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THATS A STRAP ON SIZE MATTERS? - 8/2/2013 6:11:50 PM

missizabel

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I USE BEGGINER'S STRAP ON, for my Sub-males.
I also have 3 different dildos, different sizes.

I went shopping for my first strap on, last year, and I got the small one.

Thats is matter the size? I enjoy using my strap on on my subs, and so far I had never had a complaint.

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RE: THATS A STRAP ON SIZE MATTERS? - 8/2/2013 6:13:15 PM

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What?

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RE: THATS A STRAP ON SIZE MATTERS? - 8/2/2013 6:20:16 PM

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~FRing it~

OMG...I was just thinking today what exactly you specifically used when you spelunked asses, OP. Now I can sleep tonight

Oh wait, turns out I don't give a shit

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RE: THATS A STRAP ON SIZE MATTERS? - 8/2/2013 6:28:52 PM

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There's a "beginner" strap-on?

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RE: THATS A STRAP ON SIZE MATTERS? - 8/2/2013 6:31:43 PM

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ROFLMAO - so you went shopping last year and just decided to post about it today? Is there a question in your OP? I do not understand what "Thats is matter the size?" means, please explain. I mean, what is the discussion you are trying to start or did you just want potential clients to know you have three sizes of ass rammers?

On a side note, did you know advertizing your hourly incall/outcall business in your profile is against the TOS? Don't get me wrong, I respect the Dominatrix business, but is a business and other businesses on this website have to pay for advertizing. I saw your listing in the the Professional Services and visited your web. You are a very attractive lady, your adverts should do well. I am curious if you would pay to advertize here on CollarMe. Does this place bring you enough business to make it worth a subscription fee for a premium listing that let all your potential clients know your rates and services?

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RE: THATS A STRAP ON SIZE MATTERS? - 8/2/2013 6:32:58 PM

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There's a "beginner" strap-on?

Yes, they come with training wheels.

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RE: THATS A STRAP ON SIZE MATTERS? - 8/2/2013 6:35:18 PM

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Wear a harness that is comfortable for you.
Wear a dildo that you find attractive.

With subs, especially new ones, they tend to have eyes (and fantasies) bigger than their assholes. Find out what they can accommodate first by dildo and butt plug play before choosing the appropriate sized dildo for your strap on harness.

Remember, many - if not most - subs enjoy strap on play largely based on the pleasure the woman gets from it, but also can be distracted by pain or discomfort. You want to fully enjoy your "ride" while controlling his sensations and emotions. You need to feel comfortable in your 'appendage' and be able to move fluidly with it, and he needs to feel at ease with it both in its size and the way you are enjoying it.

Most important thing of all? Your pleasure. Don't let him pick the harness OR the dildo. You pick the harness and select the dildo based on the size you think he is able to accommodate.

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RE: THATS A STRAP ON SIZE MATTERS? - 8/2/2013 6:47:12 PM

DianeB269

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quote:

ORIGINAL: missizabel

I USE BEGGINER'S STRAP ON, for my Sub-males.
I also have 3 different dildos, different sizes.

I went shopping for my first strap on, last year, and I got the small one.

Thats is matter the size? I enjoy using my strap on on my subs, and so far I had never had a complaint.

And???

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RE: THATS A STRAP ON SIZE MATTERS? - 8/2/2013 6:53:42 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: DianeB269

quote:

ORIGINAL: missizabel

I USE BEGGINER'S STRAP ON, for my Sub-males.
I also have 3 different dildos, different sizes.

I went shopping for my first strap on, last year, and I got the small one.

Thats is matter the size? I enjoy using my strap on on my subs, and so far I had never had a complaint.

And???

I think her question is that she bought her first strap on, a small beginner one, and even though she hasn't had any complaints, does size matter?

Back to you Diane.

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RE: THATS A STRAP ON SIZE MATTERS? - 8/2/2013 7:09:41 PM

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ORIGINAL: MissToYouRedux

quote:

ORIGINAL: DianeB269

quote:

ORIGINAL: missizabel
I USE BEGGINER'S STRAP ON, for my Sub-males.
I also have 3 different dildos, different sizes.

I went shopping for my first strap on, last year, and I got the small one.

Thats is matter the size? I enjoy using my strap on on my subs, and so far I had never had a complaint.

And???

I think her question is that she bought her first strap on, a small beginner one, and even though she hasn't had any complaints, does size matter?

Back to you Diane.

So after owning it for a year she wonders if size matters?

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RE: THATS A STRAP ON SIZE MATTERS? - 8/2/2013 7:19:45 PM

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See...I will just stick with those who came with original equipment!!! IMHO, there is no substitute for the real thing...to each his own but I have never understood the interest in strap-ons....

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RE: THATS A STRAP ON SIZE MATTERS? - 8/2/2013 7:31:41 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

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ORIGINAL: MissToYouRedux

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ORIGINAL: DianeB269

quote:

ORIGINAL: missizabel
I USE BEGGINER'S STRAP ON, for my Sub-males.
I also have 3 different dildos, different sizes.

I went shopping for my first strap on, last year, and I got the small one.

Thats is matter the size? I enjoy using my strap on on my subs, and so far I had never had a complaint.

And???

I think her question is that she bought her first strap on, a small beginner one, and even though she hasn't had any complaints, does size matter?

Back to you Diane.

So after owning it for a year she wonders if size matters?

I don't know. Possibly wanting to maximize the experience?

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RE: THATS A STRAP ON SIZE MATTERS? - 8/2/2013 7:41:31 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

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ORIGINAL: MissToYouRedux

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ORIGINAL: DianeB269

quote:

ORIGINAL: missizabel
I USE BEGGINER'S STRAP ON, for my Sub-males.
I also have 3 different dildos, different sizes.

I went shopping for my first strap on, last year, and I got the small one.

Thats is matter the size? I enjoy using my strap on on my subs, and so far I had never had a complaint.

And???

I think her question is that she bought her first strap on, a small beginner one, and even though she hasn't had any complaints, does size matter?

Back to you Diane.

So after owning it for a year she wonders if size matters?

Men often own their equipment for longer and some still ask the same question.

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RE: THATS A STRAP ON SIZE MATTERS? - 8/2/2013 7:45:07 PM

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Omg, that's scary. Adverts as a pro....doesn't know shit about strap ons.

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RE: THATS A STRAP ON SIZE MATTERS? - 8/2/2013 8:41:16 PM

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^ Ouch, my ass just clinched up thinking about that and the potential mishaps.

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RE: THATS A STRAP ON SIZE MATTERS? - 8/2/2013 8:44:02 PM

CynthiaWVirginia

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I was into BDSM for eight years before getting into strapon play...

Also, in most areas, wouldn't doing penetration play on a client (unless someone is making a movie/clip) make a pro-Domme lose her license?

To answer the OP...glad you tried something you enjoy and are thinking about possibly trying for something bigger. bo was able to go to bigger sizes, gradually. Beware though about these strapon dildoes, the jelly ones. We had several that burned the H out of his arse, in a BAD way. Some ingredient, and I cannot remember what, had been added into it. Maybe others can clue you in toward brands that won't be ouchie.

And YES! Size can indeed make a difference, lol.

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RE: THATS A STRAP ON SIZE MATTERS? - 8/2/2013 10:01:22 PM

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Size matters. Women lie when they say it doesn't. It isn't the most important thing, but it's not negligible.

A woman can expand to fit any size. Unless you are talking about anal - I have no experience there.

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