job isnt a unique trait. Anyone can learn if they are willing. If that is your only talent, I suggest dropping the attitude. You wont last long.


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RE: Women jealous of sissies - 7/25/2013 7:25:43 AM   
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Status: offline 		Thanks for perpetuating the stereotype...

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RE: Women jealous of sissies - 7/25/2013 12:06:30 PM   
TNDommeK


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Op, if that's all you have to offer, that's not good.

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RE: Women jealous of sissies - 7/25/2013 9:51:08 PM   
MistressDarkArt


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ORIGINAL: lizi

BS, wank much?


A quick look at the OP's profile will answer that one. Oh, and I suggest you do NOT look too closely at the pictures unless you're in dire need of an emetic.

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RE: Women jealous of sissies - 7/25/2013 10:57:31 PM   
WebWanderer


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Status: offline 		Even if there are women jealous of sissies, they are vastly outnumbered by sissies jealous of women.

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RE: Women jealous of sissies - 7/25/2013 11:03:02 PM   
LadyPact


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ORIGINAL: OttersSwim
Thanks for perpetuating the stereotype...

From the bottom of My heart, I am sincerely sad that you have to fight such stereotypes.



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RE: Women jealous of sissies - 7/26/2013 8:07:29 AM   
OttersSwim


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Status: offline 		Thank you TNDommeK and LadyP. :)

It's a perpetual conversation here on CM...

There is so much more to a D/s or M/s dynamic than these stereotypes portray.

There are transgendered, CD, and sissy identified people out there who are looking for more in a D/s dynamic and understand this and are looking to meet a Lady on ALL life levels - not just satisfaction of kinky desires or acceptance of gender expression.

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RE: Women jealous of sissies - 7/26/2013 12:38:44 PM   
MistressDarkArt


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ORIGINAL: WebWanderer

Even if there are women jealous of sissies, they are vastly outnumbered by sissies jealous of women.


QFT, Wanderer.

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RE: Women jealous of sissies - 7/26/2013 9:25:08 PM   
njlauren


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Status: offline 		Hmm, in general when it comes to gender variant subs (sissies/CD/trans, etc), the only jealousy I usually see are complaints that a)the sub has longer eyelashes and b)has better legs than they do ......*lol*.

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