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RE: Very serious slave will stay with you forever - 7/27/2013 5:57:07 PM

Charles6682

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I personally would just try extra hard to find a Domme, no matter where I lived. I would adapt as the situations change. How about all the Female Dommes in Egypt right here on Collarme?

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RE: Very serious slave will stay with you forever - 7/29/2013 5:07:02 AM

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Hi Ahmad,

Welcome to CM, I'm sorry, but it doesn't look good for you at the moment, make it up with your dad mate, get a job, a bit of stability & maybe you'll have a bit of luck.

Good luck, Gary.

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RE: Very serious slave will stay with you forever - 7/29/2013 6:29:58 AM

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I pretty much concur with everything else that has been said so far - your situation is not good.

Given the recent developments and the last two years of constant turmoil, Egypt is not a good place to be.
I would also surmise that the BBC is far less emotive and less hyped in its reporting of the situation than you might see on US TV and the local Egyptian state TV also. And from what I've seen on live TV and other reports, the situation in Egypt isn't going to get much better anytime soon.

As others have said, you bring nothing to the table for any relationship to get started, let alone flourish.
Short of someone taking pity on you, I just can't see any Domme wanting to take on someone like yourself.
Male subs outnumber Dommes by several orders of magnitude.
That, in itself, would be an uphill (almost vertical) struggle for the cream of the crop of male subs.
For someone like yourself, with no job, no trade, no career, no home, limited prospects, probably limited funds, coming from a country suffering from civil unrest, your chances are severely curtailed to say the least.
Many Dommes would see you as someone wanting a meal-ticket and a cheap escape.
Given the rather uneven ratio where they have their pick of any male in the world, why would they choose you? Good looks and personality are just not enough these days in a flooded marketplace - you need to be a cut above the rest.
I'm not saying it can't happen - just extremely unlikely.

You need to be stable in many respects (job, career, home etc) before you can even think of your goal as a male sub - whether that be in Egypt or somewhere else. Work on getting yourself on a sensible platform to launch from and be someone special and a cut above all the other male subs out there otherwise you're flogging a dead horse.

IMHO, you have a lot to do before you would stand any chance.

Just my

ETA: Unlike many women in the same position, where they can flash their tits and pussy and promise the world to a (stupid) male dom(?), that sort of psychology doesn't usually work with most Dommes.

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RE: Very serious slave will stay with you forever - 7/29/2013 8:29:20 AM

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quote:

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That would be a fascinating topic if we had enough people from a variety of countries...What the BDSM scene, culture...is like.
I think it is especially difficult for anyone living in a culture that extremely frowns on their gender being on their side of the kneel
(Here..being a submissive female is not a popular concept but nowhere near the lashback that I assume dominant women in Saudi Arabia or a Submissive male in Argentina experiences).

Come visit me.... I'll even buy the drinks, darling! What a conversation we would have!

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RE: Very serious slave will stay with you forever - 7/29/2013 9:39:28 AM

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Ok sweetie I agree with just about everyone here. But this is where you need to think about YOU. If you left your country and family and friends and support network you would be completely dependent on this lady. What if she isn't a lady? What if she is a predator? Maybe her kink is to remove your fingernails with pliars or worse??

You are doing a dangerous activity in throwing Ýourself out to another persons mercy.especially in a country that isn't yours and for what? To stick out your tongue to your daddy?!

Another thing to think of is this. You are single and have plenty of time to also pick and choose. Use this time of un employment to stack up your skills and experience. Get a job that offers training. A domminant lady can clean her own bathroom, but in time you may be able to say you can rebuild her bathroom or maybe you can say that you have professional massage training or can help update her website. Get a skill that a dominant can use. A vibrator can even take the place of sex. And she can probably cook and clean for herself.

This is a time where you can not only better yourself but you can also make yourself more marketable and soon offer something to a Domme that she may not be able to easily aquire otherwise.

Welcome to collar me and I hope maybe I shed some perspective.

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RE: Very serious slave will stay with you forever - 7/29/2013 10:16:04 AM

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Welcome and good luck :-)

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RE: Very serious slave will stay with you forever - 7/29/2013 11:47:38 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: freedomdwarf1

Given the recent developments and the last two years of constant turmoil, Egypt is not a good place to be.
I would also surmise that the BBC is far less emotive and less hyped in its reporting of the situation than you might see on US TV and the local Egyptian state TV also. And from what I've seen on live TV and other reports, the situation in Egypt isn't going to get much better anytime soon.

I'll also add that many countries have pretty much stopped giving incoming visas to Egyptians.

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As others have said, you bring nothing to the table for any relationship to get started, let alone flourish.
Short of someone taking pity on you, I just can't see any Domme wanting to take on someone like yourself.
Male subs outnumber Dommes by several orders of magnitude.
That, in itself, would be an uphill (almost vertical) struggle for the cream of the crop of male subs.
For someone like yourself, with no job, no trade, no career, no home, limited prospects, probably limited funds, coming from a country suffering from civil unrest, your chances are severely curtailed to say the least.
Many Dommes would see you as someone wanting a meal-ticket and a cheap escape.

My own opinion:

I don't think I'd be interested in someone that has difficulty maintaining relationships with their family. It makes me wonder if it's lack of loyalty and effort. (I do understand that there are some situations where it is impossible.) But, here is a guy that says he'll stay with you forever, but he has bailed on his own family.

Wanting to have a relationship with someone just because you have no where to go is a crappy reason to have a relationship and cheapens that relationship.

The way to gain a female Dominant's attention is to be worthy of attention. Expecting her to support you and solve your problems doesn't fulfill that requirement.

So, yes, the above suggestions to focus on bettering yourself are good ones.

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